Offline vs. Online Shopping

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@MALUSE (69413)
Germany
July 20, 2017 1:36pm CST
Online shopping is convenient. But if we all did it, our city centres and high streets would become deserted. Or rather more deserted. The tendency can already be seen. Many people don't buy the things they have in front of their noses but complain when shops are closed and boarded up. In German a new term has been coined which translates into English as 'advice theft'. People go to a shop specialising in electronic goods, for example, and have a gadget explained to them in greatest detail until they know everything they need, leave and buy it online. Of course, the shop-owner can't offer it at the same price as, say, Amazon. They have to pay rent for the shop and wages for the shop-assistants. What I find in our town, I buy here. But unfortunately, I don't find everything. The town is small and there aren't many shops. For summer I want to have dark blue linen trousers, but there aren't any. So I checked online. I found some but with little information. How long are the legs? I must know this. It doesn't help me if the length is given for the smallest size. How can I know how many more centimetres the bigger sizes have? Is the hemline broad? Can I open it and make the legs longer? The online photos don't show me this. I'm not a giant, but my legs are long for my size. Unfortunately, although people become taller and taller, most clothes are still manufactured for vertically challenged customers. I found my trousers in the online shop of a nation-wide department store. To my surprise I was asked for the postal code of my town. When I had written it into the box, I was informed that the department store in the nearest big city had five trousers of the kind I was interested in. Yesterday I was there, tried the dark blue trousers on and bought them. In fact, I also bought an olive pair because they fitted well. Of course, they are too short, but the hemline is wide and I've already made both pairs longer. I'm the world champion in the field of lengthening or shortening hemlines. I do it by hand in no time. I have a sewing machine, but it's very old and has no free arm. Sewing round trouser legs on a flat surface needs a lot of fumbling, and then you always see the stitches. With my method you'd have to lie on the ground in front of me with a magnifying glass to see a stitch. I don't understand how people can take clothes to tailors to have such a simple thing like lenghtening trouser legs done. On the other hand, tailors want to live and earn as well. In Germany, they're mostly Turks and Greeks who have corner shops for small repairs. Can you help yourself or do you need professional help when clothes don't fit properly? ---- Photo: pixabay
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25 responses
20 Jul 17
Theres a few reasons why I don't shop online, for one I've never really trusted the internet for shopping, another reason is I hate the waiting process I rather be able to go to a store and buy something that I can wear the next day. The last and most important to me I will say is that I am on the short side so I have to try on pants and dresses before I buy them, if not they're usually too long for me and I am not a fan of altering either. That is just another waiting process.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Jul 17
These are sensible arguments.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Jul 17
I am a short person and yes need my pants alter.I do not mind.They do a very good job in doing so.My Tailor
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
20 Jul 17
Trend, possibly, rather than tendency, I think - a fine line. Unfortunately, the trend for buying clothes online inevitably leads to an increase in returns, for the reasons you highlight: not every standard size works because there is not a single standard human to wear it.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Jul 17
Returns are transported by lorries which clog the roads. :-(
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
20 Jul 17
@MALUSE Alas. Logistics is the future. When will we get matter transporters, like in Star Trek?
@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
23 Jul 17
If you had my mother to sew for you, you would gladly go to a seamstress or tailor. We used to tease her that she would not know which end to thread a needle and when she did the only stitch she knew was blanket stitch. We used to beg her not to sew our clothes but let our grandmother do it as she was always perfect! I hate shopping by the way. If I want a shirt I go to the shop go straight in pick my size pay for it and I am out again in around five minutes. My wife on the other hand will look at perhaps 20 blouses and end up buying the first one she picked up in the first place. I have posted a diagram to indicate my reasoning!
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
23 Jul 17
There is some truth in the diagram! :-)
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
23 Jul 17
@MALUSE Some !!! That is being economical with the truth!
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
21 Jul 17
I wear a lot of jeans @MALUSE and most places when I buy a pair either the waist is too big or the length is too short. If I find a pair where the length is right 36" (91.44 cm), then the waist is at least a 30" (76.2 cm) and I'm a 24 (60.96 cm). If the waist is okay, then the length is way too short. Now weighing only 106 lbs (48.08 kg) and still being 5'8" (172.72 cm) tall, it's a real pain in the butt.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
21 Jul 17
I can sympathise with you. I have no clever advice for you. Once I sewed a pair of khaki trousers for myself, but trousers are tricky. I haven't done it another time. For me, the legs of trousers used to be too short. But over the years I've shrunk and now they're just right.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
22 Jul 17
@MALUSE Yeah, I was 3" taller before. Who knows, now at my height I might be able to find a pair that fits. Although the distance from the hips to the ankle are still the same from when I was taller.
@dramagirl26 (3259)
• Ringgold, Virginia
30 Jul 17
The only thing I buy online is books, other than that I do most of my shopping in a store.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
30 Jul 17
That's laudable.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
24 Jul 17
I can help myself as I have been sewing since age 6. This summer I have ordered many things online because I am caring for an ill friend and cannot leave his side long enough to do much shopping. Fortunately there is a wonderful produce store just a couple miles down the road and it is only 7 miles to the nearest Amazon locker which is near some of my favorite grocery stores, so food is not a problem. However, I had to order some mobility things for him that I was very happy to be able to get online. My favorite clothing store is Uniqlo but they do not carry my size in the store, so sometimes I go there to look at the stuff and then order it online.
@sabtraversa (12924)
• Italy
20 Jul 17
Maybe I should ask my mother to teach me how to sew, nowadays clothes come with cheaper price and it's common to throw away damaged clothes and buy new ones, instead of repairing. I also buy from online shops that allow you to return. Some of the trousers/pants I buy online also come in different length, not just waist sizes. That must be a British/American thing that should be exported elsewhere. Most tailors here are old... and Italian. It's one of those artisanal professions our country is running out of. However, when it comes to corner shops that simply offer repairing services, the Chinese are the future.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Jul 17
In Germany, Turks and Greeks have discovered - or rather re-discovered - this trade.
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@jstory07 (134456)
• Roseburg, Oregon
21 Jul 17
I would rather buy stuff in a store and know it fits than buy it online. If the clothes do not fit properly than I do not buy them.
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
22 Jul 17
Most of the time I do hems and such myself. However, as much I'd like to, my skills are appalling. If it's something important I do take it to a tailor.
@Poppylicious (11133)
20 Jul 17
I wouldn't know how to alter clothes. Mumma can do it, and my Nana and her Mumma were both professional dressmakers so you'd think I woukd be able to do it. But no. *sigh*
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Jul 17
Is it too late for you to learn?
@JudyEv (325755)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Jul 17
Any trousers that Vince or I buy are usually too long but I alternate between several friends who are happy to shorten them for me. I could do them by hand but mostly I try to do it on the sewing machine and the result never looks professional.
@lovebuglena (43074)
• Staten Island, New York
21 Jul 17
Not everyone is able to professionally shorten/lengthen their pants themselves lol so tailor it is. At least in my case. And my tailor doesn't charge an arm and a leg to do it. I prefer shopping at actual stores because I can feel the fabric and can actually try on clothes being buying. This way if it doesn't fit or I don't like it on me I put it back on the rack. On the infrequent chance I buy something online I end up having to return it because it doesn't fit, or look good on me, or I simply don't like the look of it when I see it in person. Then I have to bother with going to the post office to ship it back and even have to pay for the shipping. I'd rather avoid that. Plus, shopping in stores gets me out of the house and I make a day of it. Sometimes though I am not really in the mood to look through racks to find something for me to buy.
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
21 Aug 17
When I have clothes that dont fit properly on me, I usually dont go to repair shops in my place because the labor fee is too high so I'll just wear or don't wear it instead but if I went to our province, I 'll let my mother repair it for me
@peavey (16936)
• United States
21 Jul 17
I hate to say it but online shopping is the "wave of the future." I suspect there will always be specialty shops and small, unique shops, but more and more people are shopping more and more online. I have always hemmed pants (my problem is the opposite of yours), taken in or let out seams, changed pockets and various other things to clothes. I couldn't afford a tailor, anyway!
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
21 Jul 17
This is one of the reasons why I don't buy clothes online. I want to see what I am buying. I want to see if the color looks good on me or if the shoulder perfectly fits, etc. Although I know how to sew and I can repair clothes on my own, I want to buy something that fits well. I also buy other things online like plane tickets, bags, but not clothes.
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
21 Jul 17
i do both and like it
@Plethos (13560)
• United States
21 Jul 17
I try to buy the exact length, but i will go over/under an inch, with work boots it dont matter much.
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
20 Jul 17
I can do it, like simple adjusting the length of pants or sleeves of blouses! But if the work is quite complicated, I take it to the seamstress.
@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
21 Jul 17
I mostly have the problem of shortening my trousers as I am a small person. Gladfully I know how to sew.