This is How I Feel about NOT Working!

@DianneN (246819)
United States
August 23, 2017 12:42pm CST
I had a longish and successful career as a general education teacher, special education teacher, and professor of special education at our local university. However, I took an early retirement buy out offer, and it was an opportunity I couldn't refuse. Sure, I loved teaching. I loved my coworkers. I loved many of the parents. I even loved most of the principals, superintendents, and supervisors. I am still good friends with many of the staff and parents. We go out for lunches, drinks, and I still attend school parties. However, I love being free to sleep late. I love being able to read more and do whatever I want during school hours. I love receiving the same amount of money per month as I did when teaching, raises and all. I love being able to spend my winters in Florida. I love seeing friends and family whenever I want. I still get those going back to school feelings, a mixture of anticipation and anxiety, but it lessens each year. No more superintendent's address, no more workshops and staff development, no more parent teacher conferences, no more paperwork, no more lugging a book bag back and forth daily, no more meetings before meetings, no more legal documents to write, and no more bus duty! Woot Woot!' Don't get me wrong. I loved my career, but love my life now!
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58 responses
• United States
23 Aug 17
Well that is good you still get the same amount of money as well as raises too Dianne! That is a big bonus! Of course you would love being able to do as you please. I am glad life has been good to you in your career and now retirement.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Thank you. I love being free. My husband was always the bread winner, and my earnings, the gravy.
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• United States
23 Aug 17
@DianneN And thats perfect
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 17
@TiarasOceanView , very well said my friend.
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@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
23 Aug 17
I can definitely understand that. It can be nice to not have to worry about having to go to work or anything like that.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 17
@dodo19. life will be so relaxed and cool during retirement.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
No worries. Free as a bird and loving life 24/7! Thank you!
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
24 Aug 17
You do seem to have a full life which would not have been possible if you were stilL working. I gave up working midway and did so many things. I did a course in German, attended a few computer classes, went on a foreign holiday, learnt to swim, had time to visit friends and family, started my own business designing landscaped gardens.and last but not the least had time to travel to the place where I am now, to build SOLITAIRE
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
24 Aug 17
Wow! You certainly did a lot! I'm sure Solitaire is your pride and joy! We have always traveled abroad three times a year, and did a lot after I retired. We haven't done any for the last two years, since Turkey and all the bombings.
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
24 Aug 17
I feel really very down when I don't have work n earning source
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@TheHorse (205753)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jan 18
That's the way I am now. I wonder what it will be like when I hit "retirement age."
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Aug 17
I second the motion
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
11 Jan 18
Motion passed. LOL
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
23 Aug 17
I can feel your excitement for being retired all the way here.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Good! It can be felt around the world, too!
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
23 Aug 17
@DianneN oh I'm sure lol
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
24 Aug 17
Good for you! So many people retire and find out that they can't stand it.
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@TheHorse (205753)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jan 18
That's what I'd worry about. @DianneM has an active family life and enjoys travel, though.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
15 Jan 18
Oh, I just love it, even if it takes me away from myLot. lol
@DianneN (246819)
• United States
15 Jan 18
@TheHorse Thanks, Horse. I do love my life. I'm sure you will always keep busy. You do have your wonderful music, too.
@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
24 Aug 17
I don't blame you for not going back to work. You put in many years and now it is your time. I would do the same thing if I was you. Enjoy your life to the fullest.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
24 Aug 17
@DianneN It is funny how things works out. I love the picture you put here.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
24 Aug 17
Thanks! The timing was perfect. I planned on leaving anyway. lol
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@skysnap (20154)
23 Aug 17
How about boredom? Do you feel bored for not being busy?
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
I've never been bored in my entire life. Not even once!
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Aug 17
You did your time, now go and enjoy the rest of your life.
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@TheHorse (205753)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Jan 18
"Did my time" is sometimes how I feel about working with poor families for so many years. Right now I just work with upper middle-class Jewish kids at the preschool (they're absolutely precious and their parents are fun to talk to) and my college students.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
24 Aug 17
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Jan 18
@TheHorse I would like to think I will retire one day, travel and have fun but I dont see it in the near future. Unless I suddenly get rich.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
24 Aug 17
I am at the stage of loving my career right now
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@TheHorse (205753)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jan 18
Me too, though I had to back off a bit. Too many hours means too little time to play music and softball, and even to socialize.
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@mysimplelot (1347)
• Calcutta, India
24 Aug 17
At some point of time we do remember our old days. I remember my school days too.I hate paperworks too. You can do whatever you like but feeling like not working is worse because it does not keep your spirit alive.
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@TheHorse (205753)
• Walnut Creek, California
15 Jan 18
I hate paperwork too. Leaving one of my jobs means less paperwork. What I'm left with is perfect.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
15 Jan 18
All I did was paperwork. Mine was legally binding. I was answerable to it.
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
23 Aug 17
That is awesome. It always makes me sad when some retired folks sort of crumble - nothing to do.... it sounds like your life is very full and enjoyable I'm happy to hear
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Thank you! No crumbling for me! lol We've always lived a full and active life. No big difference here.
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@TheHorse (205753)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Jan 18
@FayeHazel I agree.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
24 Aug 17
@DianneN Awesome, the best way to live, I think!
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23 Aug 17
Hahahaha... What a nice pic!
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Thanks!
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@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
24 Aug 17
I have not worked at any career long enough to ever dream of retirement in this way. I also tend to become a hermit when not working. I recognize both the ups and downs of what I do and believe me, I would jump at a chance to change to something less consuming and stressful. My daughter points out that I have spent my life taking care of people, especially the last twenty years. That is both family and work. I am looking for a way to take care of me. We enjoy you sharing your retirement life with us though.
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@rebelann (111171)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Aug 17
Boy how I wish SS would pay me what I made prior to retirement ........... oh well, it's not too bad.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
Awww, just as long as you have enough to live on. Mine is from the teachers' retirement pension.
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@rebelann (111171)
• El Paso, Texas
24 Aug 17
So do you owe any taxes on these checks @DianneN ?
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
24 Aug 17
@rebelann Yes, of course! It's taken out before they are direct deposited.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
24 Aug 17
Seconded! That's exactly how I feel, too.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 Aug 17
I am so jealous! I wish I was in a position to retire right now, because I am somewhat burned out on my career. I have a little less than five years to go before I can retire with my full pension. I'm sorta hoping that in about 3-4 years we enter into another recession, because typically during downturns in the economy governments offer early retirement and buyouts of employees to thin the employee ranks. And I would take the offer in a heartbeat if it came my way! I want to be like you and sleep in as late as I want!
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 Aug 17
@DianneN I'm thinking I might be able to hang in there and make it five more years, because time definitely speeds up as we age, so it should fly by pretty fast!
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
24 Aug 17
@moffittjc It does go quickly in retrospect. You can do it!
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
24 Aug 17
Lol! Sleeping is good! No harsh, shrill alarms waking me up at 5 or 5:30 anymore. I didn't go for full pension, but what I have is good enough. Just take it one day at a time!
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• Eugene, Oregon
24 Aug 17
I know that teaching can be a grueling career. Anne taught on air force bases in Turkey and Germany for a number of years.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
23 Aug 17
I know there are things you would miss, but your life now seems just as interesting-- in addition to being able to do what you want, when you want etc.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
23 Aug 17
To be honest, I don't miss a thing. . School always interfered with my social life, errands, and doctor appointments. I had to wait for weekends, vacations, or summer vacations.
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