If at first you don't succeed....drive people crazy until you get it done!

@CRK109 (14558)
United States
June 16, 2017 5:04pm CST
I've already let quite a few of you know, and I've been a little down about it. The kitten I was supposed to be getting is no longer coming to live with me. The woman at the shelter mistakenly thought it was a male kitten. Turns out, she's female and I definitely want a male kitten this time around. She sent word to me through my niece when she went to pick up her new little kitten. I was so stunned I couldn't speak. And then came all those thoughts. Was this a sign that I shouldn't get a new kitten? Was I making the wrong choice? Maybe this just wasn't the right kitten for me. Who knows? But here I sat with kitten food, litter, toys, a collar...and no kitten in sight. Well, today, despite the rain and gloomy skies, I returned to the shelter. I had learned that there was ONE male kitten in the shelter, down from 13 males back when my niece had gone to find a kitten. They brought him to me, put him in my arms and I melted. He's so soft. No purring. He's not a happy boy right now. But he's pretty quiet. He tried to escape from me at one point, but I brought him back and he promptly fell asleep. Then they brought his little sister out. She climbed all over everything! She's really funny and I suspect she'll be getting in a lot of trouble in her lifetime. She actually reminded me a lot of the cat I recently lost. Hopefully, he can have his shots and operation in 2 weeks and then he can come home to me. He's 6 weeks old right now. All black except for a little white under his chin. Hard to tell if his eyes are blue or green right now, so we will wait and see. Hopefully, I will have him happy and purring in no time at all. And trust me, I made darn sure that this one IS a little boy! lol Claudia
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
17 Jun 17
I didn't know that. So sorry. Hope you can get this new little one.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
Me, too! I've been thinking about him all day and keeping my fingers crossed that he'll be here very soon!
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
18 Jun 17
@CRK109 i hope so. What is wrong with him that he needs surgery?
• United States
16 Jun 17
I love black cats and glad you found a little male kitten. Have you picked a name yet?
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
Yes his name is Timothy! I've already let them know so they can begin using his name. I've been thinking about him all day long.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Jun 17
Good luck and have a wonderful time with yuur new little boy kitten
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
16 Jun 17
Thanks, Patsie! Now I can begin decorating this place for his homecoming!
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@marguicha (215405)
• Chile
16 Jun 17
Good that you went to see him. Love has to be by sight. I will get a girl German Shepherd puppy after my vacations. But I will look until I find one I love.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
16 Jun 17
How exciting for you! I had a dog once who was part German Shepherd and part Husky. Gorgeous dog, and very protective.
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• United States
16 Jun 17
So glad you decided to try your luck and found a nice male cat. I hope it won't be too long now til he is with you there Claudia. I sure know you are thrilled about this. And yes, that is my life..driving people crazy til I can get what I need done.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
They all seemed very happy that I showed up again for another try. The gal who had mistakenly told me the last kitten was male was very apologetic for her mistake but she assured me that this time she got it right!
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@paigea (35680)
• Canada
18 Jun 17
Aww. He sounds like he needs you. And you need him. Sounds like my cat. All black with a little white on his chest though.
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@paigea (35680)
• Canada
20 Jun 17
@CRK109 They are all different. Ours is a noisy guy yelling at us all the time. And he is just so skittish.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
17 Jun 17
Cats can be such awesome pets. I have raised quite a few in my lifetime. Had one one time though that we had to get rid of as it refused to use a little box, and wanted to always use the Tub instead. But other than that they are great. Have considered getting a Cat again if they are a mouser.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
I've had cats and a few dogs along the way. I just seem to have a way with cats. My niece now has 3 black cats and this will be my first black cat. We are so happy to have this kind of love around us. Keeps us going and they really do keep us from getting too lonely!
@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
17 Jun 17
Oh no i guess i remember how eager and happy you were to get the previous cat. But well it doesn't matter as you will be getting another one soon.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
18 Jun 17
@CRK109 So will you be keeping the same name that you decided for the other cat
@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
I know, right? I can't tell you how disappointed I was to get that news. But this little guy seemed pretty happy to be in my arms and I was so ready to hold him and give him love. I have his collar all ready for him (I'll see if the gals at the shelter can put it on him before I bring him home) and they even helped me find a new vet! Now I'm just keeping my fingers crossed!
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@jstory07 (134456)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Jun 17
When I want a kitten I want a friendly one. I have the kitten fixed so I do not care if it iis boy or girl.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
They are going to make sure he has his shots and his little operation before he comes home. I even talked with them about a vet. I had the name of one in the next city over that you pay by your income, but they knew of someone even better in a different town. So I have all the information and will schedule an appointment after he comes home. He's only 6 weeks old right now, so I don't think even he knows how friendly he wants to be yet! lol
@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
17 Jun 17
So happy you were able to find one that is just right for you @CRK109 Hoping you have many happy years with this new little one. What is his name?
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
His name is Timothy and we all laughed because, right now, his name is bigger than he is! lol
@LadyDuck (458085)
• Switzerland
17 Jun 17
The fate worked for you, this black kitten sounds perfect for you. I cannot wait to see his photos.
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@LadyDuck (458085)
• Switzerland
18 Jun 17
@CRK109 Poor little thing, he will learn to purr.
@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
He's so tiny but so adorable and soft! He didn't seem to mind me rubbing under his chin and kissing his little head. But no purring yet. The gals there said he hasn't been a happy boy, but they're working on him! I will definitely be ready to spoil him once he comes home.
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
17 Jun 17
Never had a pet kitten before but a lot of neighborhood stray cats dropping in our backyard for food scraps. My husband say's I'm nuts for feeding them.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
I would do the same thing as you! Those poor strays have no love out there and it's wonderful that they've found some help with you! Just tell your husband that you're happy being nuts! lol
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
18 Jun 17
@CRK109 _Our dogs seem to get along with the strays. As for my husband we complement each other's "nuttiness"
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
17 Jun 17
I'm sorry you didn't get the one you anticipated, but this little black fella sounds adorable. You'll be bringing him home in a couple of weeks.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
I can't stop thinking about him! I should go back there next week and visit him and maybe bring him a toy with my scent on it.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
18 Jun 17
@CRK109 That sounds like a good idea. Are you going to use the same name you picked out for the other one?
@Kandae11 (53679)
16 Jun 17
What operation will he have?
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
18 Jun 17
He will get neutered so that he won't spray all over my apartment! lol My niece got her kitten from them the day after he was neutered and she said he was just fine and didn't even seem to be in any pain. They must have one great vet! He visits them every other week to give the operations.
@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
18 Jun 17
It must have been meant to be. You will have him up and running around happy and sassy before you know it. Have fun with your new little boy.