Ways to avoid confrontations

@Lubuto (2261)
Zambia
April 7, 2017 7:15am CST
Below are some of the things that may help you to avoid unnecessary arguments and differences. 1. Avoid contentious and quarrelsome people. 2. Avoid petty people, those who like making big issues out of petty issues. 3. Avoid gossiping, they say that, what goes around comes around. 4. Never engage in unnecessary arguments with people. 5. Always keep your words, don't develop a reputation of incompetence. How do you avoid confrontations and unnecessary arguments? Image :pixabay creative commons.
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@just4him (128382)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Apr 17
I avoid the people who are prone to start them. I don't like confrontation of any kind.
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@Lubuto (2261)
• Zambia
7 Apr 17
@just4him That's a good spirit, blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called sons of God.
@Shavkat (65887)
• Philippines
7 Apr 17
I stay away from these people. If they provoke, then they will unleash my evil side.
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@Lubuto (2261)
• Zambia
7 Apr 17
@Shavkat Well that's good.
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@Shavkat (65887)
• Philippines
7 Apr 17
@Lubuto I think it normal to fight back it things are out-of-control.
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@Lubuto (2261)
• Zambia
7 Apr 17
@Shavkat I see
@JudyEv (136409)
• Bunbury, Australia
7 Apr 17
I think these are good suggestions. I try not to put forward views which others might find objectionable.
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@Lubuto (2261)
• Zambia
7 Apr 17
@JudyEv I guess you are very sensitive to other people's feelings.
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@JudyEv (136409)
• Bunbury, Australia
7 Apr 17
@Lubuto I really don't like arguing with people and I find it hard to think quickly. I'd rather write down my opinions so I have time to make them say exactly what I mean instead of fumbling around talking to someone.
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@Kandae11 (40358)
7 Apr 17
My granny used to say - "You don't go looking for trouble - but trouble comes looking for you." When I find myself in a situation like that, I count to ten and deal with it the best way I can.
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@Lubuto (2261)
• Zambia
8 Apr 17
That was a good advice from the granny