Don't knw wat to do..

@kritis (650)
India
February 26, 2017 4:25am CST
My dear myLotters...actually i met a guy in train he is too good to me..we exchanged our numbers..since we are at same place so he wants to meet me..he is asking and i m not able to answer him..suggest me what to do..should i go to meet him or not..please suggest me friends..
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@MALUSE (42606)
• Germany
26 Feb 17
Why not? Go to a public place where you're not alone with him, to a café or restaurant. Talk to him. So you can find out if you like him or not. If you don't go, you'll spend the rest of your life wondering "What if?"
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@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
I agree..but i m staying in my friend's home and how to make an excuse
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@MALUSE (42606)
• Germany
26 Feb 17
@kritis What kind of excuse? I don't understand what you're saying here.
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@else34 (13604)
• New Delhi, India
26 Feb 17
The guy is a stranger for you.So I would like to suggest you to be cautious.If you want to meet him, meet him in a public place.If I were a girl I would be very careful before meeting someone who is a stranger to me.
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@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
yaa i can understand
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@else34 (13604)
• New Delhi, India
26 Feb 17
@kritis Thanks.Think with your mind,not heart and then decide.
@jstory07 (69069)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Feb 17
Go meet him in a public place. That way you know that it is safe.
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@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
Yaa he to wants to meet in public place only..bt i m bit confused..really should i go...@jstory07
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@pammooratan (4678)
• India
26 Feb 17
I suggest you never believe anybody.
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@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
Seriously confused..
• India
26 Feb 17
@kritis This is India.You understands well about it.Don't copy about foreign.
@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
• India
26 Feb 17
I call this a fifty fifty situation. As one says first impression is the best impression. Be cautious when giving numbers but now that you have given your number and if you are interested in communicating with the person you can tell your family about this and then think of meeting him. The second thing is he may be having a facebook, or similar such communication check about that too. You will come to know of his interests. Try to converse over phone initially and be observant you will come to know of many things. Think about his behavior with other copassengers in the train was it the same way as how it was towards you. Think how his mannerisms where. Tell him you need some more think to come and meet in that time if you would want him to he can communicate. Test his patience and in the mean time when you converse with him if you would want to you will know more. If you are unsure or not confident send a sms and say a clear no to meeting him. This way things will be clear at both ends. Hope this helps.
@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
Actually i m leaving city today..and he is insisting to meet..
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• India
26 Feb 17
@kritis Then meet him in the presence of family.
@kritis (650)
• India
26 Feb 17
@KumarKrisha staying at my friends house..
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@magnumopus (1674)
• Singapore
14 May 17
Hi! This reply may be too late now but what happened to you and the guy on the train as of today? Have a nice day.
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@kritis (650)
• India
15 May 17
Hi Mike..we talked for sometime..but nowadays we both were busy...we are still in touch.. may be we met this time as i know him much more..or may be not..will update you soon about it...but still not sure about our meeting and taking our friendship to the next level...or its just you can say i don't know about his feelings...I think we are just good friends... see next what happens
@kritis (650)
• India
15 May 17
By the way what will you do if you were there in my place.
@shivamani10 (11200)
• Hyderabad, India
26 Feb 17
What is there? Do you have any feelings for the guy? Nothing wrong in meeting another human being if he is not an Alien,, What a backward mentality...it is still existing and throbbing the brains of the youngsters who are living in present generation. Be friendly, learn to move freely, learn to exchange views and learn to know things..
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@stapllotik (1172)
• India
27 Feb 17
You have to answer yourself under what mentality you exchanged numbers with him. Decide that and act, and Ofcourse initially you don't want to meet him in a Pvt place?
@rina110383 (24072)
27 Feb 17
If you'll meet him, do it in a public place.
@avi256 (4367)
• Pune, India
27 Feb 17
You have already met him at train, so meeting at any other public place should not be an issue. You just need to be aware of what you are thinking and try to analyse where this is leading upto.
@maezee (32955)
• United States
26 Feb 17
What could it hurt? Or you could ask him to exchange emails or texts with you for a little bit to try to get to know him. Let us know what you do!