COME ON MYLOTERS -- LET US PLAY NICE.

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@Kandae11 (53599)
April 12, 2017 7:50am CST
In the Mylot world and other sites like this one -- members are obviously not all from the same country - there is a wonderful mix of people from all over the world. People with different cultures, backgrounds etc. Now, some writers may use a word or term or turn of phrase which may seem strange or weird to another member - especially if he or she knows little or nothing about the culture of that writer's country. Therefore members, whenever we come upon comments that may seem - strange or backward in our view - try not to respond as if that writer is a fool. It is highly likely - in some cases - that the member with the weird comment is much brighter than you are. Just a nice reminder.
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@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
12 Apr 17
This is very true, assume nothing or act as if you know everything and call people names or words like " ignorant" etc... cause it would tell a lot about yourself and what you are
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@louievill (28859)
• Philippines
12 Apr 17
@destry there is always a better way to call their attention and let them know, I am sure, much better than calling a person " ignorant" outright especially if you are in a site like Mylot, that is if you understand what I mean, but then you have your choice, then do what you want to or think have to if that would make you feel great then fine. Hope you have a fine day.
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@destry (2572)
• Kirkwall, Scotland
12 Apr 17
@louievill So if some one is lacking knowledge or awareness of the rules, is there a better word to describe them than ignorant? Seeing as the definition of ignorant is:- lacking knowledge or awareness . . .
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@destry (2572)
• Kirkwall, Scotland
12 Apr 17
Unless of course they are ignorant of the guidelines. People who ignore the social norms that the rest of us abide by, are indeed ignorant
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
12 Apr 17
I don't see members being nasty to one another very often at all here. It's what I love about mylot.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Yes, let us keep that level of behavior very , very low.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@fishtiger58 there are only few of them mean here talking without thinking what he or she is saying as if feeling great,lol.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 That would certainly make me happy. I so don't care for unnecessary drama.
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@allknowing (130088)
• India
12 Apr 17
You said what I was about to say. With so much exposure there is no telling who is better than the other in the world as a whole.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@allknowing , let us just keep smiling
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
We all, must return to the dust when we die.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
12 Apr 17
Everybody is much brighter than me anyway! I love the fact that the internet makes it so easy for everyone to come together and learn.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@Poppylicious so bright answer.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@Kandae11 very true.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
It has made life so much easier.
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@just4him (303324)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 17
So true. I love it when people from other cultures explain their phrases and words I am unfamiliar with.
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@just4him (303324)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 Yes it is and I love to learn about the different cultures and even things I take for granted but really didn't know the value of them - such as the posts about the nutritional value of the food we eat.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
@just4him Those are of particular interest to me since I started eating healthy twelve years ago.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Mylot is a site where we have fun, learn and earn.
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@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 loved this post, and thank you for the gentle remainder! A little understanding would never hurt anyone! It's good to appreciate the differences!
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
There is so much we can learn.
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@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 Agreed. So much to learn, if we are a bit patient & understanding...After all, this diversity adds a rich flavour to our discussions!
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• Pamplona, Spain
12 Apr 17
In total agreement. We can all get along with each other regardless of where we are from.
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• Pamplona, Spain
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 Here is to that all getting along without any problems.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Yes we can.
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@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
13 Apr 17
Absolutely . All of us are from different countries and have different language and culture so may have different views on a topic is may have the same view but may have different writing style.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
13 Apr 17
Different style, different twists , different culture - all contribute to a most interesting mix.
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@nitsbubb (1309)
• Pune, India
12 Apr 17
Thanks for this word of caution! (BTW your profile portrait is excellent)
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@nitsbubb (1309)
• Pune, India
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 You R Welcome!
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Thank you.
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• United States
13 Apr 17
I try to understand comments that don't always make sense...but I don't point to that person that they are wrong or whatever.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
13 Apr 17
That is very good.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48855)
• United States
12 Apr 17
lol I have learned a lot of new words and phrases here.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Indeed, we all have.
@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@Tampa_girl7 so interesting site lots of experiences and people to meet.
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• Eugene, Oregon
13 Apr 17
I would hope that we would all take care to explain things to those who don't get the idiom from whatever country it originates.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
13 Apr 17
I have found that when I ask questions an answer is forthcoming most of the time.
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@thelme55 (76342)
• Germany
12 Apr 17
So true. We should be nice to each other here and accept each others uniqueness.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@thelme55for we work as one team we common goal and interest to earn some extra $ for life.
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@thelme55 (76342)
• Germany
13 Apr 17
@Kandae11 so true. It shouldn't be hard to be nice to one another. Enjoy your Easter.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
It shouldn't be that hard to do - we all seem like family members here - but even with families there will be the occasional rough spot.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
12 Apr 17
That's right the differences does not matter unless we understand each other. It's good to have difference of opinions that helps us to know the world and people much better. This is a good post, loved it.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
It would be a pretty boring world indeed if everyone looked the same, thought the same and ate the same. Variety is indeed the spice of life.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
@manasamanu Sure thing.
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• Bangalore, India
12 Apr 17
@Kandae11 Yeah and this spice when added to our food it tastes good.
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@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
12 Apr 17
Playing nice is what it is all about. Then, we all have fun!
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Have fun, learning and earning.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
12 Apr 17
I agree. That is what I like about this site. I get to meet people from different countries and also learn so much from them. We should respect each other over here too.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Yes, we should. Respect is important.
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• Preston, England
12 Apr 17
well said, we should always be tolerant and realise not everyone has English as a first language
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
I am happy that you agree.
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@Shavkat (136864)
• Philippines
12 Apr 17
I also noticed this. I feel annoyed commenting which doesn't jive to the main topic of the posts.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
Perhaps the post wasn't read and understood well enough.
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@Shavkat (136864)
• Philippines
13 Apr 17
@Kandae11 I agree. Most of the time, I just ignore it.
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@cacay1 (83270)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Apr 17
@Shavkat correct my friend.
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@marlina (154183)
• Canada
12 Apr 17
A nice reminder, thanks.
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@Kandae11 (53599)
12 Apr 17
You're welcome.
@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
13 Apr 17
Well said. It is called cultural sensitivity and and this is a great forum to learn or practice it
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@Kandae11 (53599)
13 Apr 17
You are right - cultural sensitivity - and here is the perfect forum.