Bit of a scare

@dodo19 (47066)
Beaconsfield, Quebec
May 27, 2017 10:58am CST
My second daughter gave me a bit of a scare. This morning, my girls had their ballet class. On the way home, we have to cross a busy intersection. Well, I'm crossing with them and my second daughter goes pretty far ahead of me and a little over where some cars should be. Thankfully, no cars came up and she didn't get hurt. But I was so scared that a car was going to come up. And well ... I don't even want to think about what could have happened if a car had come up. Once on the other side, I did raise my voice a little. Maybe a little more than I should have, but I was just really worried. I did explain that she had to stay close and it was just because I don't want anything to happen to them. I am just relieved that nothing did happen.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
27 May 17
I would've done the same. Glad she is okay.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
I think it would have scared a lot of people. Thankfully she is okay.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
27 May 17
@dodo19 yes.
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@Juliaacv (48437)
• Canada
28 May 17
I am glad that nothing happened to her crossing like that, it must have been nerve wracking on you. I've yelled at our son for things like that, its just human nature sometimes.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
I was definitely worried that something would happen. Thankfully, nothing did. I am glad that I am not the only one who has yelled in this kind of situation. It just seems normal to do it.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
27 May 17
I'm glad nothing happened and she's okay. In times of danger I have yelled at mine too, that's the only way to get through to them sometimes.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
Yeah, I am so glad that nothing happened. I am glad that I'm not the only parent who has yelled at their kids in moments of danger. It can be really scary for a parent.
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
27 May 17
Oh, I would be so scared too... Glad nothing happened and hopefully she knows now to stay close to you next time.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
Yeah I am glad nothing happened. It did scare me but she's okay. Hopefully she stays close from now on.
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• United States
27 May 17
It's more scary thinking of what could have happened to your daughter if a car had come along. Thankfully nothing happened but you did right in scolding her and making her aware of the danger when crossing a road.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
It really is more scary to think of what could have happened. But I am glad it didn't. I don't think I'd be doing my job right if I didn't tell her why she had to stay close.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 May 17
I am so glad she is safe. It would have been very scary. I hope she learned her lesson and won't do that again.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
I am glad she is alright too. It did scare me. Hopefully she doesn't do it again.
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• United States
28 May 17
Crossing a street is a scary thing to do with children, even if they are old enough to do it on their own. I remember my kids holding my hand and yanking loose then taking off running. My heart stopped. They were fine, until I got to them. I gave them a tongue lashing.
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• United States
28 May 17
@dodo19 things can happen so fast and I can't even fathom the worst happening, but unfortunately it can.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
I always get a little nervous when crossing a street with them. It's especially scary when they run ahead.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
@ElusiveButterfly We may not like thinking about it, but unfortunately the worst can happen. Thankfully it didn't happen to us.
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@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
28 May 17
Thank goodness she is OK. You have to watch kids like a hawk for sure.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
I am definitely happy that she is alright. We always have to be watching our kids.
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
28 May 17
Fear prompts us to do things we might not otherwise do @dodo19 Of course they know you don't want anything to happen to them and will get over you raising your voice.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
That's true. I'm sure she's already over it. When we're scared, we don't always react as we normally would.
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@KristenH (33351)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
27 May 17
That was a close call all right. Glad everyone's okay.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
It was. A car could have come up as we were crossing, but thankfully everyone is okay.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 May 17
@KristenH It really is.
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@KristenH (33351)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
27 May 17
@dodo19 That's such a relief.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
29 May 17
I would have done the same. You must have been so frightened. My mother was with me and my two sons at the zoo. My older son crossed the street by himself age age five. My mother went ballistic on him. Lesson learned. So happy your daughter was safe!
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
29 May 17
Yeah I was pretty scared. Much like your mom must have been. I am glad that both your son and my daughter are alright. Hopefully, my daughter doesn't do it again.
@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
31 May 17
@DianneN I'm sure she has.
@DianneN (246819)
• United States
31 May 17
@dodo19 I'm certain she learned a valuable lesson.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
29 May 17
Kids sometimes don't understand the danger. A good talking to doesn't hurt.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
29 May 17
Sometimes they don't always understand. So, we just have to explain to them. Thankfully, she's okay.
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 May 17
@dodo19 Yes, I'm glad she's okay too.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
28 May 17
I understand your fear. Unfortunately the older they get, the more independent they get.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
@BettyB I think it's an ongoing thing. I think we ever stop worrying about them.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
Yes, it is true. They are getting more and more independent. At the end of the day though I am the mother and I will worry about them.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
28 May 17
@dodo19 My sons are both adults now and I still worry about them.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
28 May 17
Yes it was scary she must learn about road safety.thankfully all.is well
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
It was definitely scary for me. Thankfully she is alright and I'll keep reminding her that she needs to stay close.
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
Good that nothing bad happened to her and to you
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 May 17
So am I. I am happy that we're all alright.
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