Okay, I'm a little ashamed of this but I'll ask. Im really attracted to white women and I really wanna spend the rest of my life wit one, is this a messed up thing?
July 28, 2017 8:59pm CST
No offence to other races, but as a grown man, I'm really attracted to white women and I'd do anything to prove my love and honesty to the one that I fall in love with (obviously knowing her little first), but the thing is I'm in Africa, Nigeria, and I feel like its impossible to end up with one because all the ones on the Internet think we all are fake and want something from 'em and I dont blame them for it. But it's really not the case for me I truthfully don't wanna gain anything from them. I truly want to be with one because thats what my heart wants, and to experience love. And I'd do anything she would want to prove my honestly and genuineness, anything; lengthy video calls, introducing her to family members via video calls so she can read body languages, e.t.c. Am I being delusional? Can this happen? if so, how? Tell me something, and maybe I can change the way I think if it's inappropriate or delusional to think this way.
29 Jul 17
Welcome to mylot my friend. It's good that you know your inner self (that you are attracted to white women). Have you ever thought of why it is like this? When you are in love no matter what colour one's skin is, you just fall in love with that person. Don't strict yourself from other women, you never know that there might the right one next to you who is not white. All the best my friend.
• United States
29 Jul 17
Everybody has what they are attracted to.... what one is attracted or interested in others may not be.... and theres nothing wrong with that. Being true to yourself is whats important and if this is what would make you happy go for it. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. If others have judgements thats there issue not yours. Good luck to you friend. Hope you find love and happiness.
30 Jul 17
This is a lovely comment. I love the way your mind puts things together, the way you think has made my week already. It indeed would make me happy, being with a white woman, that's why I'm trying to make it happen, share my story. But the problem is, how? No white woman happens to be interested in black men who reside in a different country because they think we are all after something else; although I think differently when compared to the rest of them, and it worries me to know that all of the white women I have met online go "I'm not interested since you're in a different country", or "it's probably a scam", and that hurts. For example, some people in the US are dangerous people, but not all, some of them are still upright, well-trained individuals. For this reason, I really intend to prove a white woman wrong, preferably the one who gives me a chance to prove myself and spend the rest of my life with her; so, I can make her, her family, and friends understand that all africans or Nigerians aren't alike. I came from a good home, and was well trained, in fact four out of five of the younger siblings of both my parent are american and english, so really I come from a different home. I'm ready to introduce her to my immediate family members over video calls, show her my house and surroundings, and even show her the streets when I drive around during leisure hours (giving her a feel of my life and body language without even being with me in person), and offcourse I shouldn't and wouldn't be asking for anything from her; come online, accept my love and care, love me for who I am, teach me your culture (although I know pretty much everything), and maybe visit me if you can when you feel comfortable because it would be easier I guess, that kind of thing. For me, I would go through super scrutiny from the consulate to get to her. Anyway, sorry to bore with my story. Thank you my friend, straight from the heart, thank you.