Optimist or Pessimist

@Farcha (677)
August 5, 2017 6:49pm CST
These days, we need to be close to optimist people. A pessimist who believes that the whole world is against him. You can not predict the future, so do not assume it will always be bad. So how can we be more confident and creative? Sometimes, I am in a good mood, when someone has just to say negative things, so My mood changes very quickly. What are your impressions about pessimist people and how to deal with them?
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
6 Aug 17
It's sad to be friends with people like that. It will only pull you down. If you are doing good things for others I'm sure you will feel great most of the time. Don't wait for others to do you anything, you do things for them and you will always feel great even if you are living with a pessimist. All the best.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
So, we should deal with them, and change their bad ideas about life
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@atoz1to10 (6781)
• Australia
6 Aug 17
@Farcha yes, we should
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
@atoz1to10 To clarify something, Moral is always in change. It is not steady. We try to maintain it enduring
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@maezee (42003)
• United States
6 Aug 17
Avoid them! Haha. But its true. A lot of people out their want to spread their negativity around!
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
But sometimes, we should have a strong personality.
• Austin, Texas
14 Aug 17
People who are pessimistic can definitely bring you down. Sometimes it's just easy to avoid being around them. But every once in a while it might help to show them what an optimist looks like. Always stay positive. Don't let another person change your attitude and your approach to life. Sometimes the pessimist is a person you love dearly and you really want to to get them to snap out of it! By the way, your profile pic indicates that you're an optimistic person. Only an optimist would put up a cute picture like that!!
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@Farcha (677)
14 Aug 17
Thank you for the compliment and welcome to myLot. And my attitude won't change.
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@LadyDuck (454989)
• Switzerland
6 Aug 17
There are people who are unable to see the bright side of life, no matter how much we try to convince them that life can be nice they complain.
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@LadyDuck (454989)
• Switzerland
6 Aug 17
@Farcha I am sure that living near someone who is depressed and is negative all the time would affect our brain in the long run.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
Nowadays, We are being very stressed and feeling overwhelmed, full anxiety, that is a way of life. Likewise, being around negative persons brings us down and leads to bad mood. A scientific research, in the field of neuroscience, has brought out that others can have an effect on the physical structure of the brain.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
@LadyDuck Stress is sometimes contagious
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@Tampa_girl7 (48855)
• United States
6 Aug 17
I don't care to be around them.
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@Farcha (677)
6 Aug 17
That's good! This is our aim