I hate bullies....

Banks, Oregon
June 1, 2017 3:28pm CST
Both of my nieces are being bullied in school and it has gotten worse, I told them they need to stand up to there bully in front of a large group but they are still scared. My older niece is so sweet and quiet and emotional so I know it really hurts her. My other niece is very loud and has outbursts they both handle things very differently. I know they need to go to another school next year and this school has done nothing to stop it. But I know it will be difficult to get them to and from a school if they go to another towns school. I just hate seeing them sad and I know it's frowned upon for a Uncle to go beat up students who are bullying his nieces. But something has to happen I am sick of it, I know my younger niece has been a bully to and that makes me even sadder... I just know it needs correction before they get older. I hate bullies but they only have a few weeks left of school.
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• United States
1 Jun
Just a few more weeks until schools out. I would stand up too but its easier said than done. Those bullies need a taste of their own medicine!
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@sallypup (19386)
• Moses Lake, Washington
1 Jun
@infatuatedbby I wonder if the awful kids will try something when school is out?
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
@sallypup so far it has been a in school thing only
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
Agreed they don't want me to come there that's for sure
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@minx267 (11186)
• Hartford, Connecticut
2 Jun
That sucks. I had a bully that used to bother me on the school bus.. I still vow to this day If I ever see him i will run him over..
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
Yeah i don't blame you i know i had a few bullies but id like to think they have grown up now
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@minx267 (11186)
• Hartford, Connecticut
2 Jun
@chrissbergstrom one would hope.. but maybe they just became worse bullies.
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@TRBRocks420 (58906)
• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
Mom needs to call the school and, tell them exactly what's happening and, they need to do something or we will go down there and, put a stop to it ourselves.
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
That's basically it to if it's not handled where the girls feel comfortable returning it is not enough
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@TRBRocks420 (58906)
• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
@chrissbergstrom Yes, they need to be told if they ever bully a kid again they are expelled for an entire year and, will repeat it.
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• Ponce De Leon, Florida
1 Jun
How old are they? Is there a school guidence counselor that they could talk to?
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
They have done no good these problems have been ongoing for months older niece is 16 other niece is 13
@celticeagle (113041)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Jun
I really dislike bullies too. I think it is like a right of passage but so unfair.
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
Unfortunately they have been really bad, I mean I think bullies are even worse these days
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@celticeagle (113041)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Jun
@chrissbergstrom ......They are in the media more. I had bullies back in school and that was over 50 years ago. No internet then.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
@celticeagle its gotten worse with the internet now and cell phones
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@teamfreak16 (33569)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
2 Jun
My girlfriend was bullied in school. She has very strong opinions about it. I'm sorry your nieces are going through it.
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
Yes it is so sad teenage girls get the worse kind of bullying I think
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@teamfreak16 (33569)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
2 Jun
@chrissbergstrom - I believe that. Just from what I see online.
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
@teamfreak16 people can be so cruel
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@youless (85251)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jun
I am sorry to hear that. I think perhaps the bullies are just available in everywhere. It is the same for my child. There are a few bullies in the school. My son keeps quiet to it. This is what sometimes I feel annoyed. I know he may think keeping quiet will have a peaceful moment or he doesn't want to invlove in bigger troubles. Perhaps this kind of situation will change better when he grows up. I was often bullied by other children when I was a kid, too. Now I am stronger.
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
Yes seems wherever you go to school there will always be bullies
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@youless (85251)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Jun
@chrissbergstrom Bullies are also available in the society, such as the companies.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
@youless they are everywhere even here on myLot
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@LeaPea2417 (13581)
• Toccoa, Georgia
2 Jun
I hate bullies too. I do know there are online schools from elementary through high school. I am not sure of the costs of online schools.Maybe they could do that instead of going to a school with constant bullies.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
i even volunteered to help them if they did home school
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@LeaPea2417 (13581)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Jun
@chrissbergstrom That is very kind of you. Hopefully they will do the home school.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
@LeaPea2417 hope so
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• Lakewood, Colorado
1 Jun
Can they even transfer though? Because here you have to live in certain places districts to go to some schools. Wish they could get out of there.
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
Well sometimes it all depends
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• Lakewood, Colorado
1 Jun
@chrissbergstrom Yes good you will be going to talk with them..I did that for a nephew..worked.
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
@TiarasOceanView hope it does
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@RubyHawk (20912)
• Atlanta, Georgia
2 Jun
So do I hate to see kids bullied. It makes them dislike going to school and miserable.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
i am so afraid my nieces will not want to finish school and that would break my heart
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@RubyHawk (20912)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Jun
@chrissbergstrom Oh, I hope that doesn't happen.
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@luispas (1779)
• Venezuela
2 Jun
This is a serious problem. Did you tried to talk to someone from school? You need to get help faster. I don't know if they can stand up and be strong, because when you're scared that's so hard. When I was younger people bullied me, but all I did was ignore them, sometimes that's the best option, but if it's more tough, just take them out of there.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
yes i think they might not return for the last week of school its just not worth it
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@luispas (1779)
• Venezuela
3 Jun
@chrissbergstrom That's the best option and I'm glad to know it. Hope they'll be alright
@rjain1055 (597)
2 Jun
Some of my friend alsi bullie me
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
im sorry that happens
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@annierose (17243)
• Philippines
2 Jun
I was bullied when I was still in elementary. I am different because of the color of my skin, eyes, and hair. I don't look like a Filipino. I couldn't fight against those bullies but I was very lucky having friends who stood up for me.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
i am sorry you went through that glad you had friends
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@annierose (17243)
• Philippines
3 Jun
@chrissbergstrom I do make friends to few people only. I don't like in groups because I easily get intimidated.
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• Germany
1 Jun
I hate them too ..I experienced being bullied when I was in my elementary years aged 9 or 10yrs old made me so scared of going to school until my mom transferred me to a private school
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
Honestly had I known then what I know now I would have recommended my nieces go to a private school to
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• Germany
2 Jun
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@dodo19 (27235)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
2 Jun
It can't be easy to see your nieces sad due to bullying. My husband was bullied a lot all through school. It was really hard for him. I hope that you guys are able to figure something out for your nieces.
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
i pray it stops
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• Medan, Indonesia
2 Jun
Yess bullying isnot good
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• Banks, Oregon
3 Jun
it is awful
@prashu228 (20522)
• India
2 Jun
So sad, but why such a problem in school? What is school management doing? I hope it gets sorted out
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
i hope it is sorted out
@Fishmomma (11507)
• United States
2 Jun
I understand the frustration of watching a school ignore problems and they become really bad when ignored. The high school my daughter attended had a school shooting and then the school did something about the problem. Parents were telling them for years that the school needed to have people go through the front door to sign in, as anyone could walk on the campus. I'm sorry about your nieces and hope they can change schools. Bullies are a serious problem.
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
Yes this one boy is the problem I hate teenage boys such little jerks
@josie_ (4476)
• Philippines
1 Jun
I can understand why your nieces are scared. But there is comfort among numbers. They should try to organize among other bullied classmates and make a stand against the bully. Bullies are usually cowards and will back down when face with superior numbers. It's tempting to beat the crap out of them but that would be lowering yourself to their level.
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• Banks, Oregon
1 Jun
That is true I just hope it stops I never let myself be bullied in school or stood silent when someone else was bullied and I think it makes people respect you more that you don't let people bully you
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• Jacksonville, Florida
1 Jun
Bullying has gotten much worse over the years, it's so sad.
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• Banks, Oregon
2 Jun
Very true