OK what is up with the no questions?
By snowy
@snowy22315 (169638)
United States
August 23, 2017 10:52am CST
So, I have been talking to a potential love interest online for several days. We get along great..he is interesting, we seem to be on the same wavelength, I find him fairly impressive..and I hope likewise, however, this guy never asks me any questions..even though we have conversed quite a bit..it is 95 percent me asking questions and he responding, and then we discuss whatever the topic is, travel or whatever. I knew someone like this before, who was only interested in what I could do for him..I could have been anybody..and I don't want to repeat that scenario. I guess I could bring this no question thing up to him..the new guy,,but I think I will likely get some kind of glib response. He is no dummy. However, I think this is the best way to handle it. What do you all think?
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8 responses
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
23 Aug 17
I would definitely talk about it with him.. goodluck either way.
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Thanks, yeah I did..after clonwing around for awhile he did come up with some decent questions.
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
@Courtlynn Yeah, I think he is intrigued..but he isn't gonna win me without a fight.!
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Just the fact that you are already wondering about something odd, is not a good sign to me Snowy. Just my thoughts on it...I wonder what is up with that. It is natural to ask questions and if he isn´t that is strange.
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Yes, it is a bit odd, but otherwise he is great. I brought it up to him..lets see what he does with it.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
23 Aug 17
@snowy22315 Yes lets see Snowy. Good he is great otherwise though.
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
@TiarasOceanView Yes, time will tell..he will either get in shape or he won't/..in which case, he will go way on the back burner.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Aug 17
He sounds like he's more interested in himself and his interests than yours. That's the only reason I can think of why he wouldn't want to know more about you.
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Well to be honest once I confronted him he started asking decent questions. Then I told him to answer the same questions and he said..come up with your own..I am easy, but not that easy..
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Not really..no, we just talk in general, although it has been interesting. I mean I am curious about new people, I just think that is natural. No questions worries me.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
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23 Aug 17
@snowy22315 If someone is new and I am interested, I would like to know as much about that person as possible. Just in case he is thinking it is rude to ask - you volunteer information about yourself and see how he reacts.
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
@Kandae11 I brought up the no question thing. He said..he doesn't ask alot of questions, but he has learned alot about me from my responses. I said that asking questions conveys interest, otherwise I could be anybody.
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@Hate2Iron (15730)
• Canada
23 Aug 17
I find that kind of odd... shouldn't he want to know what you like??
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@Marilynda1225 (79592)
• United States
23 Aug 17
I'd just be cautious and if your gut tells you something is off listen to it
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@snowy22315 (169638)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Yeah, you are right..I think he is OK, but to me it is just basic to ask questions about someone you have just met.
