Should I quit blogging and look for a real job?

@peachpurple (13880)
Malaysia
August 10, 2017 10:54am CST
I had been thinking about this matter on and off. I had resigned from my job 10 years ago after I gave birth to my 2nd child. Since then, I had became a full-time housewife, disconnected myself from the outside world, not knowing what is happening in the society. I had been blogging for 9 years now, which means, I did earn a small side income all this while. However, this small income could not cover up the expenses incurred at home. Not to worry much, my hubby can fill up the gaps. I heard that staying at home for a long time might result to Dementia and Alzheimer disease because lack of brain usage. Hence, I was thinking of looking for a real job to keep myself updated and to sharpen up my rusty brain too. If I really do, I might have to give up on blogging in the end. Money is not the issue right now. What do you think? Hope to hear some of your suggestions. Thanks. drawn by peachpurple
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23 responses
• United States
10 Aug 17
Yes go ahead if you have nothing to keep you at home. It would be good I imagine.
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@MALUSE (69416)
• Germany
10 Aug 17
I doubt very much that Dementia and Alzheimer's* come from staying at home but I think you should indeed get a job. You'd widen your horizon, do something for your social skills and get back into the swing of things in general. *One of the most intelligent Germans, a professor of sociology, got Alzheimer's very badly. Nobody can do more thinking than he did. Up to now, the disease hasn't been understood completely.
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@yukimori (10142)
• United States
10 Aug 17
If you want to work, then why not? It sounds like you're in a good position to do what you find fulfilling rather than having to work to make ends meet.
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@LadyDuck (457249)
• Switzerland
10 Aug 17
About Dementia and Alzheimer, my Mom is 96, she has NEVER worked, housewife at home all the time. She is a vivid mind, not a sign of Dementia or Alzheimer. Staying at home does not mean not using your brain. That said, I think you should get a real job.
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@JudyEv (325259)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Aug 17
For starters, I don't believe that about dementia and Alzheimers'. There are dozens of people who are very active physically and/or mentally and they still get these diseases. It's just something that's been put out there to make people feel better - and to sell more stuff about 'exercising' your brain etc. At least that's my take on it but if you want a job then good luck with it.
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@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
11 Aug 17
Not only exercise but also with what we eat.
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@peachpurple (13880)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 17
@JudyEv Thanks for your comments, those rumors are false ? Not related at all? Anyway, I will get a job soon. @AkoPinay yes the food we eat contribute to it too
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@JudyEv (325259)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Aug 17
@peachpurple I don't believe them. Maybe 'brain games' might help a little but for some I don't think anything is going to help. And the stories about exercising your brain has no doubt led to a huge increase in the sale of puzzle books, etc, so businesses like to keep the rumour going.
@holdoors (2487)
• Malaysia
10 Aug 17
I think the key issue here is the social aspect since people who work from home rarely interact with people outside for work purposes. Sometimes, joining some interest or hobby club can also help in that aspect.
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@marguicha (215148)
• Chile
10 Aug 17
Your children are old enough. So, if you want to seek for a job, do it.
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@allknowing (130067)
• India
11 Aug 17
If it is to earn more definitely you should look for a real job
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
10 Aug 17
Go ahead. Just a part time job like I do as you will be having a lot of work to do when you are back home from work. But then, it is good to have a job which keep you going outside your home. I can relate to that.
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@MoonMaa (571)
• United States
10 Aug 17
If money is not the issue there are many things you can do to get out of the house than work a job. You could take up a hobby that you like. This way you could still continue with your blogging.
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@skydream (1446)
• Agate, Colorado
10 Aug 17
If it's something you want to do you definitely should. If you're not sure you can always look up volunteer opportunites and see how it is to go back and see if you want to do that.
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@Kandae11 (53678)
10 Aug 17
Nice drawing. Yes it could be nice and refreshing to get out of the house for a bit.
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10 Aug 17
You don't have to give up one thing to get the other.
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@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
10 Aug 17
If you want to take up a job, do it :)
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@youless (112100)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Aug 17
Perhaps you can try to have a part time job at first? As you may need some time to adjust to the work. Having a part time job will not be so tiring as well as the full time job. And you still can take care of your family.
@snowy22315 (169571)
• United States
11 Aug 17
I think as you long as you find creative ways to use your brain, you will not end up with dementia and Alzheimers. Do what you like.
@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
11 Aug 17
When my eldest was born, I chose to be a stay-at-home mom. It's only in the last year that I got some work. It's really up to you what you want to do. If you want some work and stay home, I'm sure you could find some work from home.
@kobesbuddy (74424)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Aug 17
@peachpurple Where do you blog to get paid? I can't find a site that actually pays:(
@kobesbuddy (74424)
• East Tawas, Michigan
11 Aug 17
@peachpurple I did this also, when my parents got old and I couldn't keep up with their needs and a job, also. My income was quite small anyway, minimum wage and part-time schedule. I have no regrets, whatsoever, quitting my job!:(
@WriterAI (5373)
• Bulgaria
11 Aug 17
If I would become a successful blogger, I wouldn't be give up on blogging never. It could keep sharp brain too. Although this is a activity at home, it is connected to the real life too. But although blogging, if you feel disconnected from the outside world, you could take the opportunity to have job that is physically outside. Also you could have a new job and at the same time to continue blogging. I mean blogging isn't an activity isolated from the outside world. But I am real conscious that you need real human relations outside your home - that's why you think about real job or merely it is one of the main reasons. So the choice is yours. If I were you I would continue keeping on blogging in my free time and to go to my new job too. But the choice is yours. I wish you successful decision! I wish you the most suitable decision referring to your wishes and dreams!