how will you know if the person is the one for you?

March 28, 2017 10:38am CST
is time can be the basis to say that the one you are with for the longest time is really meant for you?
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6 responses
• United States
28 Mar 17
Does the person put you first in everything, that is, do they consider your feelings before their own? Does the person make sacrifices willingly for you, without making you feel guilty for it, or making a big deal of it? Do you tend to do the same things for this person? Put them first? If this describes the type of relationship you have, its a good start. When there is an argument, how do each of you deal with handling the disagreement? If you can each be respectful towards the other one, and each consider the other's point of view, that's a good sign. If, however, there is any name-calling, or words that are said in the heat of the moment that are hurtful to the other, may be a sign that things are not what they should be. That's just scratching the surface, but its a place to start in your soul-searching to find the answer to your question. I'm not a professional when it comes to relationships, but I do have some experience.
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@Jon2071 (257)
• United States
29 Mar 17
Good thoughts and comments. Welcome to MyLot!
29 Mar 17
@Laurie Heckman...thank you very much for your wonderful thoughts, it really help a lot...maybe it is really depends on how we feel with regards to this matter...thank you again.
• United States
29 Mar 17
@shieng yes, absolutely, how each of you feels about it is very important, too! You're welcome! Good luck to you in your relationship!
@Jon2071 (257)
• United States
29 Mar 17
I don't think that time alone can be a determining factor as to whether a person is the right one for you. It depends on the reasons they are together.
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29 Mar 17
@jon i think so, it is not really the time...its the feeling that binds the two hearts.thank you...
@ckciasigurl (1570)
• Vienna, Austria
28 Mar 17
hi you can feel it with your heart and how they demonstrate there love.. welcome to mylot my friend
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29 Mar 17
@marianne,thank you...there a times that you will question yourself if the feeling you felt before is still the same until this very moment...there is a hesitation but it only for sometimes when you are alone.
• United States
30 Mar 17
Everyone always asks this questions but no one can answer it but yourself. Only you know what love is for yourself. It might be something that your spouse does for you or doesn't do that lets you know that they are the one for you. Love is different for everyone and only we know what love is for ourselves.
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@100gods (94)
28 Mar 17
Slap him hard , ditch him....go to him on next day stay as if nothing has happened, talk normally with him next day...if he give you reply in proper way. You will get that you got better person..
28 Mar 17
huh!!!
29 Mar 17
@shieng is this an attitude...?
29 Mar 17
@100gods, sorry...dont want to offend you.
• Lagos, Nigeria
29 Mar 17
I did everything for my girl thought she was for me she used to be this sweet innocent looking girl but things changed as she entered college. So I will advice you to be careful
29 Mar 17
there are times when you feel that you are alone...that no one seems to care for you even if you have a partner to lean on, but still you feel that way that is why you will think that something doesn't seems right.