The Year We Sold The Ponies The First Time

@JudyEv (325759)
Rockingham, Australia
February 26, 2017 6:18pm CST
I've been going through old paperwork and came across a receipt where we 'sold' our two ponies to my father. This brought back a few painful memories. In 1980 we bought into a farm machinery business with two other couples. They put their farms up as surety for a massive bank loan which we should have been able to manage. However we then ran into four years of drought at the end of which the bank was threatening to foreclose. The interest on the loan was horrific and without credit the business couldn't buy spare parts, etc. The drought meant farmers were also doing it tough and weren't buying new machinery. The business got so close to being wound up that we really feared that the bailiffs could turn up at any time to seize anything of value. We 'sold' the horses to my father hence the receipt, signed a statutory declaration to say the piano also belonged to my parents, gave Vince's LP records to a brother for safe-keeping and sold a small freezer to a sister-in-law. We didn't have much else of any value. Vince began applying for other positions and, once he found one, we walked away with nothing. The others carried on and were able to eventually trade out of their problems. If we hadn't left it was likely they would have lost their farms. It was tough at the time but I'm not looking for sympathy. In the end, it all turned out for the best. And it is also nice that we managed to stay good friends with the four partners despite the circumstances. I wonder what will turn up in the next batch of paper.
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@DianneN (246795)
• United States
27 Feb 17
That must have been an awful time for you. I'm happy that everything turned out for best.
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@DianneN (246795)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv It was all dependent on the forces of nature. Glad you didn't go under.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
@DianneN Thanks. It hardly seems real sometimes but it was real enough at the time.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
At the time it is such a big deal. No wonder people sometimes go under.
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@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Feb 17
Oh gosh, that must have been a real difficult time for you all! I'm glad you were at least able to save the valuables you had and that you were able to stay friends with your partners (many times it's quite the opposite!). I hope the ponies were ok too!
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@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv Ah, so the ponies were able to remain where they were and live happily ever after! That was wise and fast thinking!
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
The ponies didn't know anything about it! It was just a safety measure to prove to the authorities that they didn't belong to us. That way they couldn't be seized and sold.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
@much2say Yes, that's just about how it was. :)
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
27 Feb 17
This is a good idea for churning out topics. Great way to rummage through old memories.
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@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
27 Feb 17
I'm sure that receipt brought back some painful memories. Hopefully the next ones will be better.
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@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv I'm sure it was hard. I'm glad things got better for you and your husband.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
We had many good things happen in later years. I'm sure it was for the best but it's hard to even think that at the time.
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• United States
27 Feb 17
It's experiences like this that make life interesting and give us stories to tell. Painful, of course! But we move on and learn from it. Good for you to take steps to protect what little you had.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
It doesn't hurt so much now. It was a long time ago and we've come out okay. We have much to be thankful for.
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• United States
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv That's good to hear.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 Feb 17
I am glad to hear that everything worked out in the end.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Yes, we were lucky in that, after being brought to our knees, we eventually fell on our feet (don't you love the English language?) so it's all good.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv The English language can be funny at times I guess that is why it gets confusing to people who their native language isn't English.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
Wow that had to be really upsetting to go through. Did you get your horses back ever?
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
They never actually went anywhere. It was just done so we'd have evidence that they weren't ours and so couldn't be taken from us. I don't think any money even changed hands. We had the receipt that we could have shown to the authorities and that was all we needed.
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv oh I see that was a wonderful idea then and I am so glad to hear you did not actually have to give them away.
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@suziecat7 (3350)
• Asheville, North Carolina
27 Feb 17
Wow - bad times for you guys. Glad it all worked out.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Thanks. It did work out so we were very lucky in that respect.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
i never would have thought there was a time in your life that you didn't have much else of any value and eventually walked away with nothing given where you are now. your resilience is inspiring.
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• Philippines
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv that's what i was referring to, the unexpected grueling valleys, and i'm glad you're still together.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
We started off our married life with very little as did most of our friends so it wasn't unknown not to have much. But it did mean that after 13 years of marriage we started again from scratch. Thanks for the kind words. :)
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
@Tampa_girl7 (48937)
• United States
27 Feb 17
Most of us have had bad situations happen . I am pleased that you came through it.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48937)
• United States
28 Feb 17
@JudyEv my husband and I have surely had our share of ups and downs.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Thanks. Life isn't a bed of roses for too many is it? Not all the time anyway.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
@Tampa_girl7 I'm sure many couples have gone through some tough times. We were probably lucky that this was the worse we faced.
@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
28 Feb 17
I take it you are cleaning?
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• Centralia, Missouri
2 Mar 17
@JudyEv I have found it's refreshing to clean and pair down now and then
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Mar 17
@Jessicalynnt It's surprising what a difference it makes to your outlook.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
There is quite a lot of correspondence from our working days that can now go out. The receipt was in with those papers.
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• Eugene, Oregon
27 Feb 17
I hope that it brings back better memories than this one did.
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• Eugene, Oregon
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv There are years like that , I know. I am glad things turned out better in the long run.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
@JamesHxstatic Thanks. :)
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Thanks. It was a long time ago now and, as I said, it all turned out for the best. It was hard to find much that was positive at the time though.
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@franxav (13603)
• India
27 Feb 17
You've come through those difficult times. Your story inspires those who may be in similar times.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
It seemed like the worst possible thing at the time but all's well that ends well.
@Kandae11 (53679)
27 Feb 17
It was the unexpected nature event which caused the venture to fail.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Yes, if it hadn't been for the drought I'm sure things would have been different.
@jstory07 (134456)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Feb 17
At least in the end you could walk away and everything ended up good.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Yes, that's true and in the end it all turned out well.
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
27 Feb 17
I am so sorry Judy you went through such a hard moment. I know that this is something that can happen and I am sure you made the right decision. Finally all's well that ends well.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv So true, sometimes a change is the better thing that can happen to us.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
In the end, Vince got a very good job in the city which more or less 'made us'. We were lucky that it turned out so well.
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@DeborahDiane (40054)
• Laguna Woods, California
27 Feb 17
@JudyEv - Isn't it amazing how old paperwork, a photo album, or even a child's drawing can bring back so many memories ... both beautiful and sad? I'm glad you all got through that situation and were able to remain friends.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
Yes, you keep these things stored away and only come across them years later. One couple live quite close to us now and we visit from time to time. We still stay in touch with the other couple too.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
It is when during those times that we found something, learn something from ourselves :) Glad that best things happened after :)
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
Thank you. Yes, it does push us to become better/more able to cope or whatever.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
28 Feb 17
You gotta do what you gotta do sometimes. I once had to sell off almost everything I owned, which is why I now keep it as minimal as possible.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
It is actually very freeing isn't it, to get rid of lots of stuff. But it's a bit different if you're forced to rather than doing it of your own free will. I don't feel terribly 'free' yet.
@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
27 Feb 17
It's scary to think the banks can take your things away
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Feb 17
True but they would be trying to get some of their money back.