RANT: Who wants to buy $ 281,378.860 worth of house?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (137214)
Philippines
April 19, 2017 9:25pm CST
Since my father died, his siblings are planning to sell the family house worth to Php 14 M ($ 281,378.860). As an old issue, inheritance is what they are after. I don’t feel bad about it if we got our share. It means we can able to buy a new house for the family. I just only felt bad how they treat us. My father siblings are harassing us to move out the family house so that they can sell it.
What’s wrong with this situation?
Well, we need to have the share before moving out. I don’t want my family to be in a difficult situation. There is no contract that we will be paid before moving out. What if they didn’t give the share once we had moved out from the family house. My family and I decided to have the option of giving the share to us before we pack up our things. I think this is fair enough.
Once we had our new house, a new beginning for the family. They will not hear from us again. Thus, the relationship with them will be ended.
I am sorry for the ranting moment. I don’t have anyone to talk to.
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13 responses
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
20 Apr 17
is the house ancestral? if it is so, then maybe that is the reason why the other siblings of your father want to sell the house 'ahora'. but if the house is s joint property between your father and your mom, why do they have to force the selling of the house?
i guess you have to consult an 'abogado', for that matter.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
20 Apr 17
It is not a conjugal property, kabsat. It is where my grandparents' house. You are right @hereandthere.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
20 Apr 17
maybe it is the house where his father and his siblings grew up, so it belonged to their parents?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
20 Apr 17
@Shavkat no, what i mean is, is the house ancestral? since that is where your father and his siblings live? surely it is ancestral.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
26 Apr 17
This is very sad to hear. Family members do fight with each other at times due to property. This is so sad though as this tends to destroy relationships. You are right it is better to wait that you get your share first before moving out. Can't believe that family members can be so insensible
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@Hari101 (1123)
• Chennai, India
21 Apr 17
Don't worry about them. Every huge family has this problem. Somebody thinks the property is more important than the value of the relationship. Maybe one or two exist to give importance to the family relationship. See positivity in everything and start a new beginning with your loved ones.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
28 Apr 17
Personally, I think this is smart and the right thing. So sad when so many situations end up like this.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
20 Apr 17
Oh I hope you can get your share before you move out.
What if they do not agree to that will you fight to stay in the house Shavkat?
It is a bad situation of they do not agree, I understand you.
I am glad so glad you came here to talk about it friend.
I wish it will go 100% your way Shavkat.
I wish you all the blessings with this situation too.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
21 Apr 17
@TiarasOceanView I will, my friend. We are waiting for the open dialogue with them. Until now, they haven't tried to contact us.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
21 Apr 17
@Shavkat Oh yes more than you know my friend, I truly understand. Please let us know how this goes my friend.
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@LeaPea2417 (36438)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Apr 17
That is sad when you have conflict with family members over inheritances that can sever relationships permanently. That has happened with my Mom and her brother (my Uncle). They had a big falling out concerning their Mom's inheritance and had to get lawyers etc. They do not speak anymore to each other. It is sad.
@diosabella (4789)
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20 Apr 17
We've been in that situation and unfortunately for us, my father was totally heartbroken by my grandfather's family. I hope you get your share of the house. And its a wise decision not to move out before they give you your share.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
20 Apr 17
You are right, at this situation you cannot believe them. So its better first you collect your amount of share and then move out.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
23 Apr 17
@Shavkat Good decision
. Still be careful with the money matters.
. Still be careful with the money matters.1 person likes this
