A debate and she starts attacking everyo e

@ricki_911 (19785)
Toronto, Ontario
December 19, 2016 7:46pm CST
A friend and I were having a good debate on Facebook over parenting mind you we have loads of different things it's just us we go back and forth over different things. Her sister chums in coming from a girl who has never supported herself, depends on her husband on everything, just had a kid and has no friends or goes out. So we were having innocent debate nothing attacking just basic. Her sister starts going how it's pointed to her and she's useless because she depends on herhusband and had a kid. I simple said it's a debate not personal and we really don't care. She starts attacking me saying she's better because she has a child and husband it's a big commitment, I can't have a opinion if I've never been married or had kids. I made the statement how I assuming she's never had a cat and knows nothing of a cat so she starts arguing over that. I'm like I feel like this is the issue people like her. Just arguing for arguing.
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@sallypup (28053)
• Moses Lake, Washington
20 Dec 16
The poor thing sounds bored.
@ricki_911 (19785)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Dec 16
Probably is I sure would be if I sat at home with a 8 month old and didn't do anything. She doesn't go anywhere, do anything and if someone invited her out her husband had to come. Sad really.
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@sallypup (28053)
• Moses Lake, Washington
20 Dec 16
@ricki_911 Trust issues balled up in this?
@ricki_911 (19785)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Dec 16
@sallypup I assume so. I haven't really been friends for at least 5 years. More her sister who has 2 kids and gets out more than her. She never had friends in school and was held back a year in school so she always had her sister. Bit since being with her husband she flips on everything and literally if anyone makes a comment general not so and so is stupid sort of deal she takes it personal. It's real sad. Even her sister told her to calm down. I'm like I'm not loosing sleep over any of this. She goes I'm not either beg to differ.
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@allen0187 (33857)
• Philippines
20 Dec 16
There are people who just argue just for the sake of arguing. I mean you were minding your own business and clearly the sister found these remarks disturbing because she felt that she was being alluded to. Not your fault at all. Clearly, if the shoe fits... you get the drift.
@ricki_911 (19785)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Dec 16
Oh yeah she went on and on even after I ignored her. She clearly just that hates her life.
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@allen0187 (33857)
• Philippines
25 Dec 16
@ricki_911 you are better off not paying any attention to her! Your peace of mind is more important!
@UncleJoe (10628)
• Virginia Beach, Virginia
20 Dec 16
You have obviously plucked her "guilty strings".
@ricki_911 (19785)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Dec 16
guess that's a way to see it.
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@Rohvannyn (3118)
• United States
20 Dec 16
Wow, what a toxic habit to have! Maybe she could get a hobby when the kid is older?
@ricki_911 (19785)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Dec 16
I think she should be healthy and get a hobby now not when the kids older. Should have a life even when having children.