kids and divorce

@Tina30219 (34164)
Onaway, Michigan
December 13, 2016 5:41pm CST
Tonight is not a good night for me so going to have a fes drinks and try to relax. My daughter texted me and started hef crap and I told her when I left that things we're going to be hard. I said your dad is the one that cheated and then she really started in on me saying I cheated and did it in front of her by grabing another guys penis whicb I never did. So I told hef goodbye. She asked me why I neved text or call her. I don't call because her dad is always standing right there and I can't text her because she don't have a phone she uses her brothers. Sorry I had to vent.
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@AmbiePam (49077)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Wow. I have no idea to say to that.
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@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
That's ok it is a lot. He will get what is coming to him in time I would love to be there when it happens to laugh in all their faces.
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@Jessicalynnt (47854)
• Centralia, Missouri
15 Dec 16
I guess you could text the boys notes for her now and then, but that does sound difficult. A cheating spouse is... as I have learned, a pretty awful thing. kids don't understand everything and if dad is right there, I am sure he is feeding them lines of whatever he wants.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
Yeah he just wants to come out like the good guy in it all and he is not.He will get his in time and it can't come soon enough.
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• Centralia, Missouri
15 Dec 16
@Tina30219 all you can do is what you can do, and if you can look in the mirror later and be proud of what you did, and not ashamed, well there you go.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
@Jessicalynnt You are right and I have nothing to be ashamed of I did nothing wrong. I am happy now and that is what matters.
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@amandajay (18072)
• North Shore, New Zealand
14 Dec 16
Sorry to hear what you are going through... But kuds should think in our side too. But normally girls get fathers side... Even my mum and dad also divorced... I used to stay with dad
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
Yeah and my daughter stuck with him through it all.
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@amandajay (18072)
• North Shore, New Zealand
14 Dec 16
@Tina30219 dont worry. Everything will be ok
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
@amandajay Yep all ok now my drink helped.
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@shaggin (36845)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Awww I am so sorry :-( Being cheated on hurts so much! I am so sorry for what you are going through. How old are your chidren I don't recall.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
Son is 23 and daughter is 16. It sure does it makes me so mad he is filling their head with lies.
@shaggin (36845)
• United States
14 Dec 16
@Tina30219 that is even more sad because your daughter is at a very impressionable age.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
@shaggin Yep they both think dad did no wrong that I did it all.
@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
I am so sorry you are going through this. It is heartbreaking when our kids turn on us. She probably only knows what her father says. He probably tells her those things that you did, making them up, just to turn your children against you.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
Yeah he is and it hurts more than the day he left me and the day they chose to stay with him I will get over it.
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
@Tina30219 your a strong woman. You will get through this and you have a good man who loves and supports you. Hugs
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@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
@Happy2BeMe Thanks and your right I do have a good man if it was not for him I would have been a mess going through my divorce.
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@LadyDuck (157243)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 16
I suppose that your ex is the one who says bad things about you to your daughter. It's so sad when something like this happens.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
It sure is. I hope when she grows up she will realize what he did and is saying is wrong.
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@LadyDuck (157243)
• Switzerland
15 Dec 16
@Tina30219 She will, now she is still too young.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
@LadyDuck Yeah I just don't sant her thinking what her dad did waz right so when she and hdr brother get married they do the same thing.
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@paigea (22199)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
I am so sorry that you are dealing with that. Take care.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
Thanks I am truing to keep my mind off of it being here helps
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@paigea (22199)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
@Tina30219 This is a good place to relax and to be distracted
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
@paigea It sure is this site helped me when I was going through all the messy divorce crap.
@Marty1 (33550)
• Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
14 Dec 16
@Tina30219 I hope things get straightened out soon. Sometimes girls just naturally gravitate towards their dad's. I am sure she still loves you!
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
She says she does and I told her I love thrm also but dad has their head filled with nothing but lies.
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@Marty1 (33550)
• Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
14 Dec 16
@Tina30219 Some parents do that try to put their kids down with lies if they want the kids on their sides. It just goes to show the dad is insecure bein afraid the kids will like you more. I know you are a great parent!
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
@Marty1 Yeah his first divorce was messy as well his ex-wife did that. Right now the kids don't want nothing to do with me thanks to him. I am not even going to talk to them I am not going to get myself upset over this crap.
@ms1864 (6986)
• Bangalore, India
14 Dec 16
Sounds like a difficult situation.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 16
It sure is. One of yhese days they will learn I hope.
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@DianneN (78053)
• United States
14 Dec 16
I'm so very sorry. He probably has poisoned her mind. I hope she grows to see the light and soon.
@Tina30219 (34164)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
I hope so as well .
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