I have to say no from now on.

@sharon6345 (106469)
United States
July 10, 2017 6:33pm CST
My friend did not ask for money or tissue so that must be said. But he can't work any more due to his back. His wife has only her ssi that runs out. They have a 19 year old that does not want to help. He came here toay for a short while. he hs nothing to wipe in the bathroom with. I took him to my bathroom. I showed him my one roll of tissue. I showed him the bucket and my rags. Then the washer too in my tub. I then took him to my room to watch a youtube video. I said times are hard nd if you need to get on your grind and cut costs. I have no choice Or I will end up having to beg and guess what I would not be doing that. I am happy with cuttin back. I just don't want my aide to have to bring her own paper to my house.
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@NJChicaa (28384)
• United States
10 Jul
I'd kick that 19 year old out if he didn't want to help! What a lazy freeloader! Amazing how many people just refuse to work.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
10 Jul
She works at Mcdonald's nd I think she made manager. They are trying to get her out now. She will work she won't help out. They are even removing her cable box. I told him struggling like that they should not have cable.
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@NJChicaa (28384)
• United States
10 Jul
@sharon6345 Being on myLot has definitely made me realize how well off we are. Granted I put myself through college and bust my butt at work 10 months of the year and my husband kills himself at work 12 months of the year. We are very lucky though.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
@NJChicaa Yes and bein able to live good is nice. If my health were better I would get a part time job. I would not want anyone around me either.
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@Tina30219 (25761)
• Onaway, Michigan
11 Jul
That is not right he is 19 years old living at home with mom and dad still he needs to help or get out.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
They are trying to get her out now.
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@Tina30219 (25761)
• Onaway, Michigan
11 Jul
@sharon6345 That's good. I hope it happens soon .
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@Courtlynn (47346)
• United States
11 Jul
Nothing wrong with living at home, as long as you are helping out. And i absoutely hate when people say that there is. Today isnt like it was many years ago, rent is more, jobs are harder to get, food cost more, gas cost more. Its not easy. And older people just think it is. Its so annoying!
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• Lakewood, Colorado
11 Jul
Another person trying to ask you for stuff Sharon? OH my no end to it.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
I don't think for sure he was asking. so I did not want to say that.
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• Lakewood, Colorado
11 Jul
@sharon6345 Well best if he wasn't anyway because you don't have it, especially at this time.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
@TiarasOceanView No I am not in any position to help right now. I did offer bath soap as I have so much of that.
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@mandala100 (25004)
• Hong Kong
11 Jul
I'm sorry to hear that about your friend.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
Thanks very much. he will be ok.
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@mandala100 (25004)
• Hong Kong
11 Jul
@sharon6345 I'm glad to hear that.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
@mandala100 Thanks I am glad.
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@prashu228 (22104)
• India
11 Jul
Well ,if you really want to help, tell him to how to earn online. That may help him to some extent.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
oh they won't do that at all.
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@jstory07 (57105)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jul
I am glad that you are starting to say No to others that can work and help their own household.
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@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
it's hard to function when you're low on food. I am sorry but enough is enough.
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• Rochester, New York
11 Jul
Perhaps you should have him come here and see if he can raise some funds on myLot.
@sharon6345 (106469)
• United States
11 Jul
My friend won't do that.
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