Which Do You Choose, A Man Who Have It All Or A Man Who Wants To Marry You?

@ilocosboy (33267)
Philippines
May 12, 2017 12:42am CST
I got the idea of posting the topic when I read from facebook about the parent who wants their career successful daughter to get daughter. At the time the daughter was in dilemna about two men whom she's dating. The first one is a handsome, just as succesful as her in his career, intelligent and have money to support his family. Its so happen he doesn't want to get married yet because he is on the road of his dream. Here's another man who wants to marry her but have just enough to support his would be family,. Will you grab the chance of getting married?
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@magallon (17367)
• Philippines
12 May
I think you didn't mention about love here. It is best to consider the feeling than material things. But if she is looking for security and well - off life , then she better wait for the man until that man is ready to settle down. But that is still a question. Will she still be the girl that the man wants to marry when that time comes?
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@waflay (2729)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 May
Great points! I guess you are right to ask if he will be willing to marry her when his time to settle down has come. In most cases, when a man says he is not ready to marry, he might be thinking of an easier way to break up with her or he is genuine--- not sure with marriage life yet. Only time may be the key to something in future, but it is not that easy,
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@magallon (17367)
• Philippines
12 May
@waflay You're right... when a man tells a woman that he is not yet ready to get married, that means he is not so interested or in love with the girl. So the girl should be sensitive enough to get what the man really wants to imply. Or it could also be, that the man really wants to prepare for their future.
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
Yeah the love is the big consideration in settling down. But what if those two have the same impact onvyou, just like Jodi SantaMaria ang peg in her roles.
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@carexing25 (1829)
• Philippines
12 May
the man who can love, accept and understand me at all times.
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
Which means your choice is the second man
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@waflay (2729)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 May
So I guess the girl is in dilemma, whether to go for money and other material belongings or to go for life and a humble beginning. Well, everyone wants to live a better marriage life--which only true love can give. Unfortunately, temptations for valuables is like a snare that binds the mind and may train the heart to live with it. Here, the girl has to make a decision either to wait for her lover to be ready or to go for her love and start a new beginning.
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
Thats true, the premise could be the marriage of two career oriented people who later doom their marriage because of their dreams and positions. And the second is family oriented who is just contended to give his family meal each day, just simple living, no needs just wants.
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@jstory07 (58373)
• Roseburg, Oregon
12 May
I would not care about money I would care about love. I would marry the man I love.
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
Thats true, the important thing is love
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@m_audrey6788 (11601)
• Germany
12 May
I will just base it on my experience..for me Marriage is so precious..once you Married the person it is for a lifetime, so I like to be with someone I am comfortable with, someone I can open everything...why because in everyday life there will always be an obstacles, problems, hard situations that comes our way and it will not stop..so if both of us be open to each other, we can solve it together..it is like "2 heads are better than 1"..just sharing my own point of view
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
Love and understanding to each other is the key to rhe door of forevermore. Sometimes people hard to decide because they don't know which to decide, the intangible or the tangible things.
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@responsiveme (14417)
• India
12 May
I no longer have that choice. He he...
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
We have already choosen
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@Elisa1234 (7656)
• Philippines
12 May
I think, I would marry the man I love. :) than material things.
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@ilocosboy (33267)
• Philippines
12 May
Rhe intangible thing weigh more than tangible things
@Nawsheen (22862)
• Mauritius
12 May
The one who I love and will always be there for me
@ridingbet (37924)
• Philippines
12 May
i recall what my late mother told us ;"marry the man who loves you, not the man you love". i hope there is love between your daughter and the man she wishes to marry.
@Shavkat (46777)
• Philippines
12 May
True love is the most important thing before getting married.