Strange weather...

@sishy7 (27664)
Australia
May 9, 2017 3:27am CST
# 69 It was a sunny afternoon today, and then all of the sudden rain came down pretty hard… The sky did turn darker, but the sun was still out too… I don’t really know how to describe it - something like a gloomy day and sunny at the same time… Anyway, gloomy is how I’ve been feeling the past few days on here… I didn’t realize before how deeply I could be affected by sad news that I learned here. While I don’t deny that friendship grows from interactions on here, I have always tried to maintain certain anonymity realizing that these are not people that I interact face-to-face after all. But when I heard about Ayu, a myLotter who recently died in her sleep, I was completely in shock and my tears just started to come down. I was crying, and I’ve never even met her. Not in person anyway, but it was only a couple of days before I heard the news that I was interacting with her on here. And I remember her even from her early days as a newbie. Rest peacefully sweet girl… Thank you for the friendship. I will miss you dearly.
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@responsiveme (14476)
• India
9 May 17
Yes, she was very sweet.Though not often , I did interact with her and I remember how we remarked of the similarity of words in our respective languages
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
She's a Balinese, I guess that's why she caught my attention straight away when she was new... I have a special spot in my heart for anything related to Indonesia...
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• India
9 May 17
@sishy7 There was a post on Purnima...That's the full moon...Same in our language too
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• New Delhi, India
9 May 17
The sad news about Ayu affected me a lot as well. I hate to rethink about it.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
I'm sorry if this post made you remember it all over again... I guess I just had to let my feeling out somehow...
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• New Delhi, India
9 May 17
@HAPPSINGH I cannot understand
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• New Delhi, India
9 May 17
@HAPPSINGH I m confused. Do you think it was a joke?
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@LadyDuck (148065)
• Switzerland
9 May 17
I have heard about Ayu, what a terrible news. She was such a sweet beautiful young girl. May she rest in peace.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
Terrible and shocking news indeed. Completely unexpected. I can't remember being hit hard by any post like I was when I read about it...
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@LadyDuck (148065)
• Switzerland
10 May 17
@sishy7 I could not believe it was true, it is true that never a new day is granted, but she was so young.
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@PatZAnthony (12369)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
12 May 17
It is really sad, but there is nothing we can do about this.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
12 May 17
You're right about that...
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• , New York
17 May 17
When it is time to go no one can ever know when.
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@CRK109 (14419)
• United States
10 May 17
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. We come to love the friends we make online and it's never easy to lose them.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
10 May 17
Yes, you are right. Online friends can also have a great impact in our lives...
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@DianneN (74653)
• United States
9 May 17
Oh, my! I didn't know her, but I felt the same when poor MarcyAZ passed away. I still feel her loss and think of her often.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
10 May 17
Yes, I too remember her. There are at least a handful other myLotters who have passed away that I think of from time to time.
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• United States
9 May 17
Oh no, I seem to recall Ayu. I am so sorry to hear this sishy. Thank you for relaying this sad news. RIP Ayu Yes the weather here was big hail yesterday black skies.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
10 May 17
We first heard the sad news from her myLotter boyfriend a few days ago. Sounds like your weather was even gloomier than mine... I hope it has improved by now...
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@hereandthere (28985)
• Philippines
9 May 17
that kind of quirky weather happens here, too, then you'll see a rainbow afterwards. i assumed she was busy offline so i was surprised, too.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
There weren't really that many days between her last activity on here and the sad news post. That's why it was such a shock to me. It's like one minute I was talking to her then the next minute she's gone.
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@ShifaLk (7496)
• India
10 May 17
What What's the user name?
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
10 May 17
@Ayuriny - I'm pretty sure you came across her before, maybe on your first account...
@ShifaLk (7496)
• India
10 May 17
@sishy7 o my god I had a doubt when i read ayu How come that happen? No please don't say that
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
10 May 17
@ShifaLk I know - I was numb when I first heard about it. I was just talking to her on here, and she's gone?
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@Nawsheen (22999)
• Mauritius
9 May 17
I feel.so sorry for her too. I heard she had an accident and passed away due to that. She was such a sweet person. May she rest in peace
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@Nawsheen (22999)
• Mauritius
9 May 17
@sishy7 in fact i learnt about this from the message posted by her boyfriend.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
@Nawsheen Was it a PM - a Private Message?
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@Nawsheen (22999)
• Mauritius
9 May 17
@sishy7 in fact this was on a discussion but i think admins removed it
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@velvet53 (16145)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Jul
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't meet her but it sounds like you were quite fond of her. It does hurt when we lose someone we are close to.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
29 Jul
@velvet53 One of the responses here mentioned she had an accident just before that - but I could not get a confirmation...
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@velvet53 (16145)
• Palisade, Colorado
29 Jul
@sishy7 I sure hope that you can find out the details. It sounds like a puzzle right now not knowing answers to things.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
30 Jul
@velvet53 Her myLot boyfriend briefly came back here earlier this month but gave no other details. I don't really communicate with any members on here outside myLot.
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@rebelann (39017)
• El Paso, Texas
9 May 17
So sorry you were affected like that, I did not know her so was ignorant about it. The weather is strange all over the world it seems.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
Yeah, the sudden heavy rain in the middle of a sunny day may not be all that strange as it may be happening in many other parts of the world as well...
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@rebelann (39017)
• El Paso, Texas
9 May 17
Is heavy rain normal for your area @sishy7 ?
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
@rebelann I guess we have our share of days when rain does come pouring down quite heavily...
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@jobelbojel (6818)
• Philippines
15 May 17
This is a weird weather you had. Anyway, I am not sure if I interacted with her before, I think I have but I can't remember. Can somebody share Ayu's profile link here?
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
16 May 17
I did in one of the previous responses - but here she's again:
This is Ayuriny 's user profile on myLot. Discussions, responses, comments, likes & more.
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• Philippines
16 May 17
@sishy7 Oh, yeah. I interacted with her before. She's too young. I'm so sad she's gone too soon.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
16 May 17
@jobelbojel It was so sudden too - I was shocked when I read about it...
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@much2say (38757)
• United States
14 May 17
I'm so sorry to hear this . I wasn't sure who she was, but then I saw your comment . . . ah, now I remember her. We have crossed paths here though I didn't get know her well. We may not meet in person the many friends we make online, but certain they can touch our hearts - friends are friends no matter what. May she rest in peace.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
14 May 17
That's true... She was so young... About the same age as my oldest son...
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@much2say (38757)
• United States
14 May 17
@sishy7 Oh my, that's very young! Had she been ill?
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@much2say (38757)
• United States
16 May 17
@sishy7 A couple days before - oh my goodness.
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• United States
11 May 17
It's sad to hear but I hope it's not true. :(
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
11 May 17
I don't know what it is that's making Happ to think the news was a fake one. But if anyone is making up such devastating story, the person is very heartless for spreading a cruel hoax.
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• United States
12 May 17
@sishy7 It would be cruel if its a hoax.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
12 May 17
@infatuatedbby Yeah, hopefully if it's not true, it was just some kind of a miscommunication with no ill-will or bad intention.
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@eagletrek2 (5153)
• Kingston, New York
12 May 17
The weather been strange all over the earth This year.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
12 May 17
You're right... I know you expect it to be warmer already where you are this time of year...
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• Kingston, New York
13 May 17
@sishy7 yes when I was a kid it was Swimming weather end of April
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@Shavkat (56927)
• Philippines
9 May 17
I heard the news about her. It was really a sad feeling. She is too young to die.
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
9 May 17
Yes, she's about the same age as my first born.
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@Shavkat (56927)
• Philippines
9 May 17
@sishy7 I am sure she is in good hand now.
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@Sreekala (22239)
• India
9 May 17
I too was like that and I even stopped mylotting. I only interacted with her here and I even remember her last post. She started simple questions so it is easy to participate. She was so young and nice and I felt I lost some one very close. Anyway some one helped me to change my mind set and told me it may be a fake news. So I decided to participate here for the better change.
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@Sreekala (22239)
• India
11 May 17
@sishy7 Knowing many other things, can't predict anything.
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@kepweng (11569)
5 Oct
nice that you snap the king sun i think global warming or haarp of usa or end of the world in near again
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@sishy7 (27664)
• Australia
5 Oct
It was raining and sunny at the same time so I thought would be nice to take a picture of it...
@magnumopus (1674)
• Singapore
1 Jun
Our thoughts and prayer for Ayu. May her soul rest in eternal repose.
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