Fake Smiles

@DianneN (246334)
United States
March 24, 2017 8:10am CST
There are so many people I see daily here in sunny Florida. Some I know, others I don't. But we always greet each other with a smile and a greeting. I think these smiles are genuine, because a sunny day always makes one feel more upbeat. Our ice princess is a figure skater. One of the lessons she had to learn was to smile throughout her competitions and not look as if she were concentrating on her performances. I believe she has improved tremendously. She used to skate with a fake smile, gritted teeth, and frozen phony smile. I like to give natural smiles, too.
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@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
24 Mar 17
Smiling improves your mood. Fake or not, it works. Her smile is beautiful!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
You are right! It does improve our mood! Many thanks, Cynthia.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
25 Mar 17
i've always heard smiling makes you feel better.
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@TheHorse (205291)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
@RubyHawk The psychologists call it "facial feedback hypothesis." Bah humbug.
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@shaggin (71659)
• United States
24 Mar 17
I always smile at people even though I am very shy. The only time I can't seem to get the hang of not making a fake smile is when other people take my photos. I hate having my picture taken. When I take a photo and share it I can edit it first when others take my photo I am stuck dealing with it. Your little ice princess looks truly happy in this photo like she just won a metal :-)
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Ooooo, I truly prefer candid shots, too. Half the time my photos are with fake smiles. Yes, she won a medal, but didn't think she had a great skate. Many thanks!
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@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
a good smile is always from the heart
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@GardenGerty (157494)
• United States
24 Mar 17
A genuine smile reflects the joy you feel inside.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Beautifully stated!
@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
i agree with you
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• United States
24 Mar 17
Natural smiles are the best! Forced ones are obvious in me.
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• United States
24 Mar 17
@DianneN Happy Friday! (Smiling for ya!)
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@infatuatedbby Every day is Friday to me! Lol! It's always been my most favorite day of the week. Here's one for you, too.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
To me as well.
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@rebelann (111090)
• El Paso, Texas
24 Mar 17
It's hard to smile when you're not in the mood, generally I just have a blank look on my face but as soon as I see someone I just have to smile, no reason just have to ..... I even do the same with kritters I know like my neighbors pup.
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@rebelann (111090)
• El Paso, Texas
24 Mar 17
I can understand your granddaughter @DianneN When concentrating on a performance it's not always easy to force a smile, I honestly don't think its natural to smile all the time, enjoyment in ones task is often displayed by the way a person does what they like to do, smiles aren't always needed.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@rebelann She was told otherwise by her coaches, the poor kid. It's all part of the performance. It's much, much better now that she is older and more confident. She watches herself on tape.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Animals certainly bring on the smiles! If I'm in a crummy mood, anyone's smile makes my day. My granddaughter found it difficult to smile and perform at the same time. Now she is enjoying herself.
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• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I always smile and I feel good when I pass by people and they smile back at me.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
So do I. It's very rare that someone is a grouch and doesn't smile back.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@nottoooldtowrite They certainly do! Here's one for you
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
@DianneN yup. And those smiles brighten our days.
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@Shavkat (137193)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I think it is a skill to wear fake smiles. She is a good skater.
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@Shavkat (137193)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
@DianneN I think so too. That's a great smile in the photo.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@Shavkat Thanks so much!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Thank you. This is her natural smile. Trust me when I say that she was never able to master a fake smile. Lol!
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
24 Mar 17
@DianneN That is a beautiful shot.The smile is natural too.That color suits her .
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Thank you! Her smiles have been natural this year, finally! Lol!
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Mar 17
She looks like a natural now. It's nice when people out and about are willing to acknowledge one another by a greeting, smile or even just a wave. A lot of communities aren't as open and friendly and you can really tell the difference when visiting or living in such places.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Mar 17
@DianneN I've never really noticed a big difference in all the different states I've lived in or visited, but some really do notice. I'm used to acknowledging people if they are on the streets and they will usually smile back or say something. But, I've never walked around bigger cities too much and those may be the ones that are more noticeable. I did walk around Detroit when I was in my early twenties, but I don't remember how people on the streets were there and that was before I found not everyone is as friendly..
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@TheHorse (205291)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 17
I do it here in CA even though it's not the norm. It's actually usually received positively.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Mar 17
It's done in CT where I walk. However, it isn't too cool or well received out and about.
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@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
24 Mar 17
We always told our school gymnasts to smile. At the end of your routine...pose...and smile. If you are in pain....still smile....we called it"pain smile"
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
The pain smile must have looked lovely!
@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@Morleyhunt Poor girl! Two shiners! Will you perform lol?
@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
24 Mar 17
@DianneN one year at competition we had a girl who was very fair in colouring. She finished her routine (floor I think) and I looked at her....she smiled....and took her straight to the first aid station....she had two black eyes....yikes...she bumped something. (I was one of the volunteer coaches....and no don't ask me to perform.)
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
i don't think her smile is fake. her eyes show it all. when we wear a fake smile,our eyes show it.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
You are right as usual! That's her natural smile. She's much more confident and comfortable performing now.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@DianneN she is a beautiful angel, my friend. she enjoys what she is doing.
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@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
true
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
I don't see any fake smile of your ice princess It was sweet and full of confidence.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Thanks, but this was her real smile. She is more confident now. The fake smiles stopped last year. They were awful! Lol!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
@ilocosboy Lol! It's her coach. Thanks anyway!
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
@DianneN she must have a good teacher... and its you.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
24 Mar 17
When my daughter was in cheerleading it was the same way. They had to smile the entire performance and for some it looked natural but for others you could tell that it was forced. A natural smile is so much more beautiful. What a beautiful picture of your granddaughter! She is so sweet!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Forced smiles are so phony and obvious. My granddaughter plastered fake ones on her face since they told her to smile. She looked awful! Lol! Now she is more confident and comfortable performing her routines, so this has been a good year for her, smile wise. Thank you! She is as sweet as sugar, but with an attitude. Lol!
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
24 Mar 17
@DianneN That is great! The attitude it what gives her the confidence!!
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@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
smiling when performing a show makes the spectators more relaxed and interested
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• Kolkata, India
24 Mar 17
Smiles be it fake or be it true. A smile can always make you feel good. And if you can smile by seeing someone unknown then both the persons feels good even if it is for a moment or so.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
I agree! However, there is nothing better than a real smile!
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• Kolkata, India
25 Mar 17
@DianneN Obviously, what could be better than a real smile.
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@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
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@snowy22315 (169653)
• United States
24 Mar 17
My younger nephew was a gritter for several years. His recent smiles are natural though. My son always had a natural smile..
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
You are lucky. My grandkids always had fake smiles when posing. That's why I took candid shots.
@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
those with natural smile look cute
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
24 Mar 17
I smile at everyone most smile back and some do not.They are the grouchy people saying what are you smiling about. Dianne those can bite me.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
You should bite them!
@Tampa_girl7 (48890)
• United States
24 Mar 17
She's really growing up
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
She is still my baby girl.
24 Mar 17
my daughter is the queen of the fake smile for pictures and i think i've created that... ha ha. i've always taken so many pictures. your granddaughter is quite lovely
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
Ha ha ha! I think my DIL is like you. You should see the fake smiles both grandkids had in photos for years! I saved them, but would never show a soul. Just horrid! Thank you!
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@Fleura (29097)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 17
That must be quite hard - to keep smiling through everything!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
I know I couldn't do it.
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@cleomich (569)
25 Mar 17
yes, but it is learnt
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• India
24 Mar 17
Absolutely fairy,a true smile reflects the truth held in your heart,but don't many carry in today
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Mar 17
So true! Thank you!
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• India
24 Mar 17
@DianneN my pleasure
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