Life Lesson :: Get ditched by those whom you Helped

@nomus24g (21349)
India
February 15, 2017 9:58am CST
This is almost a given fact, the one whom you must have helped earlier during their hard times, will ditch you when you need their help. And this has increasingly become a Life standard of today's era. Though this is my personal opinion, but what I have known - atleast 8 out of 10 cases turn out to be like this only. When you need help, those are the persons who will avoid and pretend to remain busy with their chores. What's your thought on this??
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@ragikutty (2462)
• Kerala, India
15 Feb 17
None can agree more than me. I will say 9.9/10 whom you helped will dig you a hole in no time. That is how life is. So now I have stopped helping anybody. I just do what my mind tells me to do.
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@nomus24g (21349)
• India
15 Feb 17
there you go, you too share the similar sentiment...but somehow, this didnt stop me from helping others, knowing the fact that...atleast one will value this help extended and will be of my help someday in future
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• United States
15 Feb 17
Even though there's a good chance the person won't return the favor if I need it, it still doesn't stop me from helping someone.
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@ragikutty (2462)
• Kerala, India
15 Feb 17
@nomus24g I have had ended up in quite a lot of troubles by helping others. So if I don't understand the point and quit, i think that will the worst thing I can do to myself.
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@syeow1 (4876)
• India
15 Feb 17
I really get impressed to know about your good soul.don't aspect help from those whom you help.when ever you help anyone think you are helping him for god.In return God will help you when you have need of it..
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@nomus24g (21349)
• India
15 Feb 17
but still, as a normal human being...theres a slightest expectation which one would carry, even though I know I would get nothing in return...
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@syeow1 (4876)
• India
15 Feb 17
@nomus24g believe upon me you will find some one better who helps you.because god helps those who helps others.
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@nomus24g (21349)
• India
15 Feb 17
@syeow1 sure bro...
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@amadeo (61398)
• United States
15 Feb 17
well I have never run across this problems.If I need help most people do.I my self help out a lot if they need it.
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@nomus24g (21349)
• India
15 Feb 17
that's good thing for you
@amadeo (61398)
• United States
15 Feb 17
@nomus24g I love helping people.As long they do not take advantage of me.
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@marlina (71208)
• Canada
15 Feb 17
Sometimes it does happen .
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@nomus24g (21349)
• India
15 Feb 17
thats rare though
@1creekgirl (9898)
• United States
15 Feb 17
It's sad, but you're probably right. There are a few people in the world who will return the favor, but very few.
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@nomus24g (21349)
• India
15 Feb 17
yes, they are rare in numbers...and because they are there, this world is still a better place...
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