It's Too Early for Temper Tantrums!

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The family who lives in the apartment next to ours has two toddler aged boys. I swear all they do all day, every day is throw temper tantrums which involves loud screaming and crying, which I am forced to hear through my wall. Their hissy fits are usually followed by some adult yelling at them to "knock it off." Both of the other families living in this fourplex also have young children, but they aren't as badly behaved as the two boys next door. Now I understand temper tantrums are part of toddler life -- heck, I can even remember throwing my own when I was that age. But when that's all a kid ever does, nonstop, it becomes problematic. I believe that their bad behavior is due to bad parenting, as the adults over there seem to mostly ignore them other than to scream at them. You know the old adage: Bad attention is still attention. Kids will get attention any way they can. It's frustrating when you can hear little kids screaming from inside the neighbors' apartment, but their guardian is too busy romancing her girlfriend out on the balcony or yapping loudly on her cellphone to pay them any mind other than to holler at them to shut up. I don't think they're being abused or even necessarily neglected, aside from the fact that the adults over there always seem to have their noses stuck to their phones or are too caught up in their own activities to be bothered with the kids. This morning the boys were at it before it was even 7:00, which is way too early to be forced to listen to that crap. Sometimes I wish I could move to a community where children are not allowed. I have spent a good deal of time working with kids and even have a degree in Early Childhood Education, but I don't enjoy hearing my neighbors' kids throwing temper tantrums nonstop, especially so early on a Saturday morning. I wish modern parents would actually parent, instead of just lazily hollering at the kids to "knock it off" while they continue ignoring them.