The Hunchback

@DianneN (246819)
United States
February 28, 2017 4:33pm CST
An acquaintance of mine killed herself 6 weeks ago. I found out moments ago from my friend. She found out from a friend. The woman was an acquaintance. She had no friends. She didn't know how to be a friend. We went to her parties in her beautiful homes. My husband had one of her sons as a student at the university. That tied us together. Her husband died flying his own small plane. We were there to console her. She took wonderful care of her appearance, until she developed an unsightly hunchback. She tried to hide it by gaining weight. Of course that didn't disguise it. We pretended not to notice it. She was a former nurse and gave herself insulin injections. She moved away without a goodbye. Her son found her slumped over on her couch. She hadn't taken her insulin in days. She died of a heart attack all alone. This is such a sad ending. My friends and I believe she never got over her husband's accident on a Halloween evening ten years ago.
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@xFiacre (12598)
• Ireland
28 Feb 17
That's so sad @diannen
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
28 Feb 17
I'm still sitting here in shock!
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Mar 17
How sad. She must have been hurting so much inside. Does anyone know why she developed a hunchback? I guess the loss of her husband plus the development of the hunchback was more than she could take.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
It was shocking to see how quickly she developed her hunchback! From what I read, it could be a form of osteoporosis. The sad thing is that the rest of her looked great. She obviously was very low and sad to have done such a thing. I'm still in shock.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@HazySue And wonder we will. We all have ups and downs, but things usually seem better the next day.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
1 Mar 17
@DianneN that's true. Things generally do look better when given a little bit of time and consideration.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
1 Mar 17
This dying alone situation is quite common these days. It is more out of compulsion than by choice. Talking about hunchback one of my friends I am told has it now but she goes for parties and stuff.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
2 Mar 17
@DianneN She was so bubbly when she was normal but when this happened she just could not live a normal life
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
It's a sorry state, no matter how it's done. Hunchbacks are awful to look at. I'm glad your friend still goes out. I'm so vain, I'd stay in the house forever.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
2 Mar 17
@allknowing That must have been painful and awful. Poor lady.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
1 Mar 17
That is indeed sad. Imagine, a rich woman yet lonely.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 Mar 17
@DianneN And that is very true.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
It just proves that money can't buy happiness.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
7 Mar 17
@DianneN Very Very true
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 17
I am very sorry Dianne. I think you are right she never got over her husband's accident.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
She constantly spoke of him, even to the companion she hired to drive her around and had lunches with. Her companion thought her husband passed away recently, and not years ago, from the way she spoke of him. So sad!
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 17
@DianneN I can understand how terrible it is to lose your husband, I do not even want to think to this.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@LadyDuck I can't think of it myself. Just awful!
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@Tampa_girl7 (48954)
• United States
1 Mar 17
That is so very sad.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48954)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@DianneN I know that can of shock is hard to get over. I recently lost two friends.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@Tampa_girl7 That is just as awful. Twice as bad. Hugs.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
I'm still shocked, Marie.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
1 Mar 17
Sad to hear about this. How old is her son? I hope there is someone to look after him
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Very sad. I'm not sure of his age.
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@Tina30219 (81540)
• Onaway, Michigan
1 Mar 17
Wow how very sad. How old is her son?
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@Tina30219 (81540)
• Onaway, Michigan
1 Mar 17
@DianneN Wow you are so right what a loss for them all.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
He's a young man. She had six children and many grandchildren. Such a loss for them all.
@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
1 Mar 17
It's a depressing story. Not everything went right with her life. That's life for other people it can get really tough at times so we nee to be positive all the time
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
1 Mar 17
@DianneN Not all people are lucky or sometimes hit by bad luck. That's life
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@averygirl72 She certainly got hit with bad luck. Life is what you make of it. Life does have its ups and downs, even for the "lucky" people.
@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
I am still so upset over this. She really had so much to live for, despite her other problems.
• United States
1 Mar 17
That is really so sad to hear. I'm so sorry for your loss Dianne and it's a shame she had such an unhappy ending to her life.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Thanks, Marilyn. I am still so shocked. Who would have ever thought it of her?
@paigea (35691)
• Canada
1 Mar 17
That is so sad. I feel for her son and the rest of her family.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Her family is devastated!
@paigea (35691)
• Canada
2 Mar 17
@DianneN I can only imagine.
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• Philippines
1 Mar 17
Omg! That is so sad. She must have been depressed.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
I would think so. I'm still shaken up.
• Philippines
1 Mar 17
@DianneN so sorry to hear that. News like this is always saddening.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Mar 17
Sorry to hear this. She must be problematic about it or tired or something. She should have talk to someone so that she can feel better.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Such a waste of life!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Mar 17
@DianneN It does. Condolence to the family.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
28 Feb 17
How very sad. You said that she took wonderful care of her appearance, then I suppose developing the hunchback and the loss of her husband was too much for her.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
28 Feb 17
Yes! She was very pretty and even received fat injections saved from her body and put into tiny wrinkles in her face. Her clothes and accessories were top notch. She bought new five bedroom houses just for herself. To top it all off, she was very active in charitable organizations. She continued to talk about her husband for years. We watched that hunchback grow and grow and grow. One day she was fine. The next, there it was. I'm sure that, lack of friends, her diabetes, and the loss of her husband finally did her in. I'm still shaking as I write this.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@Kandae11 Definitely.
@Kandae11 (53679)
28 Feb 17
@DianneN But with all that wealth she could have still had a comfortable life- and she had children as well.
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@jstory07 (134460)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Feb 17
What a sad way to die.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
It is awful!
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
28 Feb 17
that is very sad there.she did not want to live without her man.These things happens.So sad.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Very heartbreaking.
1 Mar 17
that's very sad indeed. i'm sorry to hear about it
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Thank you. I'm still so upset about it.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Feb 17
This is indeed very sad. Outside appearances can be very misleading.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
28 Feb 17
That's so true. I've never known anyone who did this. And she had wonderful, successful grown children and beautiful grandchildren. What a downer.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
1 Mar 17
Ten years is a long time to grieve over her husband's passing. I'm guessing she lived alone.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Yes, she lived alone. She was a lonely soul.
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
1 Mar 17
Very sad end to her life. She was probably very troubled and felt helpless.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
1 Mar 17
She must have been, but she certainly fooled her son's and daughters. I feel badly for them and their kids.