Do you ever feel like you are under surveillance in your own house?

@snowy22315 (47367)
United States
January 27, 2017 10:20pm CST
I live with a roommate/boarder, and for the most part he stays to himself actually in his room however, he does come out alot during the day like once a hour to see what I am doing. If he doesn't see me he will sometimes look around. He is almost always here to the point that it is a little creepy. It is OK having him around but not 99 percent of the time!! I never get a break!
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• Bournemouth, England
28 Jan 17
We all need some solitude, a little 'me' time. I often feel that I am surveillance by the cat, especially as he spends a lot of time living in the bathroom, but I don't really mind.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
Oh yes, the cat always has ears tuned to me, even if he isn;t looking. I think he thinks mommy is a real weirdo!
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• Bournemouth, England
28 Jan 17
@snowy22315 They look at us with such pity.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
@asfarasiknow We can never be proper cats!
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@DianneN (78466)
• United States
29 Jan 17
He may be lonely or a bit insecure and likes knowing you're there.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
29 Jan 17
Probably he is abiy of a neanderthal. but he.s OK.
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@DianneN (78466)
• United States
29 Jan 17
@snowy22315 Sounds sad.
@Kandae11 (37186)
28 Jan 17
It would have been a better situation if he worked a 9 to 5 job outside.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
He is disabled so that is not going yo happen
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@Kandae11 (37186)
28 Jan 17
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@JudyEv (123432)
• Bunbury, Australia
29 Jan 17
I wonder if he feels insecure. I would find this a bit creepy too.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
29 Jan 17
I think he does to a degree. I just think he doesn't.t really trustnanyone. I t isn.t unique to me.
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@toniganzon (50007)
• Philippines
28 Jan 17
I haven't lived with a roommate for a very long time. The last one was when I was in college but we really didn't care much about each other's person business.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
I think this guy and I know more about each other than we care too!
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@sans224 (1833)
28 Jan 17
that is annoying i know. get rid of him, find a new place.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
Thus is my house! I do plan to sell asap but that could still be months or even years down the road.
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@Hatley (164652)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Jan 17
that would worry me some sounds little weird to me hope he is oka y
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
He is I'll but mostly phtsically
@hereandthere (31174)
• Philippines
28 Jan 17
when you leave the house, do you let him know? does he leave when you leave?
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
I don't make a point of telling him. Not necessarily if he goes out it is just for an errand.
@rina110383 (24134)
28 Jan 17
I live alone so no one can supervise me.
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@sharon6345 (126308)
• United States
28 Jan 17
That is funny. I hope that he finds something else to do.
@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
He is online alot but I wish he would just go away for a week or something...He doesn't even shop much. He gets his groceries like once a month!
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@sharon6345 (126308)
• United States
28 Jan 17
@snowy22315 I feel the person need to find a place to spend time.
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@snowy22315 (47367)
• United States
28 Jan 17
@sharon6345 I think he feels self conscious as he is on O2 he was going to the gym though.