Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage?

I always preferred love marriage because even two very good people cannot be suitable for each other. when it's love marriage, you know the person and the compatibility level. In india, divorce is a big thing, so better choose the right partner. But see the irony, i had an arranged marriage !!

This is a question which concerns only members from your part of the world. In Europe and the USA, marriages are not arranged. It may happen in families of Asian origin, of course.

What do you think? It depends on your culture and how you value the will of your parents. Some would wish to go for love, but they fear to go against parental wishes...hence accepting an arranged marriage. Others like me have no choice but to hunt for love in all terrains. Parents have nothing to say, and would not be there to make the decision for you. But they will be there to either accept your choice or decline you your dear love. Either way, it is up to them to make the final say... and it is upon us to take heed or to go against them.

Well it depends on how we see it

I would want love over arranged marriage.

I prefer arrange marriage. ..

Marriage is becoming more-&-more like 'just the next-level of dating,' and I would rather turn it back into the life-partnership that God is said to have meant it to be---makes me mad at Christians who claim to get into marriage 'for love alone,' when Our Father (if they want to stick to their story) obviously wanted us each to marry 'the spouse our parents bring to us.' The "Love" develops later ... if you're lucky.

I will marry the person that I love.

A marriage whether arranged or by individual choice is not a marriage without love. A loveless union is just two people legally attached by a piece of paper or a custom or tradition or whatever it is that took a single person and made them "not single" and united to another person.

Truthfully ... I'm not sure what to think as in our country we don't do that. If it's done here ... I'm not aware of it. I respect the customs of everyone.

Both have pro's and con's... Rest depends on choice of the individual

I don't believe in arrange marriage.

I would choose love marriage. I wanna marry the person I loved For the arrange marriage If I'm in love with that person at first sight, at the same time I am single, then I'll go for it.