Do real friends exist?
By staycyde
@stacysdeadright (232)
United States
March 28, 2017 12:41am CST
I hate whenever people that I thought were my friends switch up on me. I notice that there are rarely any real friendships. I try not to get my hopes up about people now. If I have no expectations the better off I’ll be. It seems that anyone can be bought.
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7 responses
@TheDeepGuy (33)
• India
28 Mar 17
Well, maybe it's not always completely black or white. I mean, as and when times change, you slowly move around and have to change places and the company of people change too. So, it's just that the only thing that actually is permanent is just "Change". Hence, maybe people, which actually include you too, are simply moving from one part of your life to another. And, it's just all a part of the big change.
@TheDeepGuy (33)
• India
28 Mar 17
@Bluedoll Money? Of course it is! I mean, this isn't a fairy tale, right? You can't survive just on love. You need money to make everything work.
@TheDeepGuy (33)
• India
28 Mar 17
@Bluedoll As I said before, it's not Black OR White. We settle for Grey. We accept something in the middle.
@TheDeepGuy (33)
• India
28 Mar 17
@Bluedoll Maybe. Depending on what your current situation is. I mean, if this money can do some real good to you, then why not? I mean, survival is the first priority, right?
@stacysdeadright (232)
• United States
28 Mar 17
Wow. My friends have all switched up on me before I could make it to 20 yrs with them. it's kind if sad.
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@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
28 Mar 17
hi for me yes i have 2 friends and weve been together for almost 10 yrs but i understand you because
the generation now is changing ;(
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@stacysdeadright (232)
• United States
28 Mar 17
I guess you can say people's standards have lowered. i don't know.
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
29 Mar 17
@stacysdeadright True friends are always rare.As I told you,I have two true friends,one of whom is my neighbour while another has migrated to another town where he has a big cloth store.
@stacysdeadright (232)
• United States
28 Mar 17
They are so rare that I don't think I have any real friends.
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@diosabella (4789)
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28 Mar 17
@Bluedoll Its so true that its hard to find a close friends. But I think your a good friend. I can see that your commenting in the comments of almost every one here while the owner is literally 
Or maybe she's just late in every of her discussion? Im just wondering. 
Or maybe she's just late in every of her discussion? Im just wondering. 1 person likes this
@Janice2017 (220)
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28 Mar 17
I think there r real friends exist. Friends who can give us a hand when we need some help.Friends who give us a real big hug when we r in desperated situation.Whether we make friends beacuse they are useful to us or not?People who r real friends cherish each other just beacuse they r in their heart, not for any purpose.A real friendship make us a strong and happy man.But, you know what, friends agree best at a distance.As we need to survive or do something that we need cooperation with fake friends.Just let it be ~Some people are destined not real friends.Hope we all cherish our real friend.
@stacysdeadright (232)
• United States
28 Mar 17
Sometimes I just like to be nice to complete and total strangers instead. The funny part is they always end up hanging around a little too long too. That is when they change.
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@Janice2017 (220)
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29 Mar 17
@stacysdeadright Hey,staycyde.I wanna told u one thing. That is, I have the same experience as you ever.I was confused and puzzled how to get through this.Finally ,I pass through this difficulty or thoughtss. I know that no matter what the other people said, things just seem to never change. What I can do to fix myself is learn to release myself . I felt relax after I think little about that.Like Deepanjan Biswas just said to u, it's just all a part of the big change.I agree with that.Hope it can work out.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
28 Mar 17
@Stacysdeadright ~There are real friends, but they are hard to find.
