Well, I'll be Darned!

@DianneN (246334)
United States
April 24, 2017 8:21am CST
I received a phone call Saturday morning from my granddaughter, who used a phone number I didn't recognize. What blew me away was that she called from her own new iPhone! I've always been against children having phones at such a young age. She is 8 and will be 9 in June. She told me she only uses her phone to make phone calls, text, FaceTime, take photos, and play games. Her mommy and daddy allow it only on weekends. I think that's fine. She told me that she received it as a gift for landing solid axels repeatedly in figure skating. She's been working on it for 6 months. Her friend has been trying to learn it for 2 1/2 years, and still can't do it. Coach is very impressed, and has my granddaughter incorporate the axel into her routines now. I think I'll accept her having a phone of her own, afterall. I sure do love our chats! ~iPhone in hand while in Mount Vernon~
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Apr 17
I think phones for kids can be a good thing, depending on their age. My sons got phones in high school as they had lots of activities and I had to know where they were and that they were safe. Things change lol.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
@fishtiger58 True, but it turned out very well in her case, thank goodness.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Apr 17
@DianneN Yea I think 8 is way to young as well, but we each decide for our own kids.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
24 Apr 17
@DianneN And her parents put good restrictions on the phone, so that's good.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 17
Her parents are being very responsible in curtailing it's use to the weekends.
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@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 17
@DianneN She's a very busy little lady
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
@jaboUK Very, and so is her brother. I feel badly for their parents, but they all are very active and happy. I'm too old for that life anymore.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
Definitely, otherwise she'd be on it as much as possible. And it's funny, because weekends are so busy for her with practices, competitions, tap dancing rehearsals, religious school, birthday parties, visiting friends and family, etc.... She can definitely use it while her brother has hockey practice. Ha ha!
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
25 Apr 17
My 9 and 10 year old sons play with phones, but the phones aren't activated. They can download games and apps, but can't make phone calls or texts. The twins have had phones since they were 11 or 12, only because with all the activities they're in, I need them to have a way to contact me and let me know when their practice is over, or when they've gotten back to the school after a competition, that sort of thing. My 10 year old will probably be needing his own phone soon.. but our plan is already so expensive. We have 5 phones on it now, we're still carrying the oldest son although we've recently told him he needs to pay us monthly for his phone line or find his own plan. A few years ago I was very against young kids, even teens having phones.. now I see that it is important for busy kids and it's more of a convenience to me for the kids to have them. Still, they have to learn to be responsible with them, and the parent should be vigilant of what the child is doing while on these apps!
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• United States
25 Apr 17
@DianneN well now you have new ideas for birthday and Christmas gifts.. iTunes cards can be used to buy apps, music, games, Snapchat filters..
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
I can certainly understand why your kids need phones and it's important. My granddaughter doesn't need it, since an adult is always with her, since she's only 8 and lives in NYC. She's been calling, texting, and playing educational games for years, but used phones from her parents, other grandparents, and even mine. A couple of years ago, she asked me for my credit card to buy a game. I told her a big, fat NO. Lol!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@katsmeow1213 That's smart. My granddaughter is a saver and would rather spend other people's money. Lol!
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@much2say (53909)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Apr 17
Well, as long as her parents are making sure she is being responsible about it, then it works out for them. Even better if the Ice Princess is making sure to call her grandmother . I know my kids would easily get out of control . . . so no phone (except flip phone for my oldest) for now. Axels are the hard ones alright. It's like a test . . . an initiation into the next level of skating. Some get it quickly and others take a long time . . . I've known 12 year olds who just never got them. Adults take forever and many don't ever get it consistently nor even close! The Ice Princess is doing quite well!
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@much2say (53909)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Apr 17
@DianneN I know her parents are watching over her usage - and she's a good kid . A happy one too! Double lutzes! Wow, I thought she'd be doing double salchow then double toe loops next . . . once you have a solid axel, those should come fairly easily (it's in the same "family" of jumps). I can't wait to her more about her skating development . . .she's doing fantastically! How exciting!!!!!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Apr 17
She will lose all privileges if she abuses the phone, but she's such a good kid. She told me she doesn't have to do the No Test skakes anymore, whatever that means. She worked really hard on that axel since September or so. Her coach has her incorporating axels into her routine and double lutzes now. She's very excited. She works hard, and we are so proud of her. I remember every word you told me about landing an axel and the YouTube videos. Now, I have videos of her doing them. We're going in to watch her practice soon. Thanks so much!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Apr 17
@much2say Of course, keep in mind that I have no idea what I'm talking about. . I hope to get things straight soon. You will be the first to know everything! Thanks so much! You are my "go to" person when it comes to explanations and I'm so appreciative.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
24 Apr 17
The blame goes to the authorities for gifting it to this little girl.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
25 Apr 17
@DianneN I would think so. What about you?
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
25 Apr 17
@DianneN What I meant was giving an iPhone as a gift to a girl that little was not quite ok.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
Huh?
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
24 Apr 17
Isn't it funny how we can change our attitudes when something nice like your unexpected phone call happens I'm sure you'll ejoy many more calls.
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@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
24 Apr 17
@DianneN I could do with a t-shirt like the one your granddaughter is wearing
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
I eat them up! Thank you!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@valmnz So could I! Lol!
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@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
24 Apr 17
As much as 8 may be a little young, she has earned it and she isn't using it all the time. She has definitely worked hard. Sometimes, it's okay to give them a reward, when they have worked so hard at something.
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@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
24 Apr 17
@DianneN Exactly. Sometimes, I wonder how my kids are. My girls may be 5 and almost 4, but sometimes they act as they're like 14 and 11. So long as your granddaughter is responsible and follows the rules, then that's the important thing.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
@dodo19 Lol! Just wait! They grow up so fast now, but are still our little babies. Your daughters sound strong and healthy for little pips, but who wants a wimpy kid!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
Thanks for saying that. She may be 8, but acts as if she's going on 18 at times. Lol! At least she is responsible and honest and will follow the rules.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
26 Apr 17
I am also against the use of a personal phone for young children, but I am sure your son and daughter in law will keep an eye on her, she is not going to abuse of the new iPhone.
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@LadyDuck (457412)
• Switzerland
27 Apr 17
@DianneN I am sure their parents know what to do. I am scared when I read on this sites that some women let their toddlers play all the day with the smartphones or tablets. They should know the danger for the babies, not only for the eyes, but also for the brain.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Apr 17
@LadyDuck I've been just as shocked as you. Children need to play outdoors, explore nature, read, listen to music, do constructive play according to their age level, explore the arts and sports, socialize with other children, etc. It's sad that so many parents are so ignorant!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
26 Apr 17
For her, I'm for it. She, of all kids, wouldn't abuse the privilege. If so, it will be confiscated immediately.
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@mom210 (9036)
• United States
24 Apr 17
I am glad she chats with you and her parents are watching her usage. I am sad when I see kids that cannot tear themselves away from those devices.
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@mom210 (9036)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@DianneN sounds like a smart little girl.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@mom210 Thanks so much. She is a bright little girl.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
She understands the consequences. She is too busy to even have time to use it. She had to call me from a restaurant where she was having lunch with her dad, my son, between ice practice and tap dance rehearsal for an off Broadway show she's in. Lol!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
24 Apr 17
@DianneN , at least it is only on weekends and now she can contact you. And it was a great gift for her doing so well. High five to her on landing solid axels!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Apr 17
@DianneN , she is one talented and determined young lady, I am so happy she is achieving her dreams.xoxo
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@bluesa We shall see. At least she is enjoying herself immensely right now!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
Thank you! We are so proud of all her hard work. If nothing else, she is one determined little pip!
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• Banks, Oregon
25 Apr 17
I usually am not ok with young kids havng phones but it sounds like her parents are making sure she only uses it on weekend and supervise so that is good
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Apr 17
I'm with you on that, but she can handle following directions and rules. Or else!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Apr 17
@chrissbergstrom It would bug me, too. I'm sure it has to do with peer pressure at her age.
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• Banks, Oregon
27 Apr 17
@DianneN My niece is obsessed with her phone it bugs me she is only 13
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• Guangzhou, China
25 Apr 17
How adorable your granddaughter is!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
28 Apr 17
@Florarunning Thank you! She's my little ice princess!
@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
Thank you!
• Guangzhou, China
26 Apr 17
@DianneN I mean, wow! She's really a beauty.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
24 Apr 17
Aww haha wow I got one when i was 16 lol But my niece nephew have too. Since they were 5-7 years old because when they go to play, we can call them and also for their safety when they're alone at home. But they aren't allowed to use internet when they're alone Now they're 11 n 7..
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
That's a great idea to have phones when out playing. My grandkids live in New York City and always have supervision. They are way too young to go anywhere with an adult. She doesn't have an email address, but can only download educational games with my son or his wife's permission. Lol!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@ShifaLk Yes! Lol! It's true. You are so funny!!!
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
25 Apr 17
@DianneN LoL a new generation haha....
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24 Apr 17
The only good thing about kids carrying phones is us being able to track them down. But I dislike all other effects. They are almost never in the real world, never playing with other kids, never hugging, tickling or laughing as kids should. They get hypnotised staring either at the mobile phone screen, a computer screen or a TV screen. However, new generations don`t even know that there is something better in life. When you ban using phones all they can think of is that they are being punished as the majority of their friends are allowed to use it.
@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
She has a very active life in school and out. Since she obeys rules, she will respect her parent's wishes. I agree with you on how many children lose out on real life by having their faces stuck in phones all day.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@Alternative4 Aw, thanks.
24 Apr 17
@DianneN I am happy that she is as smart as she is cute.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
29 Apr 17
If she uses it wisely and responsibly I would see no problem. I'm sure her parents are on top of things and she sounds like a very responsible young girl.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
29 Apr 17
@DianneN I have no doubt about that!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
29 Apr 17
Thank you! She is responsible and her parents will keep an eye on her.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
24 Apr 17
Sometimes I do not know if I trust the word "only" when it comes to smartphone users. They "only" use the phone 6 hours a day, and "only" after they have done this or that!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
She is a talented and brilliant little girl. If her parents approve, then I approve. Besides, she is too busy during the week to even talk to grandma. Lol!
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
24 Apr 17
@DianneN haha, wait till 10 years later, and she gets a boyfriend! She will be too busy for anyone else other than that boyfriend.
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
@scheng1 Time will tell! She already has a boyfriend, btw. They met in kindergarten. Lol!
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• United States
7 May 17
As long as her parents have full access of her phone then it will be fine. Of course she cannot be on it all day and not in the bedroom at night :)
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• United States
7 May 17
@DianneN Yes! And you get a nice call or ft, text
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
7 May 17
She certainly makes good use of that phone on weekends! Lol!!!
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• United States
24 Apr 17
More and more kids are getting phones at younger ages but since she got hers as a reward for her skating accomplishments I think it's great. Plus, you'll hear from her now that she has her own phone. Great picture! I know we're going to see her on the Olympics one of these days
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• United States
25 Apr 17
@DianneN having a bond with granddaughters is a special thing (not that grandsons don't count)
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
I had always been against young kids having phones, but in her case, I'm for it. She's very responsible and mature and follows the rules. I enjoy gabbing with her. There is never a moment of silence between the two of us. Lol!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@Marilynda1225 True! Lol!
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
24 Apr 17
That's sweet. And I'm with you on youngsters and cell use, but it does sound like her parents keep a pretty good eye on it. :-)
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
24 Apr 17
Thanks, Faye. I'm good with her having one. She can be trusted not to sneak it. Lol!
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Apr 17
@FayeHazel She is plain awesome, but then I'm just the grandma. Thanks!
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
25 Apr 17
@DianneN She sounds like a great kid
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@Basilo (649)
25 Apr 17
That is such a very young age, however, if much caution is put on when he uses it,hope it will be fine
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Apr 17
It is, but she's a bright and good little girl. She won't abuse the privilege.
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@Basilo (649)
27 Apr 17
@DianneN that is cool
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