Regret - When its you!!

@mohit459 (11834)
Haldwani, India
July 21, 2017 11:29am CST
We all have a clash with one of our mates, parents, teachers, relative, brother/sister, Girlfriend/boyfriend. But mostly after few hours passed we again became same when earlier, but sometimes the fight becomes so intense that we won't talk to them for day or months and we don't even wanna see them! The main cause is that we always expect that the other person must come first to us and say us sorry that it was all his / her mistakes. But we don't know that the other person is also expecting the same. And then we think that the other person is egotistic, or have an attitude, and the other also thinks the same the we have attitude and we are egotistic. And get to decision that If the other isn't speaking and he/ she is showing attitude then why should we lack behind!! If he/she have then we too have attitude!! Due to this perception the distance between them increases and the situation become worse. Though one of them should say sorry but sometimes it's came to self-respect, and self-esteem!! So we should so sorry until its we, because saying sorry everytime means that the other person know that though it's his/her mistakes you have to say sorry and you lose your self-respect in eyes of yourself!! So sometime situation arises that you have to think about you too!!
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• United States
21 Jul
Yes we always should if possible close the gap. I am glad that you are thinking to do this friend. Sadly I have family members that never forgive and forget, so I have forgotten them and good riddance.
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@mohit459 (11834)
• Haldwani, India
21 Jul
Don't be sad!! In our way of life we always get such people's !! Just ignore them!!
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• United States
21 Jul
@mohit459 Yes thank you Mohit..I am fine now and I was very sad for a long time as they are so angry and mean, but now I do not care any longer. I hope that the day is good to you and you too, no sad.
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@mohit459 (11834)
• Haldwani, India
21 Jul
@TiarasOceanView ya!! Always believe yourself and don't think what the f**k they say!!
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@kepweng (14611)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
22 Oct
What is your Biggesty regrets in life??
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@mohit459 (11834)
• Haldwani, India
22 Oct
Not clearing misunderstanding in time!!..