Is it Love or Lust?

July 1, 2017 8:02am CST
Hey elites, here I am with my very first blog. In today's era there are many people in a relationship. No matter what their age is , nowadays we can see a 4th grade child to 50s and 60s people making love. So if you are just careless about your dignity or character then fine! But if there is anyone who is serious about their relation so just read till the end. Indeed, its true that love can make us do anything, no matter if is it good for us or not. Today, people getting into a relationship is just till kisses, hugs, smooch, licks, suckings and sex. Okay fine, there is nothing bad in doing these stuff but these are only a part of love. There was a time when people used to wait for their beloved for years...but today its like, not gave reply once, not talked for a day, refused to make out..then Breakup! Is leaving a person is that easy? Just remember few things to get sure if you are in love or lust... If it is love, then you both will care for each other no matter what the hell is the situation. You both will always try to do what your partner likes. Yes, you'll fight, but for each other's sake and for your relationship. You both will have discussions with each other rather than getting displeased and getting irritated for little things. You both will be most comfortable with each other to talk about anything and to say anything. You both will always say the things directly rather than defaming your partner in public. Your relationship is in your hands, if it is true then no matter who comes to you and tells something bad or fishy about your partner, you know your partner much better, and others are always there to feel jealous only. And the last and the most important thing... you both will always know each other's mood and you both will never ever force each other to do anything. So that's love. And if it is lust , then you will always be finding excuses to make out, you will miss your partner only when you masturbate or feel horny. You don't care about how your partner is, where he or she is. You will just get angry with your partner for not replying you just in a minute or such stuffs. You will not understand your partners' situation and get panic. You won't be trying to understand each other. Just what will be important for you is your mood. You will be getting displeased for stupid things. You will not share anything with them or discuss any issues with them . You will be getting short of topics to talk about. You just want sex, suck, bed! You always or most frequently do sex chats. You ask for each other's nudes. You stalk other guy or girl without letting your partner know. You be flirty with others more. And yes, you will just never ever try to save your relationship. Hope it helps you and if yours is Love then God bless you both forever, but if it is Lust, then just try to make your partner love you but if he or she is nothing beyond lust then end it then and there! I know it's a very difficult task for you to let go a person who is your everything. Though it leaves scars, but time heals everything. I hope you get some help thorough this, and I pray you all have Love with you beloved..!
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@atoz1to10 (6821)
• Australia
1 Jul 17
Welcome to myLot. You sound like you are experience in this field.. And yes, the way people see love is different now...
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2 Jul 17
@MaiteMaite thank you dear. And am not a perfect actually, I have just understood what love and care and value from a person means, in an early age . Am just 15
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2 Jul 17
Thank you... and yes I have a great bitter-sweet experience with this...
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@atoz1to10 (6821)
• Australia
2 Jul 17
@Miss_khushie I know that when you love someone you just want to be real close to that person. With men I think it's a little bit different, they want it and then when they have it, we will not be important in their life any more...
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@kiran8 (15354)
• Mangalore, India
1 Jul 17
Hi Suruchi, welcome to mylot , frankly I don't have the patience to go through the entire write up..I can only say, to each his/her own..all the best
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2 Jul 17
Thank you ma'am!
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@kiran8 (15354)
• Mangalore, India
2 Jul 17
@Miss_khushie Don't worry too much, you are still very young . Take life as it comes and be positive and I am sure you will find true love some day
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@Athinker (2130)
2 Jul 17
Nice you write honestly and beautifully
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3 Jul 17
@Athinker thank you
@mandala100 (48488)
• Hong Kong
2 Jul 17
Hi and welcome to myLot! Good luck to you.
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@JohnRoberts (61336)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Jul 17
Welcome to myLot. Have a nice time here.
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