Happy 51st Birthday Mom
By UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
Wausau, Wisconsin
19 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
4 Sep 17
So sorry to hear that but good that you always remember her on her special day. I am sure she thinks of you often.
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@mildredtabitha (16051)
• Nairobi, Kenya
4 Sep 17
A third party can help you two to be close again. Do you wish her a happy birthday face to face, through a text, on the phone or ask someone do it for you?
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
4 Sep 17
@mildredtabitha i doubt it. but its ok
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@mildredtabitha (16051)
• Nairobi, Kenya
4 Sep 17
@carebear29 I hope she will soon want to connect with you just as much as you want. :)
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@averygirl72 (37716)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
She's still young my mom is a lot older than her. Hope she have more birthdays to come
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
4 Sep 17
Happy birthday to your mom..may she have a healthy life
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
4 Sep 17
Sorry to hear of this with your Mom..however, happy bday to her.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
4 Sep 17
@carebear29 Yes it certainly does Nikki..you are not alone in this..
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@JasperTore (1275)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
Happy 51st birthday to your mom! Wishing her good health and happy life!
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
4 Sep 17
At one time I stopped speaking to my mother. Then, after almost a year, I found there were some things going on that I didn't like. She was retired, elderly and a widow - in her late 70s - and I heard things from my sister who lives far away in another state. I called my mother. I realized how alone she must feel with no one to help her against a horrible person. I stepped in and supported her emotionally and spent time with her. I let her know she wasn't alone and I would shield her against this person - my evil SIL. I stayed close to her. I'm glad I did. She passed away 8 years later and I was the one with her to the end. My brother sided with his wicked wife. I know how much this hurt her, he was her baby. I miss her every day. I would give anything if I could have her back. And I'm glad that I mended the rift between us.
But that was just my experience. We all have to do what is best for us. It's good of you to remember your mother on her birthday. A kindness I hope she appreciates. 
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
5 Sep 17
@carebear29 I understand. I've said that myself at times about a few individuals. I do consider it their loss. I believe that's the best way to look at it.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
4 Sep 17
i honestly dont care, its her loss
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
4 Sep 17
@carebear29 you must, to write about her especially on her birthday. But its ok i get it
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@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
4 Sep 17
I am sorry to hear this. I wish I could talk with my mother again. My mother passed away almost 10 tears ago.
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@snowy22315 (169893)
• United States
4 Sep 17
It is nice of you to wish your mom Happy Birthday..and remember what they say.."To err is human, to forgive..divine."
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Sep 17
I'm sorry you don't have a relationship with her. Is there anything you can do for things to change between y'all?
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
4 Sep 17
nothing. everyone in family has tried.
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@kobesbuddy (74528)
• East Tawas, Michigan
4 Sep 17
@carebear29 I hope your mother has a great Birthday, but it would be a lot better if Nikki was there!:)
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
4 Sep 17
Happy Birthday to your Mom @carebear29. It would be better if she reads this post of yours. Maybe it will make a difference.
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