EXPECT OR NOT?

April 22, 2017 10:39am CST
Everyone says you shouldnt expect anything in return when you love or care about someone. I feel when you give so much, no one is a saint here and we all expect a little effort atleast. IS THIS WRONG? what would you do in this state?
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@Mariely (109)
22 Apr 17
Yeah we always wait for something in return is sad that not everyone can give you the same love you gave to them but at least you can have the satisfaction you did your best.
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22 Apr 17
yeah i know.
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
22 Apr 17
It depends who it is with. If if is a relationship then I expect the same love and caring back. A relationship can not be one sided and survive.
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22 Apr 17
Thanks for the feedback
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
22 Apr 17
@malibu153 u you are welcome
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@sjvg1976 (18386)
• Delhi, India
22 Apr 17
We should not expect something from the things which are not in our control . As when we don't get things as per our expectations we feel sad
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@Corbin5 (106697)
• United States
22 Apr 17
Of course, we would all like to be rewarded in some way when we love or care about another person, but we should focus on the giving and not the receiving.
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22 Apr 17
Easier said than done,
23 Apr 17
@Lupita234 hope so
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@suripunj (798)
• New Delhi, India
22 Apr 17
Yes we expect to whom we have given. But this is business is not it?
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22 Apr 17
hmm
• Tirgu Mures, Romania
22 Apr 17
I think if you really love someone, you would not expect anything in return..in a couple, one of them will always love less and the other more..they will never be able to love the same way
23 Apr 17
WHY ? its so sad and unfair
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• Tirgu Mures, Romania
23 Apr 17
@malibu153 Because a person can't love as much as the other..even if he loves with all his heart..Two people can't love in the same way. I know it's not fair..but that's it
@Rekhanshi (399)
• New Delhi, India
23 Apr 17
Agreeing to what you say totally.... No one is saint and we always expect things from people. It's impossible to live in this world without expectations, but just one thing that i have learned out of time, you can't kill your expectations but you can always keep a control on them, keep them such that they do not posses you or eat you up.