All marriages is not equality .

@amadeo (42118)
United States
August 28, 2017 10:03am CST
Good morning.Happy Monday yes you heard me right all marriages are not equal. This is a good start for me on this Monday morning. I am saying about gay marriages and straight marriages. Photo is public domaine Below is some wording that I found online. Take a look. ___________________________________________________________________ These days it’s common to hear people say that our marriages should be “equal.” An “equal partnership,” they call it, which makes it sound like you’re starting a law firm together rather than entering into a sacred covenant. I think this notion of marriage is false, and from my own experience I can say that our marriage has never once been helped by trying to “make things equal.” That’s what squabbling siblings worry about, not loving and self-giving spouses.
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• United States
28 Aug
Its impossible to make things even!
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@AbbyGreenhill.For some I imagine this
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@DianneN (52972)
• United States
28 Aug
My marriage has been blissful from the day we married. We give and take without ever thinking of equality, love, laugh, and help each other without question, and trust and appreciate each other. That should be the case in any marriage, heterosexual or not.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@DianneN yes and this is well said there.
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@DianneN (52972)
• United States
28 Aug
@amadeo Thank you!!!
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@DianneN I like what you say there
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• Lakewood, Colorado
28 Aug
I will never marry again, equal or not lol
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@TiarasOceanView yes I would do if I was divorced.
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@khaezi (971)
• Philippines
28 Aug
I'm about to get married this Dec 2017, been with my guy for 14 years. It's been good so far for both of us the spark is still there and sweetness. Just take it light, respect each other and learn to give and take. ??
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@khaezi yes .Very well put there.I liked it.
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@thelme55 (10077)
• Germany
28 Aug
Being married is not easy. It is a partnership that can go through until the end of your life or not. The couple should respect one another, honest, loyal, love, patoence and many things that keep the married life alive. I don't care if the couple are gay or not as long as they are good people.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@thelma55 yes.we are good people.
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@thelme55 (10077)
• Germany
28 Aug
@amadeo I am sure you are
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@thelme55 I hope so
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@just4him (81663)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
28 Aug
I agree. Marriage is not equal. There should be give and take from both.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@just4him.thank you
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@just4him (81663)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Aug
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@suziecat7 (3444)
• Asheville, North Carolina
28 Aug
There's always give and take. As long as there's love and respect, that's what counts.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@suziecat6 yes give and take.But not take take.lol
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@Corbin5 (70174)
• United States
28 Aug
Trying to make things equal sure would be a struggle and result in some arguments in a marriage.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@Corbin5 yes sorry to say but there are some.Lot of anger in the new generation.
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@kepweng (2045)
28 Aug
ill respect all gender all people must have equal rights No to descrimation
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@kepweng correct there.Thank you
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@andriaperry (25491)
• Anniston, Alabama
29 Aug
I agree 100% its give and take, compromise.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@andriaperry yep your right.
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@Lucky15 (33487)
• Philippines
28 Aug
I have know few people that, yes, may not really be equal
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@Lucky15 I see.
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@teamfreak16 (31893)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
28 Aug
I agree. It's often easier letting my girlfriend have her way, even if I am against it.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@teamfreak16 okay Scott.
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@hostessman (6327)
• Tucson, Arizona
28 Aug
the word equal has never crossed my mjnd in all the years we been married
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@hostessman That is good there.
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@Kandae11 (21924)
28 Aug
I was married once - and I think I prefer being single.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
28 Aug
@Kandae11 smart woman.
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@jstory07 (57495)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Aug
There are some things that one can do better than the other half can do.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@jstory07 yes that is true.
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@JudyEv (90199)
• Bunbury, Australia
28 Aug
That's a good thought you've come up with it there! Thanks for sharing.
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@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@JudyEv your welcome there
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@RubyHawk (18838)
• Atlanta, Georgia
29 Aug
I think you're right. Sometimes we give sometimes we take. It should be according to need. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't.
@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@RubyHawk yes never a happy medium.
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@RubyHawk (18838)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Aug
@amadeo We can't expect everything to be peaches and cream.
@amadeo (42118)
• United States
30 Aug
@RubyHawk no but you can work it out.
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@mandala100 (23485)
• Hong Kong
29 Aug
@amadeo Thank you for this very interesting post on marriage my friend.
@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@mandala well try to make it interesting there.Peter.Thank you
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@mandala100 (23485)
• Hong Kong
30 Aug
@amadeo Alright my friend and I'll see you later on.
@amadeo (42118)
• United States
30 Aug
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• Philippines
29 Aug
I feel more like it depends on your definition of "equal" in terms of a marriage. Mostly has to do with your expectations going into a relationship, married or not. And compatibility more than anything. For example, if one of you wants to have kids but the other doesn't, then how is that marriage going to work if neither will compromise, right? Wouldn't it be better to find a partner whose goals at least mostly align with your most important ones?
@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@loverofilamas very good there and this make a lot of sense.Thank you
• Philippines
3 Sep
@amadeo Thank you too!
@HazySue (15183)
• United States
29 Aug
There is a lot of give and take in a good marriage. If you spend you time trying to make things equal you are not paying attention to the marriage.
@amadeo (42118)
• United States
29 Aug
@HazySue depends how you look at it.Challenge
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