Expectations arise "disappointments "

February 23, 2017 2:53am CST
Don't blame others that they have disappointed you! Blame yourself because you had expectations to high from them! Nobody can disappoint us only our expectations do because these expectations are like a type of poison for our health That brings us frustration,sorrows and sadness. The perception that you have it about our mentality and our reality makes us to built some ides of limitations,where we expect that people or different situations to be in a way that we want. How many times for instance you went in a date and you expected the guy/girl to be in a way that your mind has created but in reality..your expectations were not even close to your visualization. How many times you thought about a thing and turned to be the opposite and I know for sure the list is wide open for each one of us! How many of us leaved with disappointments in our lives and..probably they still live? That's why ..don't expect anything from nobody ,better..be surprised then disappointed ??
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@pammooratan (4668)
• India
23 Feb 17
Expectations are the root cause of sadness. Controlling it any body can reduce his disappointment.
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23 Feb 17
Sweet statement!!! True saying Bless up
• India
23 Feb 17
@Magicallove Thank you.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
17 Mar 17
Yes indeed .. no expectations , no disappointments.
@mavlana (1019)
• India
24 Feb 17
yeah...expectations cause heartache. I too get hurt but it's the philosophy of my life not to blame other.Now, I don't even expect love from those whom I love.