Too many restrictions may lead to hide things
By Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
India
May 22, 2017 7:10am CST
Hello dear friends,
I am happy to say that we have a comfortable and cool day today as there was rain yesterday and today. Now I am coming to the topic.
It is common in life if we don’t like something then we put some restrictions. It is applicable for all relations. At times it will be towards children or will be towards spouse, friends, relatives etc.
What do you think on this, if we make restrictions then people may started to hide things from us. I mean at times, others can’t accept the demand or order; in that case they just hide it and continue the same. Of course every one has their own freedom and preference.
What is your opinion?
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11 responses
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
22 May 17
I agree , too many restrictions makes people to hide things. The more the restrictions the more curiosity. That's why "Space is very important in every relationship."
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
22 May 17
You can put restrictions but also explain why and see how they respond.
Food was scarce when I was small so we used to sneak down at night sometimes and make a quick sandwich to eat upstairs very quickly though and on tiptoe.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 May 17
Explanation do not work always dear. It depends on the situation. Yes, in case of a child if we put some restrictions and explain why we are saying like that, it may work. But in case of relationship, the wife can't talk to some one as hubby don't like and vice versa never works, whatever may be the reason.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 May 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 I understand your point of view too my dear.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
23 May 17
@Sreekala
Yes that is so right.
They just shut their ears and away.
I find explaining is something that should be a normal thing as it was something that was lacking when I was small and a great deal.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
22 May 17
People love to do things that are forbidden out of curiosity perhaps its all in us from the time of Adam and Eve
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
22 May 17
If someone is harming me, I am finished and I don't care if they hide things anymore.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
24 May 17
Too many restrictions do lead to children rebelling
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