My Poor Granddaughter

@celticeagle (159017)
Boise, Idaho
July 24, 2017 8:58pm CST
She is 25 and is in the hospital having her third child. She was here staying with us a few days until her SO got situated up in Moscow. She went up there to be with him. He and his mom were up there. So, she had their boy with her and went back up there. His mom won't watch her own grandson so her son can come to hospital and be with my granddaughter. She has another boy who is about seven now who lives here in Boise. I am appalled at her SO's family. They are very hateful and negative. So she is in the hospital alone and says she wants to have the baby and just die. We have no way to go to her. We are in southwestern Idaho and she is northern Idaho. We have no transportation or family to take us up there. No money. Life can sure be the pits sometimes. Hope this makes sense. The pic is of my granddaughter.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
25 Jul 17
I wrote a discussion recently about horrid mothers-in-law - they are very real. I hope things turn around for your granddaughter.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
So do I! Very dysfunctional family.
@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
25 Jul 17
Poor girl has to suffer a lot because of her negative family. Hope everything goes well and she will be fine. Let happiness come back to her in life from her children.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
Not her family. His family.
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• Bangalore, India
25 Jul 17
@celticeagle Both are same isn't it his family is now her family too right
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jul 17
@manasamanu ......I wish it were that easy and they were that excepting.
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@youless (112113)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Jul 17
I am so sorry to hear that. This is so much for her. She really needs more support... I hope she has some friends to be able to offer her help in this hard moment.
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@youless (112113)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Jul 17
@celticeagle Best wishes for her!
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jul 17
@youless ......Thank you. She needs all the good wishes she can get.
@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
I sure wish she would come back down here.
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• United States
25 Jul 17
I'm sorry to hear. Can her significant other bring the child to visit her too?
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
Children can't come in.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
@infatuatedbby ......Most hospitals I have been don't allow the really young ones in. He's only about two.
• United States
25 Jul 17
@celticeagle I am sorry to hear that. You would think children would be able to come as long as they're vaccinated to see the child.I didn't see any problem with children visiting just can't spend the night..
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@Tampa_girl7 (48956)
• United States
25 Jul 17
So sorry to hear this. I hope that she will be okay.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
After she had the baby she seems to feel better so I am happy.
@dollaboy (6048)
28 Jul 17
I'm so very sorry to know about that. I really hope things get sorted out well and your daughter can have a good comfortable life
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jul 17
@dollaboy ......It's celticeagle.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Jul 17
It's my granddaughter.
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@dollaboy (6048)
29 Jul 17
@celticeagle Oops. Take care Ce lite Angel
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 17
she is really so pretty I will send pra yets that she is oay and perhaps amiracle amd y ou all could go see her 'Im so sorry for her m y tjats terrble hope we c ajpary andsomejhing good happens fpr her
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Sep 17
That was a long time ago and things have changed.
@marguicha (215427)
• Chile
25 Jul 17
She could have a depression
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
I'm sure she did. Seems to feel better after the birth.
@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
29 Jul 17
Your granddaughter is beautiful, I am sorry she is alone. I hope her situation improves but I am thinking that with the So and his family, it won't.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jul 17
She was alone. I guess her SO picked her up and they are home now. I hope things get better.
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
12 Oct 17
That is so sad. How is she and the baby today?
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Oct 17
Doing well. Her choice to be up north and so far away from us. Just hard during these special times.
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• Eugene, Oregon
25 Jul 17
It is too bad she keeps having kids in this situation. I feel sorry for that young woman.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
She wants to have children. I wish she had a better man.
@just4him (306195)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
26 Jul 17
That's actually tragic and heartless on the part of her mother in law. What does SO mean? I hope she and the baby are doing well.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jul 17
SO- Significant Other. The MIL is a piece of work.
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@just4him (306195)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jul 17
@celticeagle Ah, okay, makes sense. I'm sure she is.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
25 Jul 17
I'm sure she doesnt really feel that way, but still sad you cant be there and neither can her guy
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
Yes, indeed.
• United States
25 Jul 17
Oh wow, that's too bad this has to happen, prayers and good luck dust your way to see your daughter and grandchild.
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@celticeagle (159017)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jul 17
My granddaughter and third great grand child.
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• United States
25 Jul 17
@celticeagle oh ok, thank you for clarification
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@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
28 Jul 17
I feel so sorry for your granddaughter. It is so unfair that she has to be alone to give birth to her baby. I sure hope she will stop after this one. She is very young and to have 3 children that is a lot to take care of now. Maybe her SO will see the light and change. This is wishful thinking and we all know this one will never happen.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
25 Jul 17
Aww, that is so sad.
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