Is It hurts When Your Own People Criticize ?
By SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16094)
Bangladesh
August 19, 2017 12:22am CST
I'm a soft hearted emotional fool girl. I love so quick, hate so quick and forgive quick, forget quick! I have some own people who make me n made me feel worse than an orphan and they never appreciate my creativity even criticize them to put me down when the other people appreciate me!
Sometimes I ask myself am i the only one who born in this earth with such bad luck having own people more than an enemy?
So, it hurts because i expect good words from those own! I should stop expecting! I wish I could!
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9 responses
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Aug 17
No you are NOT alone. Seems those are the ones that say the worst things to us, our own people. Dont believe them and just keep doing good.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Aug 17
The biggest challenge is when we expect our family to be of help but they are the one who would criticize us. Focus on your goals. Try to find other groups in order to divert your attention. People that can help you with your goals.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Aug 17
@SHOHANA I know you are very talented. Here is a common scenario. When a tree has no fruit, no one dares to throw a stone on it. But see a tree with lots of fruits, people will throw stones to get the fruit. That is also the same when we are at the point of almost being successful. People will start criticizing us. Don't' let these criticisms pull us down. Work silently until you are well equipped and let your success silence them.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
19 Aug 17
@ARIES1973 so sweet of you dear but I don't agree that i'm talented, just try my best to do my duties that's it, see your words heal my pain though i didn't expect such words from you as you far away from me but you are my friend and your words made my day ! An emotional hug for you 
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
I'm so sorry that they criticize you so badly. Hope that it won't get you down though and hope that it'll make you become a stronger person.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@SHOHANA If you allow yourself to be broken, you are letting them win. Let the pain pass but don't let it break you.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
19 Aug 17
@toniganzon you know what dear it make me feel broken inside doesn't matter how strong i'm
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
19 Aug 17
@ridingbet I wish i could be a stone heart
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
@SHOHANA just think about the bad things that person did to you.
it is okay to cry and vent out your emotions, but then, after a deep sigh, you should be able to let go and move on.
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@tprashant (98)
• India
19 Aug 17
Shohana i understand what is it like going through this and have gone through the same .was an emotional fool at a point in life .See if you take the negativity of life in a positive way it would make you strong .Yea you're right ,Stop expecting . Sometimes they might criticize you to see you perform even more better .it depends how you take it .Try not to think much about it , ignore it ,be calm and think about the people who bring positive energy in your life .
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
19 Aug 17
@tprashant very well said, thank you so much for your precious comment, its really worth to be appreciated, I really thinks negative too much and I can realize it sometimes
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@tprashant (98)
• India
19 Aug 17
@SHOHANA glad you think like that .and yes get rid of being negative on those criticisms .don't hurt yourself .God has given you a great life ,don't waste it on foolish and silly things like these .
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Aug 17
I am just opposite of yours, I won't love quick, I won't hate quick, I may forgive but never forget.
Criticism is something we have to listen in our life. It is very common. Then expectation, never expect anything from any one, then 'peace' will be yours. Just find out the power inside of yours. Everything is inside my dear, just recognize it. Then no one can hurt you any more.
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@sabtraversa (12937)
• Italy
19 Aug 17
Sorry to hear that. 
I must have a strong personality, I'm not always hurt by criticism. 
That's because what I think comes first, if I don't agree with what others said, I don't take it personally.
I'm hurt if they say something I already know. 
And people often don't know all the effort behind the things you do, but you know, so that's also why I believe it's important to give priority to what you think. 
But maybe I'm just a psychopath. 
It sucks when those close to you don't support you though, but it can happen.
You can't really know if they say so to put you down or if they don't like/understand your art, so always prioritize your own opinion. 
I must have a strong personality, I'm not always hurt by criticism.
That's because what I think comes first, if I don't agree with what others said, I don't take it personally.
I'm hurt if they say something I already know.
And people often don't know all the effort behind the things you do, but you know, so that's also why I believe it's important to give priority to what you think.
But maybe I'm just a psychopath.
It sucks when those close to you don't support you though, but it can happen.
You can't really know if they say so to put you down or if they don't like/understand your art, so always prioritize your own opinion. 1 person likes this
@sabtraversa (12937)
• Italy
26 Aug 17
@SHOHANA The more you get hurt, the stronger you become.
Just don't forget to be good with those who deserve to be treated well, but I don't think you forget.
Just don't forget to be good with those who deserve to be treated well, but I don't think you forget. @SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
26 Aug 17
@sabtraversa yup you are strong not a fool like me 
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