My Idea of a Quiet Saturday at Home and Hers
By DW Davis
@DWDavis (25812)
Pikeville, North Carolina
February 18, 2017 9:13am CST
My idea of a quiet Saturday at home is to sleep in, relax over breakfast with a cup of coffee, do a little net surfing, check in on Facebook, check in on myLot, maybe spend some time in the yard with the dogs if the weather is nice, work on my latest story idea, and, basically, enjoy a day with no deadlines or to-do list.
Her idea of a quiet Saturday at home is to get up at 7, hurry through breakfast, check Facebook for anything important (as if there ever is), and start thinking up projects around the house for us to work on all day until we collapse, exhausted, in the evening.
She is in a tizzy right now because she worked the vacuum so much so hard this morning it overheated and shorted out. This was after she'd dusted the whole downstairs and deposited all the stuff on my side table in to the seat of my recliner with orders to throw away the junk and only keep what I needed. Then she told me my share of the chores today consisted of cleaning all the toilets, sinks, tubs, and mirrors, sweeping and mopping the kitchen, laundry room, and bathroom floors, and TBD.
She sees housework as a productive way to spend time. I see housework as a necessary evil to keep the house livable. She looks at a clean house and smiles contentedly. I look at a clean house and just think the dang thing will need to be cleaned again soon, so what was the point.
Whose idea of a Quiet Saturday at Home do you identify best with?
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11 responses
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Feb 17
Hey, if she loves housework so much, she can do it to her heart's content but leave you out of it!
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Feb 17
@DWDavis She is "spreading the wealth"!
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Feb 17
I would enjoy your idea of a quiet Saturday much better. Lol. I am not someone who's crazy about housework. As you said, it's a necessary evil.
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@rebelann (111143)
• El Paso, Texas
18 Feb 17
Well, you do have a different set of rules to follow since you don't live alone @DWDavis but, although I'm not alone exactly, I don't have to worry about anyone being offended if I put cleaning off until I feel dern good n ready to do it.
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
18 Feb 17
Actually, because of my military background, I rarely let things go around the house. The real difference is I do housework because it has to be done and she'll find things to do even when they aren't necessary just to be doing something.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
18 Feb 17
Although I do often, of my own accord, do a lot of housework on Saturday's, I'm with you all the way!
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@AutumnSnow (4584)
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18 Feb 17
My husband is truck driver and so he is gone a lot through the week at times all the week. So I try and get things done through the week and usually on Thursday nights the kids and I go through and make sure everything is done so we can enjoy the weekend with him. Sometimes we have things planned for the weekend but a lot of time we spend most of the time at home just relaxing and spending time together.
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
18 Feb 17
My wife and I both work full-time and our sons are grown and out of the house. Since we haven't managed to train the dogs and cat to clean the house, we have to do it on the weekends.
I'm sure your husband appreciates you and the kids getting all that done during the week so he can spend time with you while he's home.
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@AutumnSnow (4584)
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18 Feb 17
@DWDavis My two older girls will be out of the soon and Im sure it will be different then. Im sure by then my younger will two will appericated their older siblings then,lol. Wouldnt that be nice if we could train our pets to do that,lol My cats have learned to open the door,lol but thats about as far as it goes and my dog tells on the kids,lol.
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
19 Feb 17
I'm on your side, as sleep in great idea and I don't enjoy house cleaning. Yard work I'm fine with just not in the morning, as better for the evening.
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
18 Feb 17
Hers but I'm too lazy to do it. I started to clean out the fridge, then I texted my husband and said we need a new fridge because ours is too filthy. Then I sat down to play a game for awhile!
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@nottoooldtowrite (2715)
• Philippines
18 Feb 17
I like your idea of a quiet Saturday better than the idea of quietly cleaning up.
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