miscarriage or death after birth
@Tina30219 (81539)
Onaway, Michigan
July 26, 2017 5:09pm CST
I would like to know what you think would be the hardest to deal with not that both are not hard. I have never had a miscarriage but have went through a death after birth and it was very hard on me. My son that died would be 19 in September of this year.
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@marguicha (215177)
• Chile
26 Jul 17
I think that a miscarriage, however hard is better than to actually have your baby die hfter birth.
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@Tina30219 (81539)
• Onaway, Michigan
26 Jul 17
True I think what made me write this is my old pastors daughter at 21 weeks miscarried and she did not want the procedure they do after one she went through and delivered the baby and held it and everything. She even posted picture of her holding it on facebook it was so tiny.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
26 Jul 17
First of all I am so sorry, I have a friend that just lost her child this way. Posted a video of the little guy moving all over and the next day he was gone. Im so sorry for you lost, I think what you two went thru is harder. I have had a miscarriage but was not really far along so I can say this was easier on me then it would be to have lost the baby so far along.
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@Tina30219 (81539)
• Onaway, Michigan
27 Jul 17
Yeah you have a point there on the miscarriage I agree if further along it would be harder to handle especially feeling it move around in there and then gone the next day. Sorry for your loss and your friends as well.
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@Tina30219 (81539)
• Onaway, Michigan
27 Jul 17
Thanks. Yeah it can be hard on the parents either way.
@Morethanamom (1948)
• Canada
28 Jul 17
Like you said, both are hard. I only have had experience with a miscarriage, and while it wasn't easy, I know others have a harder time dealing with it.
@Tina30219 (81539)
• Onaway, Michigan
27 Jul 17
He lived 17 days he was a full-term baby also. I think so also I love feeling the baby move that is one of my favorite things of the pregnancy other than giving birth and holding the baby
@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
26 Jul 17
I'm so sorry to hear about it Tina,
A couple of our friends have had a similar experience three years ago, and their lives definitely change and the way they look at life is change, there is sadness in their eyes but on the other hand they try to enjoy every moment with their children and their family more than before...
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@Tina30219 (81539)
• Onaway, Michigan
26 Jul 17
That's right it is hard glad your friend had her children she does have a d family to help her through it. After the loss of my son my mom came and stayed with me my son and husband for a month she was tryinng to keep my mind on other things.I found out a year exactly of losing my son I was pregnant with my daughter it was scary at first but once I found out she was going to be ok I was very happy.
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@Tina30219 (81539)
• Onaway, Michigan
27 Jul 17
@gilggg Thanks.No more kids here got fixed after my daughter.
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