I hate bullies....
June 1, 2017 3:28pm CST
Both of my nieces are being bullied in school and it has gotten worse, I told them they need to stand up to there bully in front of a large group but they are still scared. My older niece is so sweet and quiet and emotional so I know it really hurts her. My other niece is very loud and has outbursts they both handle things very differently. I know they need to go to another school next year and this school has done nothing to stop it. But I know it will be difficult to get them to and from a school if they go to another towns school. I just hate seeing them sad and I know it's frowned upon for a Uncle to go beat up students who are bullying his nieces. But something has to happen I am sick of it, I know my younger niece has been a bully to and that makes me even sadder... I just know it needs correction before they get older. I hate bullies but they only have a few weeks left of school.
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• Guangzhou, China
I am sorry to hear that. I think perhaps the bullies are just available in everywhere. It is the same for my child. There are a few bullies in the school. My son keeps quiet to it. This is what sometimes I feel annoyed. I know he may think keeping quiet will have a peaceful moment or he doesn't want to invlove in bigger troubles. Perhaps this kind of situation will change better when he grows up. I was often bullied by other children when I was a kid, too. Now I am stronger.
This is a serious problem. Did you tried to talk to someone from school? You need to get help faster. I don't know if they can stand up and be strong, because when you're scared that's so hard. When I was younger people bullied me, but all I did was ignore them, sometimes that's the best option, but if it's more tough, just take them out of there.
I was bullied when I was still in elementary. I am different because of the color of my skin, eyes, and hair. I don't look like a Filipino. I couldn't fight against those bullies but I was very lucky having friends who stood up for me.
• United States
I understand the frustration of watching a school ignore problems and they become really bad when ignored. The high school my daughter attended had a school shooting and then the school did something about the problem. Parents were telling them for years that the school needed to have people go through the front door to sign in, as anyone could walk on the campus. I'm sorry about your nieces and hope they can change schools. Bullies are a serious problem.
I can understand why your nieces are scared. But there is comfort among numbers. They should try to organize among other bullied classmates and make a stand against the bully. Bullies are usually cowards and will back down when face with superior numbers. It's tempting to beat the crap out of them but that would be lowering yourself to their level.