When You and Your Husband Have Misunderstanding
By Morning Girl
@salonga (27775)
Philippines
March 5, 2017 8:08pm CST
Would you make the first move unmindful of who is right or wrong ?
I guess misunderstanding is something natural to all couples. I and my husband have had misunderstandings over petty things but we always "kiss and make up" as soon as we could.
For few times it was my husband who did the first move to reconciliation but most times, I was the one (of course swallowing my pride for the sake of peace). And I guess my heart easily softens up when I remember the goodness of my husband.
Today, I do have misunderstanding with him but I swear, I won't make the first move this time even if he has been a very good, faithful, thoughtful, hardworking husband to me for almost 32 years now. Sometimes I am also very tough you know. 
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29 responses
@allknowing (130067)
• India
6 Mar 17
For men I think it is short lived while women would harbour that misunderstanding for days and bring it up often. The famous quote 'After the storm comes the calm, after the calm comes the sunshine' served us well.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
6 Mar 17
I will make the first move, after almost 50 years nothing is worth staying mad over.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@BelleStarr Wonderful! You touched my soft heart here.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
6 Mar 17
@salonga I just like peace and comfort and this is best accomplished with harmony.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
6 Mar 17
@salonga , I have a hard heart, which is probably why I have never married. If a man upsets me, I walk away and don't look back. So, I would say, that your husband should make the effort to make peace. But, that is me. So, I will say instead that I hope that you decided to do what suits you in regards to the misunderstanding.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
indeed, pride can sometimes take its toll.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Mar 17
@salonga so, how are you and your husband now? playing beautiful music once again? that is great
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Mar 17
@ridingbet hahaha slowly making up with our body language. hahaha!
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
7 Oct 17
Sometimes you really have to be tough in a situation. But me, I cannot imagine how our life will go on with misunderstanding for even a day so I always make the first move, and do it most of the time, in the evening when we go to bed.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
10 Mar 17
I'm surprised! Why are you being stubborn this time? Or, are you just pretending to be tough?
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I won't really talk to him for two days or more. But in the end, I cannot go on not talking to him. 
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
16 Mar 17
I've never start any argument between my husband and I so I don't make any move to break the ice .. lol .. but of course he thinks he never starts any argument but it was his duty to break the ice.. as one of his wedding vows ... heheh! ..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
19 Mar 17
@salonga yes, that's the husbands' silent sacred vows .. heheh..
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
Whenever a friend of ours had a misunderstanding with his wife (bless her soul; she passed away 2 or 3 years ago), he would go see a movie and when he came home, a nice dinner has been prepared on the table :)
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@sunrisefan My heart is melting, I might just do what you are expecting. Good morning...and enjoy your morning walk.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
@salonga Hahaha! Naughty wife you are! Going out for my early morning walk. Expecting a nice breakfast from you for your husband today :)
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Mar 17
So this time you are determined on not compromising. But I am sure you will melt very soon.
Hope these things makes the relationship stronger and strongest. 32 years is long time which means both of you are compromise and stand up for each other.
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@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
9 Mar 17
You know what they say... never go to bed angry... I never do, Life is too short to stay mad....Good luck, i hope he apologizes soon.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
6 Mar 17
Ha ha, that's normal for a couple, it just make the more romantic and sweeter relationship for you. It's not important who make the first move, what's important is there always someone who make the first move.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
6 Mar 17
We usually carry on as usual. It never last two long. We may have a disagreement one moment and the next we are talking again. We never stay upset with each other. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff.
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