Don't educate a child with negative words

April 30, 2017 12:29pm CST
The person tells a child that she is an incompetent, that everything she does is wrong, poorly done and that she is useless. So, this child grows and turns into a adult lazy, dependent, insecure, incompetent (really) and with no future. Who is to blame for all this history?
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@responsiveme (14476)
• India
30 Apr 17
The children should never feel that way
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30 Apr 17
Certainly. Everything we say to a child gets recorded in her mind and it will be like a seed, which will germinate later.
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@Shavkat (56925)
• Philippines
1 May 17
If we do this, it would be a scar to child's minds.
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1 May 17
Certainly.
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@Shavkat (56925)
• Philippines
1 May 17
@danielasilva It is a nightmare for the child to experience this.
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1 May 17
@Shavkat Exactly
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• Kolkata, India
30 Apr 17
Negative words always bring negativity. We should never discourage our children with negative words.
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30 Apr 17
This is true. But unfortunately they are unconscious attitudes of many parents.
• Kolkata, India
30 Apr 17
@danielasilva parents must be alert of this!
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30 Apr 17
• India
1 May 17
Absorbing negativity is the biggest crime
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1 May 17
I think the same way
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• India
1 May 17
@danielasilva that's good. How is your day progressing today?
@Marty1 (31934)
• Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
1 May 17
@danieasilva Very wise indeed. My parents didn't raise us with negative words
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1 May 17
Thank you. How lucky is yours.
@lady1993 (16391)
• Philippines
1 May 17
i agree, i am all with disciplining the child, without the shouting and cruel words because those stuff really stick to them also hurting them, even though not so hard, but still - it won't teach them respect, maybe just fear or domination
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1 May 17
Many things could be avoided if we put ourselves in the people's shoes.
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• India
1 May 17
The more you litter negativity on children, the more their lives will become trashy
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1 May 17
This is true. Some people run away from themselves
@BabyRai1 (907)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Apr 17
Some adults fail to understand that not all children are the same.some children are slow learners and need more attention and patience
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30 Apr 17
Usually, are inexperienced parents in life.
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@prashu228 (25814)
• India
30 Apr 17
I agree , children should not be discouraged like this. They loose their confidence levels as they grow feel insecure as well. Obviously their elders and teachers who ever educated them have to be blamed.
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30 Apr 17
Unfortunately this happens a lot in society and people do not realize it.
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30 Apr 17
You're right.
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