Did you ever get jealous?

@annierose (17692)
Philippines
June 2, 2017 7:55pm CST
I wonder about the differences between a man and a woman when it comes to jealousy. When I am jealous with other people, I will tell it directly to my boyfriend. I don't like hiding things from him. Then, when he visited me last time in our house, we also have a guest in the house. I was taking a bath that time and could not entertain them soon. Our other guest leave and just told my mom he does not want my boyfriend to get jealous. When I learned about it I told my mom that my boyfriend is not a jealous type but she thinks my boyfriend gets jealous but maybe just keeping his feelings to himself.
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7 responses
• United States
3 Jun 17
Yes sometimes people that are jealous do not say anything to the person directly and get revenge.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
I hope my boyfriend tells me honestly if he is jealous but I know it is his personality not to be open with what he feels.
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• United States
3 Jun 17
@annierose Yes it is the way he is..I understand. If you feel that vibration coming from him, can you ask him about it?
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@TiarasOceanView Yes, I asked him but one problem that I see is language barrier.
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@Shiva49 (12554)
• Singapore
3 Jun 17
Jealousy is a natural emotion but we can use it in a positive way by analyzing what triggered it. If that is worthwhile pursuing we can work towards it. I am not jealous of the rich as I am not prepared to pay the price. That way we can set our own standards than get carried away by what others have achieved. If a man wants to marry a very beautiful girl he should be also prepared for the consequences! siva
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
Thanks for the wonderful response @Shiva49. It is well explained. It make me think if I am pretty enough to cause jealousy.
@Shiva49 (12554)
• Singapore
3 Jun 17
@annierose Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Generally men and women are uncomfortable when their partners get the "wrong attention" - siva
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
4 Jun 17
@Shiva49 Why did you put a quotation on the word "wrong attention?" What does it mean?
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@Ruby3881 (2012)
• Canada
3 Jun 17
Having been married for 20 years now, I'm quite settled with my husband. We belong to one another, so there's no reason for jealousy. There never has been between us.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@Ruby3881 Good to hear that Kyla! I am happy for both of you. Trust is indeed a must recipe in every relationship.
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@Ruby3881 (2012)
• Canada
3 Jun 17
@annierose We have been through many travails in our 21 years as a couple. We had to be strong in order to endure them. And without trust, we never would have made it this far.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@Ruby3881 I agree with you. I think both of you are really meant for each other.
@Shavkat (59545)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
I don't usually get jealous easily. my friend.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@Shavkat Are you a male?
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@Shavkat (59545)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@annierose I am in a male population.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@Shavkat I see..So maybe my boyfriend is not really the jealous guy just like you.
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@RubyHawk (23203)
• Atlanta, Georgia
3 Jun 17
I think most people are jealous at one time or another.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
That is true @RubyHawk
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@RubyHawk (23203)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 Jun 17
@annierose I have been jealous a few times in my life but I never made a fuss about it.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
4 Jun 17
@RubyHawk You can control your emotion.
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@PBKING (1513)
• India
4 Jun 17
Jealousy..haha I am laughing because i just remember one thing from jealousy point. One day me and my girlfriend decided to make jealous each other. That time she looking at other boys to make me jealous, i felt jealous that time. At the next minute i saw one of my best friend going from there, i went to her and asked to call me and flirt with me on call just for fun. As she called me my girlfriend gets jealous then she never tried to make me jealous after that moment.. She still unaware about that i already knows that other girl very well.. But even if we get jealous of each other, it never happens with us that we fight on such small things because we beleive on each other.
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
4 Jun 17
@PBKING Wow, that is so cute. Haha! I never make my boyfriend jealous intentionally. He, on the other hand, does not make me jealous too. He always tell me he is not that handsome to catch the attention of other girls.
@shynu44 (4756)
3 Jun 17
when i was younger, but it is a bad habit i have thrown away
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@annierose (17692)
• Philippines
3 Jun 17
@shynu44 Same here. Now, I am more conscious with what I feel.