Regret - When its you!!

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We all have a clash with one of our mates, parents, teachers, relative, brother/sister, Girlfriend/boyfriend. But mostly after few hours passed we again became same when earlier, but sometimes the fight becomes so intense that we won't talk to them for day or months and we don't even wanna see them! The main cause is that we always expect that the other person must come first to us and say us sorry that it was all his / her mistakes. But we don't know that the other person is also expecting the same. And then we think that the other person is egotistic, or have an attitude, and the other also thinks the same the we have attitude and we are egotistic. And get to decision that If the other isn't speaking and he/ she is showing attitude then why should we lack behind!! If he/she have then we too have attitude!! Due to this perception the distance between them increases and the situation become worse. Though one of them should say sorry but sometimes it's came to self-respect, and self-esteem!! So we should so sorry until its we, because saying sorry everytime means that the other person know that though it's his/her mistakes you have to say sorry and you lose your self-respect in eyes of yourself!! So sometime situation arises that you have to think about you too!!