I will miss him

@1creekgirl (10311)
United States
December 13, 2016 9:01pm CST
My husband's brother passed away yesterday in Arkansas, so my husband is flying out there tomorrow. Tommy never took care of himself. We think he probably had a heart attack since he had several in the past. He wouldn't make the effort to maintain relationships and was actually rather self-centered. I hope he didn't suffer. It's sad there probably won't be very many people at his funeral. I will miss my husband until he comes back home, but I'm sorry that most likely, very few people will miss his brother.
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@Happy2BeMe (74744)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
I am sorry to hear that. I am glad that her husband was able to be there though. Sad when somebody lives their life in that way. In the end they have few people who care. Wishing your husband safe travels.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Thank you. I miss him already! But I'm glad for his sister's sake that he can be there.
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@Happy2BeMe (74744)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
@1creekgirl yes for sure..he will be back home soon
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@cacay1 (32861)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Dec 16
Lonely world is felt if alone ..
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• Ponce De Leon, Florida
14 Dec 16
Had he always been this way, or did something happen to trigger this behaviour?
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
14 Dec 16
He was the baby in the family and was totally spoiled. He never outgrew it.
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• Ponce De Leon, Florida
14 Dec 16
@1creekgirl Ah, yeah I have a friend who is like that.
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@TRBRocks420 (77333)
• Banks, Oregon
14 Dec 16
Sorry for your loss and, prayers to your husbands brother and, the whole family.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
Thanks for the kind words.
@carebear29 (28585)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
14 Dec 16
Sorry to hear this
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@ms1864 (6992)
• Bangalore, India
14 Dec 16
My condolences.
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@amandajay (18072)
• North Shore, New Zealand
14 Dec 16
RIP
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@miniam (9241)
• Bern, Switzerland
14 Dec 16
Sorry to hear that.What made him a loner? was he an unpleasant person to be around? As far as l know, im a serious loner,apart from my husband and the people l work with who l only see at work, l have more or less no contact to the outside world but l more choose it this way, my health is not the best so im happier home and l dont want to hold people back to stay home with me. Let`s hope Tommy did not suffer in his final moments.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
Thank you. I hope it was quick and that he did not suffer. He was a loner because after awhile, people got tired of always being the giver and he was the taker. He just thought he was entitled to everything in life and had no interest in giving back.
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@miniam (9241)
• Bern, Switzerland
15 Dec 16
@1creekgirl What a sad way to live,people who are only takers sooner or later loose friends.
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@LeaPea2417 (20333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
14 Dec 16
That is very sad. May he RIP. How old was he?
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
He was 65.
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@LeaPea2417 (20333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Dec 16
@1creekgirl 65 really is not that old.
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@LadyDuck (156900)
• Switzerland
14 Dec 16
This is a sad situation, I am sorry for him, but if he had no friends there is surely a reason.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
The reason he had no friends was because he never once in his 65 years did anything for anyone else.
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@LadyDuck (156900)
• Switzerland
15 Dec 16
@1creekgirl Selfish people cannot have friends, I understand.
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@youless (91492)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Dec 16
I am sorry to hear that. I hope your husband will come home safe and sound after this issue.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
Thanks!
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15 Dec 16
I'm so sorry for everything with your brother in law. I'm sorry for your husband's loss. I'm sure that it's sad for him
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
It is sad, not only because he's gone at 65, but that he just didn't seem to fulfill God's purpose for his life.
@Platespinner (16492)
• Winston Salem, North Carolina
14 Dec 16
Sorry for your family's loss.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Thanks, Joanne.
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@CRK109 (14465)
• United States
14 Dec 16
How sad. It always makes me feel so sad when someone passes away almost unnoticed by the rest of the world. I'm sure it was his own fault, but it still feels awful to me to think that, when he was born, there had to be so much hope for the life of that child. And then something had to have gone dreadfully wrong.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
14 Dec 16
With him, I think it was just that he was always spoiled as the baby of the family when the rest of the kids had to work hard on the farm. Then he just never realized that you have to give in life and not always take. He wasn't a bad person, just selfish and unaware of life.
@Freelanzer (8910)
• Canada
14 Dec 16
Sorry to hear about your brother in law. It is really sad when people don't make the most of the lives they are given.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
15 Dec 16
It really is too bad to waste a life.
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@sugartoes (40713)
• Greencastle, Indiana
14 Dec 16
it's so sad some people die a lone like that I have a neighbor the SAME way, he has kids but they want nothing to do with him cause of the same reason.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
14 Dec 16
It's hard to see people just throw away relationships.
• Singapore
14 Dec 16
Sorry to hear the news, sounds like he was a bit of an introvert actually but what few friends he had might be very close ones, so at least he had that, and he had your husband as well.
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@1creekgirl (10311)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Thank you very much.
@averygirl72 (16656)
• Philippines
15 Dec 16
That's a sad news. May he rest in peace
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@Tina30219 (34124)
• Onaway, Michigan
15 Dec 16
Sorry for your husbands loss. Also sorry to hear there probably won't be many there.
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@AmbiePam (49054)
• United States
14 Dec 16
I've always thought it said if people didn't bother to shed a tear once the person was gone.
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@hereandthere (30971)
• Philippines
14 Dec 16
he lived the way he wanted. i hope his family won't have a hard time settling whatever personal stuff he left behind.
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