A Way of Giving The Last Respect for the Dead

@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
August 14, 2017 12:47am CST
Here in the Philipines, the Catholics would have about 3-5 days of wake or vigil of their dead either at home or at the funeral parlor. Last Sunday, the burial of my hubby’s cousin in Bataan, was different since they are of a different religion. The wakes don’t have a mass offered everyday as told by the child of the dead when I asked her. From the house where the wake was, the dead were carried to the cemetery and buried. A snack was served while the dead’s tomb was being sealed then, after that, we all went home. With us, there will be a 9-day prayer meeting for the dead after the burial. Masses will be done at the wake and eulogies at the mass will also be said by those close to the dead in the church before we finally bury the dead at the cemetery. Foods will later be served at the house of the family after the burial. After that, a 9-day prayer meeting will be held for the dead at the house of the family of the dead. At the last day, foods will be served for the attendees, a bit more than at the everyday 9-day prayer meeting. What about you guys? Any traditions on how the dead are buried and given a vigil?
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
14 Aug 17
And I may add, we have forty days too,
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Aug 17
Yes. We as Catholics observe that. Though, I am not very knowledgeable of how it is done. I only know of the 9 days.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 17
@hereandthere I am also not sure about it. Actually, I haven't attended any yet just only the last part where there are some foods prepared for everyone to partake.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
@Lucky15 Oh, I see. I am quite confused with the 9 day if it is the novena before the burial, then how is it when the vigil is only for a few days then burial already?
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
17 Aug 17
We don't vigil for 9 days. We have mass on the day of the burial.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 17
Are you a Roman Catholic too? I think the 9 days begins on the first day of the wake.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
17 Aug 17
@SIMPLYD I was a Catholic and now a born again Christian.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 17
@jobelbojel Oh, I see, just like my sister and her family. So, the born again Christian also have mass during the wakes and on the day of the burial?
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• Philippines
14 Aug 17
My mom does it with her friends in their christian organization. Yeah it's the usual tradition by Catholics.
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@jstory07 (134448)
• Roseburg, Oregon
14 Aug 17
Nothing fancy like that here.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
14 Aug 17
You are right friend, but those non RC no longer hold masses.They have different religion so different beliefs unlike us RC peps.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Aug 17
@SIMPLYD You are right, friend,
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