I worried about our friend Barry @Asylum
By Kevin
@kevin1877uk (36988)
February 28, 2017 5:34pm CST
I worried about our friend Barry @Asylum
I'm sorry if this post is against any rules of Mylot.
During this evening over many comments with Barry and him not wanting to go anywhere not even on holiday, which is unlike him, he is always going somewhere as many of you know.
It appears that the other night he went to the bathroom and after feeling dizzy fell and hit his head, which he didn’t remember until the following day when he saw dried blood from his forehead when looking in the mirror.
I’m hoping that he get help or as gone help by now.
I hope by writing this it will push him in to getting help, please Barry, get some help.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
1 Mar 17
That is so scary. I sure hope he goes and sees a doctor and that everything will be okay.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
I would hope so that he does at least him himself checked out.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
1 Mar 17
@kevin1877uk Yes he should get checked out! It is better to be safe.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Mar 17
Oh goodness, that is so unlike him. 
I hope he will get seen very soon.
I hope he will get seen very soon.3 people like this
@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
I hope so too, I hope when he comes back on here there is good news and he's gotten some help.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
1 Mar 17
If you remember, he was sick during his last holiday and then was not online and some of us were worried on another post. Now he has returned and explained the latest events and even though he was here, he MUST get a check-up!
When you live alone, if anything happens like the episode that he spoke of, it could be ages before anyone realises.
I can understand thathe does not want to go into hospital but if he does not go to his doctor then he soon might have no choice
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
Yes, I agree with you that he might not have any choice in the matter. I didn't know he wasn't too well on his last holiday with not being here that much. I do hope that he gets checked out, I also understand the thoughts of going into hospital, I just hope he does the right thing and ask for help.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
@mysdianait Thank you, I have just seen it, I hope he's ok and not getting too worried over his fence
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
1 Mar 17
He should be fine as I see he has been responding the latest being 6 hours ago
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
1 Mar 17
@kevin1877uk All is well then. He must be living alone as do many these days and this dizziness among the old is quite common.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
@allknowing Yeah dizziness is? Oh, I'm not looking forward to that in years to come.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
Yes, I agree, Anna, I hope he gets checked out, living alone and having that kind of problems is good, feeling dizzy and passing out, isn't good.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
@LadyDuck True living alone can be dangerous when you are like that. Sorry to hear about your husband feeling dizzy
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@LadyDuck (458006)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 17
@kevin1877uk I know that it's a serious problem, my husband often feel dizzy, but I am at home and I can help him.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
Thank you, I hope he his ok and he does get checked out, not seen him here today so far.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
@JudyEv Yes I know, it was on another post he mentioned about what had happened in comments to me and @mysdianait
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@JudyEv (325693)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Mar 17
@kevin1877uk He just posted a while ago as you've possibly seen. He didn't mention any problems apart from a fence and gate.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
Thank you, I hope he does, you just never know, it could be anything.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
1 Mar 17
Speaking from experience, some people are very stubborn about their own health.
I can't blame him for not wanting to go get tended to but I do hope he goes to see someone about it.
I don't think the post is against any rules, but I hope he won't be upset at you for posting about it either!
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
Thank you, yes you are right some people can but, men more so than ladies. I'm sure barry will be fine with this, he is a good guy I'm just hoping that it makes him does something, not doing anything isn't good, you don't know what could happen.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
@ScribbledAdNauseum Yes i totally agree, anything like you have mentioned, he really needs to, you just don't know what could happen next.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@kevin1877uk Yes, his head injury could have been much worse.
It could be any number of things that would have caused him to fall. Anything from not getting enough nutrients to not sleeping well. I *think* a stroke may even cause dizziness and a brief unconsciousness.
Seizures can cause you to fall, though you do tend to realize you've had one after waking up on the floor.
Whatever it is, I hope he goes to get it checked out.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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1 Mar 17
Yes I believe he does live alone, never seen him mention that he lives with someone.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
1 Mar 17
@kevin1877uk Are you going to see him?
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@Jessicalynnt (50525)
• Centralia, Missouri
2 Mar 17
I agree, I hope he get's checked. It could be as simple as an ear infection, but could be more, so I agree, go see your doctor!
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@jillybean1222 (6408)
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1 Mar 17
that's when it is so hard to only know people virtually. it's hard to really reach out when we don't see each other IRL. Hope all is well with Barry
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@reskyyandi (3616)
• Indonesia
1 Mar 17
What?? Oh my God, That's so scray. I think he should go to the doctor
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
28 Feb 17
Oh, that is sad to hear. I do hope he has been seen by a doc now.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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28 Feb 17
I hope so, but from what I was getting from his comments, he hasn't.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
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28 Feb 17
It sure it and I'm hoping he ok and gets some kind of help.
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