When She Thinks I'm Lazy

Philippines
February 5, 2017 6:46am CST
She never knew where I get my money that she borrows every time she needs it. I get it from my online earnings where most of the time she complained that I haven't been standing up all day. I spend 12-16 hours working on and off line. Aside from working in the office, I work online and bake cakes to earn more. I get more money but I can't do much of the house chores. I cook our meals all the time and when they call me to wash the dishes that's the time I refuse to do because I've had so.much work for the day. I never had a rest day as I bake cakes all day on Saturdays and Sundays .. And this is what I get! They call.me Lazy for.not doing all they want. They just sit and tell.me what to do.. I'm so pissed off right now. They even tell my kid in my face that his mom is a big lazy pig..psshh! I wanted to scream on their faces too but that wouldn't do any good at all especially in front of my little boy.
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4 responses
@youless (87148)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Feb
That's very hurtful. In fact sometimes people can't really understand to each other. If they see you are in front of the computer, they will think you are playing it because they have no idea what the computer can do besides playing games. This is the misunderstanding. Perhaps you can show them your efforts and they can learn how to understand you.
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• Philippines
6 Feb
because they think computers are for Facebook and games
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@youless (87148)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Feb
@carexing25 They basically don't know more about computer.
@marlina (62176)
• Canada
5 Feb
Not knowing your situation, it is difficult to understand why the others treat you that way.
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• Philippines
6 Feb
yup and the worst is that they tell people i'm the kind of person they think i am
@Kandae11 (27001)
5 Feb
Who are you talking about? who calls you lazy?
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• Philippines
5 Feb
my mom.. and that's what hurts the most..my own mom doesn't understand my efforts and struggles
@marsha32 (6779)
• United States
6 Feb
Some people don't understand. My money is earned online, then also babysitting some for my middle daughter. I sell some of the things I make, some locally to friends, but mostly in my etsy shop. I do need to earn a lot more than I am.