how will you know if the person is the one for you?

Does the person put you first in everything, that is, do they consider your feelings before their own? Does the person make sacrifices willingly for you, without making you feel guilty for it, or making a big deal of it? Do you tend to do the same things for this person? Put them first? If this describes the type of relationship you have, its a good start. When there is an argument, how do each of you deal with handling the disagreement? If you can each be respectful towards the other one, and each consider the other's point of view, that's a good sign. If, however, there is any name-calling, or words that are said in the heat of the moment that are hurtful to the other, may be a sign that things are not what they should be. That's just scratching the surface, but its a place to start in your soul-searching to find the answer to your question. I'm not a professional when it comes to relationships, but I do have some experience.

I don't think that time alone can be a determining factor as to whether a person is the right one for you. It depends on the reasons they are together.

hi you can feel it with your heart and how they demonstrate there love.. welcome to mylot my friend

Everyone always asks this questions but no one can answer it but yourself. Only you know what love is for yourself. It might be something that your spouse does for you or doesn't do that lets you know that they are the one for you. Love is different for everyone and only we know what love is for ourselves.

I did everything for my girl thought she was for me she used to be this sweet innocent looking girl but things changed as she entered college. So I will advice you to be careful

Slap him hard , ditch him....go to him on next day stay as if nothing has happened, talk normally with him next day...if he give you reply in proper way. You will get that you got better person..