SOMETHING SPECIAL.

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@Kandae11 (53679)
May 2, 2017 12:36pm CST
Is there one special quality about yourself that you really like? A quality known only to family, close friends and those whose lives you might have touched? Then share that quality with us. The quality I like most about myself is that I am respectful - I give respect where it is due. In fact I am blind to color, race or a person's position in life. You could see me sitting near a sidewalk chatting with a homeless person - or at a table with Prime Ministers and Diplomats. What would you say is your best quality?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 May 17
People say I have the patience of a saint. I would say that's my best quality. =)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 May 17
@Kandae11 Well thank you. =)
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@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
3 May 17
Bless your heart, with several little ones, you need lots of patience!
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
I could have guessed that is your special quality.
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• United States
2 May 17
I'm a good listener! I rarely interrupt and try not to give advice after listening. Most people just need to vent.
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@1creekgirl (40515)
• United States
3 May 17
That is such an important trait, but very rare these days.
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• United States
3 May 17
@1creekgirl Thanks!
@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
That is a wonderful quality.
@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
2 May 17
I have lived my life with a positive ourlook. I think the ability to be positive and not let negativity creep into your life is a gift...
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
It is a gift indeed, - being positive most of or all of the time isn't easy.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
2 May 17
The only thing I can say about myself is my sense of humor @Kandae11 ; which I share with 'everybody'. And I hope that is what I'm remembered for.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
I remember asking the question about the qualities which may attract you to a person - -and in nine out of ten responses - a great sense of humor was among the qualities most looked for.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
2 May 17
@Kandae11 I think that's true because there are so many bad things happening in the world (especially today), that if we didn't laugh, we'd be crying all the time. And I love the phrase, "A smile is a frown turned upside down."
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
@nanette64 Laughter is also said to be the best medicine. A lot of times people prefer to be around people who at least appear to be jolly -- even though they may be crying inside.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 May 17
My integrity. I can be depended on to keep my word and do what I say I will. Being dependable and having integrity is also being respectful of others.
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@just4him (306113)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
2 May 17
@Kandae11 If it's beyond your control, you have time to call people and let them know what happened and why you cannot fulfill your obligation. It's when you have control over the situation and have no excuse for not doing what you said you would that you lose your integrity, and ultimately any respect from others as well.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
That is right, I would be miserable if it happens that I am unable to fulfill a promise I made due to circumstances beyond my control.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
@just4him Correct.
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@JudyEv (325759)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 May 17
I think I am dependable. If I say I'll do something it will be done - and on time.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
That's wonderful.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
3 May 17
People say I have lots of patience that's the reason I rarely have a fight with the people. Also I am very much down to earth sort of person as I don't believe in show off.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
3 May 17
@Kandae11 but sometimes it has disadvantages too as people try to make use of mine.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Patience is a very good quality to have. I wish I had more of it.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
@sjvg1976 Yes, people will try to take advantage, but you must know when to draw the line.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
3 May 17
I think I always have a golden heart in helping other people. I am a joker in the family and they are so entertained.
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@Shavkat (137214)
• Philippines
4 May 17
@Kandae11 I am not perfect, but I am trying to be, my friend/
@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Having a golden heart would cover many good attributes. I am also the joker in my family.
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• Austin, Texas
3 May 17
Staying positive.
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• Austin, Texas
3 May 17
@Kandae11 - Yes I've noticed that some people do find it hard to see the UP side of a situation. That's how I realized it was a "gift". In the Bible, Barnabas, the Apostle Paul's companion on missionary trips, was called "son of encouragement". I get that. There are some people who stay positive and keep going so they can help others. It's a gift God expects them to use to encourage others.
@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Many people find it hard to be that. Very good.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 17
@Kandae11 I don't know if I have any special quality,but my friends,relatives and all those who I come across frequ entry say I am honest,polite and friendly to all.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 17
@Kandae11 LOL!! They say I have these qualities.And I don't know if they are right.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Those are great qualities to have.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
@else34 They wouldn't say it if they didn't mean it. You are being modest -- another good quality.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
2 May 17
I'm willing to give everyone a chance when I encounter them. I don't judge on appearances. I might keep my guard up - but I don't decide until they act.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
That is a good one -- not judging by appearances.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
2 May 17
@Kandae11 I was once walking through a river flat when a large biker gang called out to me and told me to come over. It was a bunch of rowdy people that looked like they could kill me an take my money, but I dutifully went over. They all turned out to be really nice people. It was fun talking with them.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
@OneOfMany I might have been shaking in my shoes. - but you took the chance and it turned out okay. You just never know.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 May 17
I am the "healer" when someone is sick, I know what to get out and make them feel better. Cough? I got a halls cough drop. Headache? I got the aspirin. I can even do natural - stomach ache? Blackberry juice.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
I know quite a lot of people would want to be around you. People usually gravitate to people like nurses and doctors who may be able to help them in a medical crisis.
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
3 May 17
That's great. I'm very down to earth n I'm happy to be like that. Earlier i wasn't that good, i was egoistic
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Realizing one's shortcomings and having the desire to change is a very commendable quality.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
3 May 17
@Kandae11 Thank you
@manikarnika (3222)
• India
3 May 17
Nice picture...About me I am so talkative...Friend's used to say always"You are so funny". But many times I have seen, all are laughing for what I told except me.It's really a mysterious for me.I always recall it and laugh sometimes...Lol
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
You make people laugh - and laughter - they say - is the best medicine.
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• India
3 May 17
@Kandae11 yeah...you're right.Laughing is a good medicine.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
3 May 17
I always like to help others. It is so satisfying knowing that you have helped a troubled soul
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
That's wonderful! - I love it.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
3 May 17
Enthusiasm tops the list of other qualities - yes I have several other endearing qualities (lol)
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
You do whatever it is that you must do with gusto - no holding back - you give it your all. A bit of positivity there as well.
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• United States
2 May 17
Well I was known for my take charge ability in time of crisis. It was always oh..Ocean will know what to do. But now they regard me as the black sheep, the crazy to say the least, such disrespect is unwelcome by me. So thats the end of that story.
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• United States
2 May 17
@Kandae11 Yes now I leave them to their own devices thanks Kandase
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
In many situations people look towards someone to take charge and deal with things - that is a very good quality to have.
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
2 May 17
I think your quality is the best one can be. I would have to say that I am honest, caring, loving, and fun to be around.
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@DianneN (246720)
• United States
2 May 17
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@Kandae11 (53679)
2 May 17
Thank you. Those you listed are all great qualities - people would love being around you.
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@dramagirl26 (3259)
• Ringgold, Virginia
3 May 17
I'd say my best quality is my kindness. I've always been nice to people and willing to help out whenever I can.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Kindness, I would think is one of the best qualities. When you are kind, you give when you can, you listen, you empathize, you are not quick to judge. very good.
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• Avon, Connecticut
3 May 17
Friendly, hard worker, creative
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@Kandae11 (53679)
3 May 17
Wonderful.