That Heartbreak...!

May 30, 2017 1:31am CST
It is my this one friend.. i must say we have been the best friends. He had a Girlfriend in his college. He wanted her so much with whole heart. He used to tell me her stories... hahahha i listen him every weekend on phone.. as we were in different colleges in different cities. Don't know how they broke up, very sad, Heartbreak of my dear friend. This was very bad. Very bad to me as well because his heartbreak took him into dark. he stopped calling me. He no more talked to anybody. Suddenly he called me one night over 2 am. And he was literally crying on the other side. we talked for around 40- 45 minutes.i asked him the reason, he didn't tell me. After consoling he fell asleep. this was the last call we had till yesterday evening. i was on call with my other friend in this city where he conference him. That voice again.. after this long time. he is doing good today, has a job, good settlement and happy. No girlfriend thing.. but fully busy in life. it felt so relieved he is alive in soul. why is this heartbreak that destroys everything around?
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6 responses
@magnumopus (1674)
• Singapore
30 May 17
It's the emotional pain and bitterness as well as mental anguish that goes with any love break up, I think this is the reason.
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3 Jun 17
yes, we can say so. i must add.. it's self expectation too.. though it is also the part of emotional thing
@josie_ (6978)
• Philippines
30 May 17
Your friend accepted the reality of his girlfriend's rejection and moved on. All part of the 5 stages of grief, denial,anger, bargaining, depression and finally acceptance.
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30 May 17
yeah.. very true. I cannot simply explain how good i felt when i found him in his real warm color.
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@BabyRai1 (907)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 May 17
He was deeply attached to the girlfriend that's why he took quite sometime to move on.fortunately he has found his peace!!
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@BabyRai1 (907)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 May 17
@HAPPSINGH have you been heartbroken before?
@BabyRai1 (907)
• Nairobi, Kenya
30 May 17
@HAPPSINGH Good for u
@BabyRai1 (907)
• Nairobi, Kenya
31 May 17
@HAPPSINGH broken twice but am still living
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@shaynas (5529)
• India
30 May 17
When you have a break up, that seem to be most important thing in your life. I feel it's human, when you are attached to someone so deeply, it hurts when they are no longer a part of you. But time heals everything :)
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@shaynas (5529)
• India
30 May 17
@HAPPSINGH yeah, everything !!
@shaynas (5529)
• India
30 May 17
@HAPPSINGH someone seems to speaking from experience??
@shaynas (5529)
• India
30 May 17
@HAPPSINGH nah, you
• New Delhi, India
30 May 17
I don't think so...a sensible person always gets up and restarts life
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3 Jun 17
sure sir.. but i think it matters with how we handle our sensibility.
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• New Delhi, India
6 Jun 17
@AnthOcean yeah...our method of handling is all that matters
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@prashu228 (25820)
• India
30 May 17
Glad your friend is out of that pain and successful now..
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3 Jun 17
yeah.. that's what made me post this i am so happy for him.