Get My _ _ _ _ Together

@andriaperry (116860)
Anniston, Alabama
March 23, 2017 12:29pm CST
Sometimes when life is in limbo I tend to just go with it, whatever the day brings. But I cannot live like this anymore. I need a life. I need to have a plan of what I will be doing the next day or even next week. I sort of gave up my life goals to take care of someone that had cancer, I say had because he has finished treatments and is now healing from those. Of coarse it will be weeks before the final scan to "see and tell" what is what. My home has suffered, my Getting off the grid plans have suffered. And the worst realization is that my health has suffered. Time to make those lists and get my scat back together! How about you? Do you have plans for life or do you just live day by day?
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@shaggin (71664)
• United States
23 Mar 17
I am kind of in a rut too but am hoping once I get my son is a better state hopefully I can get myself better as well.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
23 Mar 17
Yeah, I don`t like those ruts.,
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@jstory07 (134425)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Mar 17
Now that I am retired I sell at the local flea markets and floating flea markets and do yard sales. We just go with the flow each day.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
23 Mar 17
When I retire I want to be 100% self sufficient. I want to be one of the stronger elderly people not one of the weak and frail, if possible.
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@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
23 Mar 17
Like you, it is taking me time to get organised after caring for a sick person and then getting sick myself. I am starting to create some structure.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Mar 17
I can`t get sick even if it happened.
@DianneN (246643)
• United States
23 Mar 17
Thank goodness for you taking such good care of that person! I hope the scan will show him cancer free. Then you can plan or not plan anything you want. You need a big hug!
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@DianneN (246643)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@andriaperry That would be a well deserved vacation, too! Fingers crossed and prayers sent.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
@DianneN Thank you.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Mar 17
Aww, thank you. I hope all is clear and I can plan a vacation!
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@NJChicaa (115972)
• United States
23 Mar 17
Good for you for realizing that you need to have a plan to get things back on track. I guess I'm just going day by day? No big plans to change anything in my life so I just keep on keeping on.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Mar 17
But you have a schedule, you go work out.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
@NJChicaa So you do make plans!
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@NJChicaa (115972)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@andriaperry yes 5pm M W Th
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Mar 17
I think I live day by day, but it works all right for me. It's always something different.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
You have a point, being a landlady is not routine and always different so maybe that is why I like to plan things.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Mar 17
@andriaperry I can imagine the problems you have to solve.
@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I am still aiming my goal this year. I need to work hard for it.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@andriaperry My goal is to acquire an ideal house this year.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
what is your goal?
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
23 Mar 17
I hope that you can find a decent plan to help you out. Personally, I can only live one day at a time, no more big plans for me.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Mar 17
I think I will always plan things.
@Tampa_girl7 (48908)
• United States
25 Mar 17
I do have some plans, but mostly take one day at a time.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48908)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@andriaperry good for you
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
I made a plan to get out today and I did.
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24 Mar 17
i've been living sort of day by day in a way, though i'm caring for my kids. i'm doing the yoga training, but i'm still a little nervous about where it will lead me.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Mar 17
Don`t be nervous, you will make it
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@JudyEv (325651)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Mar 17
I guess really we don't have a lot of plans although we have a sort of general map of where we hope we're heading.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
That is what I am talking about.
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• Banks, Oregon
24 Mar 17
Nothing is harder then getting back to you after giving up so much of ones life to help someone else, i have been in a similar situation and am still not out completley still have depression, hope things get better it really is a day by day...
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Mar 17
And everyday gets better and better.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
24 Mar 17
I'm a day to day guy.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Mar 17
Do you still have so many miles you want to ride each year?
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
24 Mar 17
@andriaperry - Yes, I guess that is a goal.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
23 Mar 17
I am happy your person is all done with the treatment - and I hope that the scans will show all clear. Start a little bit at a time and I'm sure you'll be back to normal soon at least, I hope
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
23 Mar 17
Thank you.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
23 Mar 17
@andriaperry Keep us updated :-)
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