My Daughter is Coming
@nanette64 (20364)
Fairfield, Texas
May 22, 2017 12:06pm CST
Even though my daughter Lisa had a serious motorcycle wreck on the 13th, she has decided to come to Texas from Nebraska for a visit on the 28th. Because of my medical issues she and I both figure it could possibly be the last time we see each other.
Since she's not going to quit riding her motorcycle and unfortunately drinks while doing so, and this accident being #3, she may not be around much longer either. She's bringing her new husband along; whom I dislike. I think his sole intention is to look at my property to get an idea of how much he can get out of it once I croak.
When I met him for the first time 2 years ago at my Granddaughters wedding, he tried talking me into selling it and moving back to Nebraska. Lisa and I are going to have to have some serious conversations while she's here.
As for her husband Cary? If he steps in or tries to make any 'suggestions', he will feel the full wrath of what a mother-in-law can do.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
22 May 17
I feel for you Nanette having this stranger in your home.
I wish it were not this way.
I understand perfectly what you are saying.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 May 17
Trust me when I say I will be locking my bedroom door when I go to bed at night @TiarasOceanView .
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
22 May 17
@nanette64 Nanette, that saddens me to hear this..I know you are very sick right now and I wish there were a way that no good loser would not come. It is none of his business. I will be aware on the 28th then and looking for you. I hope someone else knows where you are you know? Someone?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
23 May 17
@TiarasOceanView My Granddaughter for sure and if you guys don't see a post 6/1 or 6/2 (because I don't think they'll be here any longer than that); then ..... "Something's rotten in Denmark."
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 May 17
I do too (sense) @Nawsheen . At her age of 46, I raised her better than that.
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@Fleura (29127)
• United Kingdom
22 May 17
Leave your property in trust to benefit your daughter and granddaughter, that way her husband can't get his hands on it. And I hope you both last a bit longer than you expect! Your daughter needs to stop drinking and driving though, she could kill someone else.
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@Fleura (29127)
• United Kingdom
22 May 17
@nanette64 Sounds like you've done all you can; now you just have to try to stay alive as long as possible!
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 May 17
I do have my will set up that way @Fleura ; although with Nebraska also being a joint property state, if my daughter keeps up her idiocy and gets killed on the bike, he'd probably fight to get the money. I've raised holey heck with her about the drinking and driving.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 May 17
@Fleura My goal is to live longer just so I can tick 'him' off.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 May 17
If he really sounds like he's just interested in your property; then give him a dose of his own medicine! Don't allow him to do that to you.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
23 May 17
He'll definitely hear it from me if he steps out of line @acelawrites.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
24 May 17
@CoralLevang Money can definitely be the 'root of all evil'.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
25 May 17
@CoralLevang Let's see: a 1916 Elgin Pocket Watch; 1800's Grandfather Mantel Clock; Oriental Mother-of-Pearl serving tray; coins, etc.
@thislittlepennyearns (58134)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
22 May 17
Have you voiced your concerns to your daughter?
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 May 17
Several times @thislittlepennyearns but thus far it doesn't seem to be doing any good. I think she's ignoring his 'controlling' attitude and not considering my 'common sense'.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
24 May 17
@CoralLevang All true or I wouldn't have been with my jackass for 17 1/2 years. Most abused women 'think' they can change the other person. And well.....it don't work. Unfortunately I think it is the womans natural instinct of nurturing.
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 May 17
Sad situation. I hope the visit will go well. I hope you two can talk without him sticking his nose in.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 May 17
I hope we can too (talk) @Happy2BeMe . Putting her in the middle of things would definitely be stressful.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
23 May 17
So sorry for that, but he doesn't have any right to take about your property, right. Hope your daughter realize that driving is not good for her
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
24 May 17
It sounds like a visit you really are not going to enjoy @nanette64
Maybe he will decide to stay home!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 May 17
Sorry that your daughter is being so silly regarding the drink driving, that's really bad news. Also bad news is her choice of a husband, but not a lot you can do about that.
I'm lucky in that both my husband and I love our son-in-law and call him our 'number two son'. We also have a wonderful daughter-in-law - I know we're lucky.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
27 May 17
And with both of them in their middle 40's, I don't think there is going to be much of a change either @jaboUK .
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